Akatswiri a zamaganizo amakhulupirira kuti izi ndizosayenera, ndipo osati zokonda dziko - chophimba cha chikondi pa tsoka loopsya kwambiri la anthu.
Posachedwapa, mwana wanga wamwamuna wazaka zisanu ndi ziŵiri anachita nawo mpikisano woŵerenga m’chigawo. Mutu wake, ndithudi, ndi Tsiku Lopambana.
"Tikufuna chithunzi," adatero mphunzitsi-wotsogolera ndi nkhawa.
Image kotero chithunzi. Komanso, m'masitolo a zithunzizi - makamaka tsopano, pa tsiku la tchuthi - chifukwa cha kukoma kulikonse ndi chikwama. Mukungofunika kapu ya ndende, pitani ku hypermarket iliyonse: kumeneko ndi chinthu chanyengo. Ngati mukufuna chovala chokwanira, chotsika mtengo komanso chapamwamba kwambiri, pitani ku malo ogulitsira zovala za carnival. Ngati mukufuna okwera mtengo komanso pafupifupi ngati weniweni - ili ku Voentorg. Kukula kulikonse, ngakhale kwa mwana wazaka chimodzi. Seti yathunthu ilinso ndi kusankha kwanu: ndi mathalauza, akabudula, ndi malaya amvula, okhala ndi ma binoculars a commander ...
Mwambiri, ndinamuveka mwanayo. Nditavala yunifolomu, mwana wanga wa giredi yoyamba ankawoneka wolimba mtima komanso wosaumira. Ndikupukuta misozi, ndinatumiza chithunzicho kwa achibale ndi anzanga onse.
"Ndi munthu wamkulu wakuthwa bwanji", - agogo ena adakhudzidwa.
"Zimamuyenerera," - adayamikira mnzakeyo.
Ndipo mnzanga mmodzi yekha anavomereza moona mtima: iye sakonda yunifolomu pa ana.
"Chabwino, sukulu ina yankhondo kapena gulu la cadet. Koma osati zaka zimenezo, "iye anali categorical.
M'malo mwake, sindimamvetsetsanso makolo omwe amavala ana ngati asitikali kapena anamwino, kungoyenda pakati pa omenyera nkhondo pa Meyi 9th. Monga chovala cha siteji - inde, ndizoyenera. M'moyo - ayi.
N'chifukwa chiyani masquerade? Lowani m'magalasi a makamera azithunzi ndi makanema? Chotsani zoyamikira kuchokera kwa akuluakulu omwe kale ankavala yunifolomu iyi? Kuti muwonetse ulemu wanu pa tchuthi (ngati, ndithudi, mawonetseredwe akunja ndi ofunika kwambiri), riboni ya St. George ndi yokwanira. Ngakhale izi ndizopereka ulemu kwa mafashoni kuposa chizindikiro chenicheni. Kupatula apo, ndi anthu ochepa omwe amakumbukira zomwe tepi iyi imatanthauza. Kodi mumadziwa?
Akatswiri a zamaganizo, mwa njira, amatsutsana nazo. Iwo amakhulupirira kuti umu ndi mmene akuluakulu amasonyezera ana kuti nkhondo n’njosangalatsa.
"Uku ndikukondana komanso kukongoletsedwa kwa chinthu choyipa kwambiri m'moyo wathu - nkhondo, - katswiri wazamisala adalemba izi pa Facebook. Elena Kuznetsova... - Uthenga wamaphunziro umene ana amalandira kudzera muzochita zoterezi za akuluakulu kuti nkhondo ndi yaikulu, ndi tchuthi, chifukwa ndiye imathera mu chigonjetso. Koma sikofunikira. Nkhondoyo imathera m’miyoyo yopanda moyo mbali zonse. Manda. Achibale ndi osiyana. Kumene ngakhale nthawi zina palibe amene angapite kukakumbukira. Chifukwa chakuti nkhondo sizimasankha kuchuluka kwa anthu okhala m’banja limodzi kuti atenge ngati malipiro a zosatheka kwa anthu kukhala mwamtendere. Nkhondo sizimasankhidwa konse - zathu osati zathu. Ingolipiritsani zamtengo wapatali. Izi ziyenera kudziwitsa ana. “
Elena akutsindika kuti: yunifolomu ya asilikali ndi zovala za imfa. Kuchita imfa yosayembekezereka ndiko kukumana nayo wekha.
Kuznetsova analemba kuti: “Ana amafunika kugula zovala zokhudza moyo, osati za imfa. - Monga munthu yemwe amagwira ntchito ndi psyche, ndimamvetsa bwino kuti kumverera koyamikira kungakhale kolemetsa. Pakhoza kukhala chikhumbo chokondwerera mogwirizana. Chisangalalo cha mgwirizano - mgwirizano pa mlingo wamtengo wapatali - ndi chisangalalo chachikulu chaumunthu. Ndikofunikira kwa umunthu kwa ife kukhala china chake pamodzi… Chigonjetso chosangalatsa, kukumbukira komvetsa chisoni…. Koma palibe dera limene liyenera kulilipira kudzera mwa ana ovekedwa mikanjo ya imfa. “
Komabe, mwa zina, lingaliro ili lingathenso kutsutsidwa. yunifolomu ya asilikali akadali osati za imfa, komanso kuteteza Motherland. Ntchito yoyenera yomwe munthu angathe komanso ayenera kuphunzitsa ana ulemu. Kuphatikizirapo ana mu izi zimadalira msinkhu wawo, psyche, kukhudzidwa kwamaganizo. Ndipo funso lina ndi momwe mungalankhulire.
Icintu cimwi ncakuti tate, walo wakazwa kunkondo, wakabikka cipego cakwe kumutu kwamwanaakwe. Zina ndi kukonzanso kwamakono kuchokera kumsika waukulu. Analivala kamodzi, naliponya pakona ya chipinda. Mpaka Meyi 9 wotsatira. Ndi chinthu chimodzi pamene ana akusewera nkhondo, chifukwa chirichonse chowazungulira chikadali chodzaza ndi mzimu wa nkhondoyo - ichi ndi gawo lachibadwa la moyo wawo. Winawo ndi kuyika kochita kupanga osati kukumbukira, koma kukhazikika kwa chithunzicho.
"Ndimaveka mwana wanga kuti amve ngati woteteza dziko la Motherland," mnzanga wina anandiuza chaka chatha chisanachitike. "Ndikukhulupirira kuti uku ndi kukonda dziko lako, kulemekeza omenyera nkhondo komanso kuyamikira mtendere."
Pakati pa zotsutsana "kwa" ndi mawonekedwe, monga chizindikiro cha kukumbukira masamba owopsya a mbiri yakale, kuyesa kulimbikitsa "kumverera koyamikira" komweko. "Ndikukumbukira, ndine wonyada", ndi kupitirira mulemba. Tiyeni tivomereze. Tiyerekezenso kuti amapempha kuti abwere atavala zovala kusukulu ndi kusukulu za kindergarten zomwe zimachita nawo zikondwerero. Inu mukhoza kumvetsa.
Pano pali funso lokha: zomwe zili mu nkhaniyi zimakumbukiridwa, ndipo ana a miyezi isanu amanyadira chiyani, omwe amavala mawonekedwe ang'onoang'ono chifukwa cha zithunzi zochepa. Zachiyani? Zokonda zowonjezera zapa social media?
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