Psychology
Mufilimuyi "Woman. Munthu»

Mkaziyo akukhulupirira kuti iye ali pakati pa chilengedwe chonse.

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Dziko la munthu ndi dziko lolunjika. Mwamuna akhoza kudziwa bwino maubwenzi, koma poyamba, mwachibadwa chake, ntchito yamphongo ndiyo kupanga zinthu, kukonza zinthu, kumvetsa zinthu.

Dziko la mkazi ndi dziko la ubale wa anthu. Mkazi amatha kuyenda bwino m'chilengedwe, koma chikhalidwe chake chachikazi sichili dziko lofuna, koma maubwenzi ndi malingaliro amkati. Mkazi amakhala ndi malingaliro ake ndipo ali ndi chidwi ndi maubwenzi omwe malingaliro ake adzakhala nawo: choyamba, ichi ndi banja, mwamuna ndi ana.

Amuna ali ndi zofunikira komanso chikhumbo chofuna kukwaniritsa cholinga, akazi amakhala ndi malingaliro omveka, chikhumbo cha mgwirizano wamalingaliro.

Azimayi amakonda kusokoneza maubwenzi kusiyana ndi amuna (onani →) ndipo nthawi yomweyo amakhala otsimikiza kuti sakuwongolera (onani →).

Tonse tinachokera ubwana. Kuyambira ali mwana: atsikana amasewera ndi zidole, anyamata amanyamula ndi kupanga magalimoto.

Anyamata ndi atsikana ngakhale asanabadwe "amadziwa" omwe adzasewera magalimoto ndi omwe adzasewera ndi zidole. Musandikhulupirire, yesani kupereka chisankho kwa mnyamata wazaka ziwiri, muzochitika makumi asanu ndi anayi mwa zana adzasankha magalimoto.

Anyamata amatha kusewera ndi midadada kapena magalimoto - kwa maola ambiri. Ndipo pa nthawi ino atsikana - kwa maola! - khalani ndi maubwenzi, sewerani banja, sewerani maudindo osiyanasiyana muubwenzi, kuwonetsa chakukhosi ndi kukhululukirana ...

Apa ana anajambula pa mutu wa «danga». Pamaso pathu pali chimodzi mwazojambula. Nayi roketi: ma nozzles onse ndi ma nozzles amakokedwa mosamala, pafupi ndi iyo pali wamlengalenga. Amayima ndi msana wake, koma kumbuyo kwake pali masensa ambiri osiyanasiyana. Mosakayikira, ichi ndi chojambula cha mnyamata. Ndipo apa pali chojambula china: roketi imakokedwa schematically, pafupi ndi izo ndi wamlengalenga - ndi nkhope yake, ndi pa nkhope ndi maso ndi cilia, ndi masaya, ndi milomo - chirichonse mosamala kukopeka. Izi, ndithudi, zinakopeka ndi mtsikana. Kawirikawiri, anyamata nthawi zambiri amajambula zida (akasinja, magalimoto, ndege ...), zojambula zawo zimadzazidwa ndi zochita, kuyenda, chirichonse chimayenda mozungulira, kuthamanga, kumapanga phokoso. Ndipo atsikana amajambula anthu (nthawi zambiri mafumu), kuphatikizapo iwo eni.

Tiyeni tifanizire zojambula zenizeni za ana a gulu lokonzekera la kindergarten: mnyamata ndi mtsikana. Mutuwu ndi womwewo "pambuyo pa chipale chofewa". Anyamata onse m’gululo, kusiyapo mmodzi, anajambula zipangizo zokololera, ndipo atsikanawo anadzijambula okha akudumpha m’chipale chofeŵa. Pakatikati pa chithunzi cha mtsikanayo - nthawi zambiri iye mwini ...

Ngati mupempha ana kuti ajambule msewu wopita ku sukulu ya mkaka, ndiye kuti anyamata nthawi zambiri amajambula zoyendera kapena zojambula, ndipo atsikana amadzijambula ndi amayi awo pamanja. Ndipo ngakhale mtsikana atakoka basi, ndiye iye mwini amayang'ana pawindo: ndi cilia, masaya ndi mauta.

Ndipo anyamata ndi atsikana amayankha bwanji m'kalasi mu sukulu ya kindergarten kapena kusukulu? Mnyamata akuyang'ana pa desiki, kumbali kapena kutsogolo kwake, ndipo, ngati akudziwa yankho, amayankha molimba mtima, ndipo mtsikanayo akuyang'ana pamaso pa mphunzitsi kapena mphunzitsi ndipo, poyankha, akuyang'ana m'maso mwawo kuti atsimikizire za kulondola kwa yankho lake, ndipo kokha pambuyo pa kugwedeza kwa munthu wamkulu kumapitirizabe molimba mtima . Ndipo pankhani ya ana, mzere womwewo ungatsatidwe. Anyamata amatha kufunsa mafunso akuluakulu kuti adziwe zambiri (Kodi phunziro lathu lotsatira ndi lotani?), ndi atsikana kuti adzifunse munthu wamkulu (Kodi mudzabwerabe kwa ife?). Ndiko kuti, anyamata (ndi abambo) amayang'ana kwambiri chidziwitso, ndipo atsikana (ndi akazi) amakhala okonda kwambiri maubwenzi pakati pa anthu. Onani →

Kukula, anyamata amasanduka amuna, atsikana kukhala akazi, koma makhalidwe a maganizo awa amakhalabe. Azimayi amagwiritsa ntchito mpata uliwonse kuti asinthe zokambirana za bizinesi kukhala zokambirana za momwe akumvera komanso maubwenzi. Amuna, m'malo mwake, amawona izi ngati zosokoneza ndikuyesera kumasulira zokambirana zamalingaliro ndi maubwenzi kukhala mtundu wina wabizinesi: "Tikunena chiyani?" Kuntchito, mwamuna ayenera kugwira ntchito, osati zamalingaliro. Onani →

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