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Khalidwe lopangidwa ndi udindo wake wobadwira
“Anthu amapanga makhalidwe awo pagulu”akutero Michael Grose, katswiri wamaphunziro ndi mabanja komanso wolemba bukuli Chifukwa chiyani akulu amafuna kulamulira dziko ndipo achinyamata amafuna kusintha, lofalitsidwa ndi Marabout. Komabe, chimango choyamba chomwe amasinthira ndi banja. Kupyolera mu kulimbana pakati pa abale ndi alongo, munthu amapeza malo. Ngati udindo wa munthu ali kale wotanganidwa, mwanayo adzapeza wina. Choncho, wamng'ono kwambiri amadzifotokozera yekha malinga ndi dera lomwe achoka… M'banja lililonse mikangano ndi nsanje pakati pa ana nthawi zambiri zimakhala zofanana malingana ndi malo omwe ali ndi abale awo. Zotsatira zake, zilembo zaudindo zimafotokozedwa.
Umunthu wolumikizidwa ndi udindo wobadwira, chizindikiro chosazimitsidwa?
"Makhalidwe okhudzana ndi kubadwa amapangidwa ali ndi zaka zisanu kapena zisanu ndi chimodzi. Amatha kusinthika ndikusintha kuti agwirizane ndi zomwe zikuchitika, koma alibe mwayi woti asinthe kupitilira m'badwo uno ” akufotokoza katswiriyu. Choncho, mabanja osakanikirana samapanga mibadwo yobadwa mwatsopano. Chifukwa chakuti mwana wazaka 5-6 mwadzidzidzi ali ndi mchimwene wake wamkulu kapena mlongo wake, sizikutanthauza kuti adzasiya kukhala wadongosolo komanso wokonda kulakwitsa zinthu!
Mabadwidwe ndi umunthu: chikhalidwe cha banja chimakhalanso ndi gawo
Ngakhale kuti udindo umakhudza khalidwe, kalembedwe ka makolo kamakhala ndi kawonedwe ka dziko. M’mawu ena, mwana wamkulu m’banja lomasuka angakhale mwana wathayo ndi wosamala koposa mwa abale, koma iye angakhale wololera kwambiri kuposa mwana wamkulu m’banja loumirira. Choncho, malo mu abale sakunena chilichonse za tsogolo khalidwe la mwana, ndipo mwamwayi. Njira zina, monga maphunziro ndi luso la mwanayo, zimaganiziridwa.