'Sitingathenso kukula ngati banja': Bill ndi Melinda Gates akusudzulana

Nkhani yakutha kwa anthu otchuka idadabwitsa ambiri. Ankakhulupirira kuti Gates - chitsanzo chachikulu cha mfundo yakuti ukwati wautali ndi wokondwa ndi wotheka, ngakhale kuwonjezera pa ana, mukuchita nawo malonda ndi zachifundo za mabiliyoni ambiri. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani cikwati cinatha ndipo n’ciani cidzacitikila Bill ndi Melinda masiku ano?

Bill Gates ndi Melinda French anakumana mu 1987 pa chakudya chamadzulo cha bizinesi ku Microsoft. Kenako mtsikana wazaka 23, yemwe anali atangolandira kumene ntchito yake yoyamba, adakopa chidwi cha mwamuna wake wam'tsogolo ndi chikondi chake cha puzzles komanso kuti adatha kumumenya mu masewera a masamu. Mu 1994, banjali linakwatirana, ndipo patatha zaka 27 m’banja, pa May 3, 2021, analengeza kuti athetsa banja.

“Titakambirana mozama komanso kuyesetsa kwambiri paubwenzi wathu, tinaganiza zothetsa ukwati wathu. Pazaka 27, talera ana atatu odabwitsa ndipo tapanga maziko omwe amathandiza anthu padziko lonse lapansi kukhala ndi moyo wathanzi komanso wopindulitsa, "adatero banjali.

Mwinamwake, pofuna kupewa miseche ndi zongopeka za chifukwa cha chisudzulo (mwachitsanzo, za maonekedwe a munthu wachitatu muubwenzi), adatsindika pasadakhale kuti akutha chifukwa chakuti ubale wawo udatha. zothandiza: "Sitikukhulupiriranso kuti titha kukhala limodzi ngati banja mu gawo lotsatira la moyo wathu."

Ambiri adakhumudwa ndi nkhani ya kugwa kwa banja lachitsanzo, lomwe linatha kupeza mgwirizano pakati pa moyo waumwini, bizinesi ya mabiliyoni ambiri ndi ntchito za anthu. Koma funso lalikulu lomwe tsopano likulendewera m'mwamba ndiloti zomwe zidzachitike kwa "mwana" wachinayi wa Gates, Bill ndi Melinda Gates Foundation, yemwe amakhudzana ndi thanzi, kuchepetsa umphawi ndi zina za chikhalidwe cha anthu?

Melinda Gates ndi kumenyera ufulu wa amayi

Ngakhale awiriwa adanena kuti apitiliza kugwirira ntchito limodzi, ambiri amati Melinda Gates adzikonzekeretsa yekha maziko. Ali ndi chidziwitso kale: mu 2015, adayambitsa Pivotal Ventures, thumba la ndalama lothandizira amayi.

Melinda Gates nthawi ina anali mkazi yekhayo pamtsinje woyamba wa MBA ku Fuqua School of Business ku Duke University. Pambuyo pake, anayamba kugwira ntchito m’munda umene atsikanawo sankapezeka nawo kwa nthawi yaitali. Pambuyo pa zaka 9, adakhala woyang'anira wamkulu wazinthu zodziwitsidwa ndikusiya ntchito yake kuti azingoyang'ana banja lake.

Melinda Gates wakhala akumenyera ufulu wa amayi kwa zaka zambiri. Lero tikufalitsa zomveka bwino za mawu ake pamutuwu.

"Kukhala wokonda zachikazi kumatanthauza kukhulupirira kuti mkazi aliyense ayenera kugwiritsa ntchito mawu ake ndikukwaniritsa zomwe angathe. Kukhulupirira kuti akazi ndi amuna ayenera kugwirira ntchito limodzi kuthetsa zopingazo ndi kuthetsa tsankho limene limabwezabe akazi.”

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"Azimayi akamapeza ufulu wawo, mabanja ndi magulu amayamba kuyenda bwino. Kulumikizana uku kuzikidwa pa chowonadi chosavuta: nthawi zonse mukaphatikiza gulu lomwe linali losaphatikizidwapo kale, mumapindulitsa aliyense. Ufulu wa amayi, thanzi ndi moyo wa anthu zikukula nthawi imodzi. "

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“Akazi akatha kusankha kukhala ndi ana (ndipo ngati atero, liti), zimapulumutsa miyoyo, zimalimbikitsa thanzi, zimakulitsa mipata ya maphunziro ndi kupititsa patsogolo chitukuko cha anthu. Kaya tikukamba za dziko liti padziko lapansi. ”

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"Kwa ine, cholinga si "kukwera" kwa amayi komanso nthawi yomweyo kugonjetsedwa kwa amuna. Ndi ulendo wogawana kuyambira kumenyera ulamuliro kupita ku mgwirizano. "

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“Ndi chifukwa chake amayi tiyenera kuthandizana. Osati kuti alowe m’malo amuna pamwamba pa maudindo, koma kukhala ogwirizana ndi amuna pophwanya ulamuliro umenewo.”

Siyani Mumakonda