“Zosayembekezereka”, yachiwiri ndi yovuta kutchula: “Iye ndi mzimu waufulu wabanja kapena amene amakhumudwitsa kwambiri abale ake. Pamene ana atatu akuonera TV mwakachetechete, ngati mwadzidzidzi kumva kukuwa, mukhoza kubetcherana wamng'ono anabwera kusokoneza mtendere! “ akuti Michael Grose. Chifukwa chiyani? Chifukwa chakuti wachiwiri akufunafuna malo ake pakati pa mkulu - makamaka ngati ali osiyana zaka ziwiri - amene savomereza malamulo, ndi wamng'ono amene "amubwezera"!
Ikayandikira kwambiri msinkhu kuposa woyamba kuposa ina, yachiwiri imatsatira mapazi a mkulu wake. "Ngati woyamba ali ndi udindo komanso wovuta, wachiwiri akhoza kukhala mwana wovuta" akuti Michael Grose.
Pamene wamkulu ndi wamng'ono ali pafupi kwambiri ndi msinkhu, m'pamenenso ubale wawo umakhala wodabwitsa - wodziwika ndi nthawi za mpikisano wamphamvu ndi kuphatikizika - makamaka ngati ali amuna kapena akazi okhaokha, amalingalira Françoise Peille *, katswiri wa zamaganizo. |
Mwana "wosinthika".
Nthawi zambiri, wachiwiri amaphunzira kusintha msanga kwambiri. Baby, iye analeredwa ku kayimbidwe ka moyo wa mkulu: chakudya chake, ulendo wake kusukulu etc. Kusintha kwake, kenako anamupeza kukhala wosinthasintha kuposa wamkulu wake.
Komanso, popeza akudziwa kuti sangakope mchimwene wake wamkulu kuti akwaniritse zolinga zake, amakambirana kuti agwirizane. Zomwe zimamupatsa mbiri ya kazembe wabwino!
* Wolemba wa Abale ndi Alongo, aliyense akufunafuna malo ake (Mkonzi. Hachette Pratique)