Psychology

Mwamuna ndi wakunja, ichi ndi chochita, ichi ndi khalidwe. Mwamuna, monga mkazi, ali ndi malingaliro ndi zochitika, koma izi siziri zofunikira kwa iye, kapena zimawonedwa ngati zochitika zina zachilendo.

Ndizowopsa - osasamala, musadandaule. Kapena: “Inde, zimapweteka. Koma kodi n’zotheka kupirira? Chabwino, chitani zomwe muyenera kuchita. "

Mkazi ndi mkhalidwe wamkati, kumverera ndi chokumana nacho. Azimayi amamvetsera kwambiri malingaliro awo, ndi ofunika kwa iwo ndipo ndi chinthu chovuta kwambiri chomwe sichinganyalanyazidwe, popanda zomwe moyo wabwinobwino ndi zochita zachibadwa sizingatheke.

Hello, Nikolai Ivanovich. Ndili ndi zaka 17. Ndili ndi zaka 14, ndinaona kuti amuna akuluakulu ankandikonda. Ndikumvetsa chifukwa chake. Ndine msungwana wokongola, wochezeka, abwenzi ambiri amakonda kulankhula nane, funsani nane, anyamata ngati ine, makamaka, ambiri. Koma pamene mnyamata amandikonda, ndimakondwera, ndipo ndikawona chidwi cha mwamuna (makamaka mphunzitsi), zimayamba kundiwopsyeza, sizikudziwika bwino chifukwa chiyani, ndikumvetsa kuti mwamuna wabwino komanso popanda chilolezo changa. “sadzandikhudza” ine. ndiye ndikuopa chiyani? mwina nokha - ayi. Ndinaganiza za izi: Ndine wolinganizika mu dongosolo ili, ndikhoza kudziletsa, sindiri wokondweretsedwa ndi amuna. Ndipo mantha akhala. Ndipo sindingathe kuthana ndi kumverera uku. Sindikudziwa ngakhale funso loyenera kukufunsani. ndichite chiyani ndikumverera uku, komanso chifukwa cha mantha awa.

Amuna samamvetsetsa nkhani zotere za malingaliro. Chabwino, mtsikanayo akuwopa, koma bwanji tcheru khutu pa izi ndikuganiza za izo nkomwe, ngati palibe khalidwe loopsa pa izi: mtsikanayo ali wotsimikiza kuti amuna sadzamukhudza iye, ndipo iye mwini ali woyenerera ndipo sadzachita. chilichonse chopusa.

Kwa amayi, kudzikonda nthawi zambiri kumakhala kwachilengedwe, kochokera pansi pamtima, kudzisamalira mwachimwemwe, kwa thupi lanu. Pamene mkazi amasamalira zonse zomwe ali nazo, amamva ndi kuyamikira zabwino zomwe ziri mwa iye, amadzisamalira yekha ndi chisangalalo, ndikukhala ndi kuwala kwamkati, ndiye tikhoza kunena za mkazi wotero kuti amadzikonda yekha. Chikondi kwa mkazi ndi kumverera, chikondi chake ndi chikhalidwe chofunda, ndipo pakati pa chikondi chake ndi kumverera kwa chitonthozo.

Amuna ali ndi kumvetsetsa kosiyana kwa kudzikonda. Amuna amalankhula za chikondi nthawi zambiri, koma ngati mungathe kunena kuti munthu uyu amadzikonda yekha, ndiye kuti zochita zake zimakhala zodalirika, zomwe zimayima kumbuyo kwa moyo wa munthu. Adzasamba, kuphunzitsa, kusewera masewera, kugwira ntchito ndi khalidwe lake, ndiko kuti, kwa mwamuna, kudzikonda ndiko kuchita. Zoyenera kuchita ndi inu nokha kuti mukhale wokondwa, wanzeru komanso wathanzi moyo wanu wonse. Kukonda mwamuna ndiko kuchitapo kanthu, chikondi chake n'chovuta, ndipo cholinga chake ndicho mphamvu ndi luso lake.

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Kudzitukumula, kudzipangira nokha mu moyo wa mwamuna ndi mkazi ali ndi makhalidwe awo.

Pakuphunzitsidwa, amuna amakhala ndi chidwi ndi momwe angakwaniritsire khalidwe lomwe akufuna. Ngati mwamuna akulankhula za vuto la kusatetezeka, sakunena za kudzimva kukhala wosatetezeka, za chikhumbo chake chofuna kuphunzira KUKHALA molimba mtima.

Pa maphunziro, akazi ndi chidwi mmene kugwira kumverera koyenera ndi kumverera, ndi choti achite - iye amasamala zochepa, izi zidzakhala mtundu wa zotsatira zachilengedwe za dziko latsopano. Onani →

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