Awiriwa adalimbana ndi kusabereka kwa zaka zisanu ndi zitatu popanda kupambana. Zonse zinali zopanda ntchito mpaka anadzitengera okha serious.
Madokotala amayamba kulankhula za kusabereka pamene mwamuna ndi mkazi sangathe kutenga pakati patatha chaka choyesa mwakhama. Emra wazaka 39 ndi mwamuna wake wazaka 39 Avni ankafunadi banja lalikulu kwambiri: anali ndi ana awiri, koma ankafuna osachepera mmodzi. Koma kwa zaka zisanu ndi zitatu sanapambane. Banjali linathedwa nzeru. Ndiyeno zinaonekeratu: tiyenera kudzitengera tokha.
Mwana woyamba wa Emra ndi Avni anatenga pakati pogwiritsa ntchito IVF. Kachiwiri, mtsikanayo anakwanitsa kutenga pakati yekha. Ndiyeno ... Kenako onsewo analemera kwambiri moti zinakhudza chonde.
“Ndife banja la ku Cypriot, chakudya chathu ndi gawo lofunikira pachikhalidwe chathu. Tonse timakonda pasitala, mbale za mbatata. Kuonjezera apo, tinali ogwirizana kwambiri moti sitinayang'ane kuti tinkanenepa ngakhale pang'ono. Tinakhala omasuka komanso omasuka wina ndi mnzake, ”akutero Emra.
Kotero banjali linadya kukula kochititsa chidwi: Avni ankalemera makilogalamu 161, Emra - 113. Komanso, mtsikanayo anapezeka kuti ali ndi matenda a polycystic ovary, chifukwa chakuti anakula mofulumira kwambiri, ndipo kuthekera kwa pakati kunali kuchepa mofulumira. Kenako zinthu zinasintha: Avni anagonekedwa m’chipatala chifukwa cha vuto la kupuma. Madokotala, atamuyeza wodwala wonenepayo, adanena chigamulo: anali pafupi ndi matenda a shuga a mtundu wachiwiri. Muyenera kudya, muyenera kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi.
“Tinazindikira kuti tifunika kusintha chilichonse mwachangu. Ndinkachita mantha ndi Avni. Ankachitanso mantha, chifukwa matenda a shuga ndi oopsa kwambiri, "Emra adatero poyankhulana ndi .
Awiriwa adasamalira thanzi limodzi. Anayenera kusiya zakudya zomwe amakonda kwambiri zama carbohydrate ndikulembetsa nawo masewera olimbitsa thupi. Inde, kulemera kunayamba kuchoka. Patapita chaka, Emra anataya pafupifupi makilogalamu 40 pamene mphunzitsi wake anayamba kuona kuti msungwanayo amawoneka wotopa kwambiri, wopanda maganizo.
“Anandifunsa chimene chinachitika. Ndidati ndikuchedwa, koma mkhalidwe wanga ndi wabwinobwino, - akutero Emra. "Koma mphunzitsi adanenetsa kuti ndigule zoyezetsa mimba."
Panthawiyi, banjali linayamba kuganizira za ulendo wina wa IVF. Ndipo palibe amene angaganizire kugwedezeka kwa mtsikanayo pamene adawona mizere itatu pamayeso - adakhala ndi pakati mwachibadwa! Mwa njira, panthawiyo mwamuna wake anali atataya pafupifupi theka la kulemera kwake - adagwetsa 80 kilos. Ndipo izi, nazonso, sizikanatha kuchitapo kanthu.
Patapita nthawi, Emra anabala mtsikana wotchedwa Serena. Ndipo pambuyo pa miyezi itatu yokha, anakhalanso ndi pakati! Zinapezeka kuti simunafunikire kudzizunza ndi IVF kuti muyambe banja lamaloto - mumangofunika kuonda.
Tsopano awiriwa ali okondwa kwambiri: akulera atsikana atatu ndi mnyamata.
“Ife tangokhala kumwamba kwachisanu ndi chiwiri. Sindinakhulupirirebe kuti ndinakwanitsa kutenga mimba ndikubereka ndekha, ngakhale mofulumira kwambiri! ”- Emra akumwetulira.
Zakudya za Emra ndi Avni mpaka…
Chakumwa - chimanga ndi mkaka kapena toast
chakudya - masangweji, zokazinga, chokoleti ndi yoghurt
chakudya - steak, jekete mbatata zophikidwa ndi tchizi, nyemba ndi saladi
zokhwasula-khwasula - mipiringidzo ya chokoleti ndi tchipisi
...ndipo pambuyo pake
Chakumwa - phula mazira ndi tomato
chakudya - saladi ya nkhuku
chakudya - nsomba ndi masamba ndi mbatata
zokhwasula-khwasula - zipatso, nkhaka kapena timitengo ta karoti