Mafunso oyenera kusankha umayi

Ndikaberekera kuti?

Mukangotsimikizira kuti muli ndi pakati, muyenera kulembetsa ku chipatala cha amayi oyembekezera. Kodi mumapeza bwanji yomwe ingakwaniritse zomwe mukuyembekezera? Mwachidule mafunso ofunika kudzifunsa.

Kodi muyenera kusankha chipatala cha amayi oyembekezera pafupi ndi kwanu?

Palibe lamulo loti amayi amtsogolo adzalembetse m'chipinda china cha amayi oyembekezera. Amayi ali omasuka kwathunthu kusankha malo oyembekezera omwe amakwaniritsa zomwe akuyembekezera. Kuberekera pafupi ndi kwathu? Izi zimapewa kuyenda maulendo ataliatali pagalimoto pokambilana mwezi ndi mwezi kapena kupita kokonzekera kubadwa. Zizindikiro zoyamba za kubereka zikaonekera, sizikhalanso zovuta kudziwa kuti umayi wayandikira. Ngati mumakhala mumzinda waukulu, lembetsani msanga chifukwa zipatala zina za amayi oyembekezera zimakhala ndi mndandanda wautali wodikirira.

Kliniki kapena chipatala, pali kusiyana kotani?

Chipatalachi chimayang'ana amayi omwe amadzimva kuti ali otetezeka m'malo azachipatala kwambiri, ndi gulu lomwe limapezeka maola 24 patsiku. Mbali ina ya ndalamazo: kulandiridwa nthawi zambiri sikukhala kwamunthu komanso malo omwe amakhala osasangalatsa ngati achipatala. Ngati mimba yanu ikuyenda bwino, mzamba adzakutsatirani. Muyeneranso kuzolowera kuwona nkhope zosiyanasiyana nthawi iliyonse..

Chipatalacho, m'malo mwake, chimapereka mwayi wanyumba yaying'ono, yokhala ndi zipinda zaubwenzi komanso ogwira ntchito omwe amamvetsera kwambiri amayi. Ngati mukufuna kukumana ndi gynecologist pa nthawi iliyonse kukambilana, njira imeneyi ndithu kukuyenererani bwino.

Ndani adzabala?

M’malo opezeka anthu ambiri, azamba amabereka amayi ndipo amasamalira chisamaliro choyamba cha mwanayo. Vuto likabuka, nthawi yomweyo amamuimbira foni dokotala woyembekezera yemwe ali pamalopo. Mzipatala zapadera, mzamba akaitanidwa amalandira mayi woyembekezera ndikuyang'anira ntchito. Mwanayo akatulutsidwa, ndi dokotala wanu wachikazi yemwe amalowererapo.

Kodi zipindazo zili ndi shawa?

Zipinda za single nthawi zambiri zimakhala zabwino kwambiri, zokhala ndi mabafa apayekha, ngodya yosinthira mwana komanso bedi lowonjezera la abambo. Zimakhala ngati hotelo! Amayi ambiri mwachiwonekere amavomereza zimenezo. Kumathandiza mayi wamng’onoyo kupuma ndi kusangalala mokwanira ndi nthaŵi yokhala paubwenzi ndi mwana wake. Zochenjeza ziwiri, komabe: ngati mukubereka panthawi yotanganidwa, sipangakhalenso kupezeka, ndiponso m’zipatala, amasungidwa makamaka kwa amayi amene achitidwa opaleshoni.

Kodi adadi atha kukhala ndikugona nane kuchipinda cha amayi?

Abambo kaŵirikaŵiri zimawavuta kusiya mabanja awo ang’onoang’ono ikafika nthaŵi yoti amalize maulendo. Ngati mayi ali m’chipinda chimodzi, nthawi zina amapatsidwa bedi lowonjezera. M'zipinda ziwiri, chifukwa chachinsinsi, izi mwatsoka sizingatheke.

Kodi ndingathe kukhala ndi munthu amene ndimamukonda pafupi ndi ine panthawi yobadwa?

Amayi obereka ayenera kugawana nawo chochitika ichi. Nthawi zambiri, ndi abambo amtsogolo omwe amapita kubadwa, koma zimachitika kuti palibe ndipo bwenzi, mlongo kapena agogo amtsogolo amabwera kudzamulowetsa. Oyembekezera nthawi zambiri samatsutsa chilichonse koma nthawi zambiri amangovomereza munthu m'modzi kwa mayiyo. Kumbukirani kufunsa funso mukalembetsa.

Kodi dokotala wakubeleka ndi wogonetsa anthu akadali pamalo operekera amayi oyembekezera?

Osati kwenikweni. Zimatengera kuchuluka kwa kubereka pachaka kwa ward ya amayi oyembekezera. Kuchokera pa kubadwa kamodzi pachaka, madokotala a ana, obereketsa azimayi ndi ogonetsa odwala amayimba foni, usiku ndi usana. Ana osakwana 1 akubadwa, akuitanidwa kunyumba, okonzeka kulowererapo.

Kodi kukonzekera kubereka kumachitika pamalo?

Maphunziro okonzekera kubereka amakonzedwa kwambiri ndi azamba m'zipinda za amayi oyembekezera. Iwo ali ndi ubwino wodziwana ndi anthu ammudzi kapena kuyendera zipinda zoberekera, koma nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha otenga nawo mbali. Kwa iwo omwe akufuna kukonzekera kwaumwini, azamba odzipereka amaphunzitsidwa njira zina monga sophrology, yoga, kukonzekera dziwe losambira kapena haptonomy. Popeza kuti malo ndi ochepa, amayi oyembekezera amalangizidwa kuti alembetse mwachangu.

Nanga idzafunika kulipira chiyani kwenikweni?

Zipatala zaboma kapena zapadera, zipatala za amayi oyembekezera zimavomerezedwa, chifukwa chake ndalama zoberekera zimaperekedwa 100% ndi Social Security.

Zowonjezera, monga chipinda chimodzi, kanema wawayilesi, lamya kapena chakudya cha abambo ndi udindo wanu m'malo osiyanasiyana (chipatala kapena chipatala). Fufuzani ndi anzanu kuti mudziwe zomwe akubwezerani. Obereketsa ena apadera sapereka matewera kapena zimbudzi za ana. Kuti mupewe zodabwitsa zosasangalatsa, ganizirani kuwafunsa musanabereke. Ngati mwasankha chipatala chosavomerezedwa ndi Social Security, ndalama zake zimakhala zokwera kwambiri ndipo zimangowononga ndalama zanu (kubereka, malipiro a madokotala, kuchereza alendo, ndi zina zotero).

Kodi tingakambirane njira zobweretsera?

Ngati chithandizo chachipatala monga opaleshoni kapena kugwiritsa ntchito mphamvu ndizovuta kukambirana, kukhazikitsa ndondomeko ya kubadwa yofotokoza zomwe mukufuna kapena kukana kwakhala chizolowezi chofala kwambiri. Oyembekezera ena amakhala "otseguka" kuposa ena ndikupatsanso amayi ongobadwa kumene mwayi wosankha malo oberekera, pogwiritsa ntchito baluni panthawi ya kukomoka kapena kusayang'anira mosalekeza. Mofananamo, khanda likakhala bwino, chisamaliro china monga kumusambitsa, kuyamwa mphuno, kapena kutalika ndi kuyeza kulemera kungadikire. Lankhulani ndi azamba. Komano, pakagwa mwadzidzidzi, thanzi la mwana ndilofunika kwambiri ndipo zochita zenizeni ziyenera kuchitika nthawi yomweyo.

Kodi pali zipinda zobweretsera zachilengedwe zokhala ndi bafa?

Kusamba kumapangitsa kuti amayi oyembekezera apumule pamene kugunda kumakhala kowawa. Kuonjezera apo, madzi otentha amalimbikitsa kukula. Ena oyembekezera ali ndi bafa.

Kodi pali malangizo ena enieni oyamwitsa?

Kuyamwitsa mwana wake, palibenso mwachibadwa! Koma kuyamba sikophweka nthawi zonse ndipo kuyamwitsa pakufunika kumafuna kupezeka kwakukulu. Zipatala zambiri za amayi oyembekezera zili ndi magulu ophunzitsidwa makamaka za kuyamwitsa. Ena amapindulanso ndi mawu akuti “Chipatala chothandiza ana” omwe amatsimikizira kuti zonse zidzachitidwa kuti kuyamwitsa kukhale kopambana.

Pakakhala zovuta za mimba, kodi tiyenera kusintha umayi?

Zipatala zapadera kapena zaboma, zipatala za amayi oyembekezera zimakonzedwa molumikizana kuti zitsimikizire chitetezo chachikulu kwa amayi ndi makanda awo. Pakakhala zovuta pa nthawi ya mimba kapena kubereka, mayi amasamutsidwira kumalo oyenera kwambiri. Ngati chipatala chanu cha amayi ndi mtundu wa 1, kusamutsidwa kumangochitika, ndi madokotala omwe amasamalira.