Mayeso a Cobley amayesa mawonekedwe enaake obadwa nawo mwachibadwa. Cathy Colby amazindikira kuti chibadwa ndi pachimake pakupanga kwaumunthu ndipo wapanga njira yopangira luso lanu lobadwa nalo. Mayesowo adzakuuzani momwe mungayankhire bwino.
JK Rowling, ndi mabuku ake a Harry Potter, adanena kuti akadapanda kuyamba kulemba - pakati pa ulova komanso ali ndi mwana m'manja mwake, wopanda mwamuna - akadapenga, ndikuti chinthu chachikulu chomwe amamvetsetsa. ndiye kuti aliyense wa ife sali woposa momwe alili. Timalephera m'moyo ngati tiyesa kukhala munthu wina osati ife eni. Anali wolephera mpaka anayamba kuchita zinthu zimene ankasangalala nazo kwambiri. Zachilengedwe zimamvetsetsedwa ndi Colby ngati njira zopangira mphamvu zodziwikiratu, ndichifukwa chake zochitika zina zimatipatsa mphamvu ndikutipangitsa kukhala osasangalala kwambiri mwa ena.
Wothamanga sangathe kuyang'anira ofesi. Wolembayo sangathe kuchita malonda. Wochita bizinesi adzalephera kugwira ntchito yaulembi, ndipo mlembi sangathe kukhala woyang'anira zotsutsana ndi zovuta. Ndi zina zotero.
4 NJIRA ZOCHITIKA ZONSE (kuyambira, titero) zowonetsedwa ndi Colby kwa munthu:
- WOFUFUZA ZOONA - munjira iyi timakhala ngati: pragmatist, ofufuza, arbiter, akatswiri, oweruza kapena realist.
- MALIMBIRITSA NTCHITO - munjira iyi, timakhala ngati: wokonza, wopanga, wopanga mapulogalamu, theorist, classifier, wopanga chithunzicho.
- KUYAMBA KWAMBIRI - munjira iyi, timafulumizitsa zinthu, kukonza, kukonza, kukhala ochita chidwi, kulimbikitsa, kuchita ngati owonetsa.
- WOONETSA - munjira iyi, timapanga, kupanga, kupanga, kuluka, kuwonetsa luso lamanja, kukula.
Zochita izi zimakhazikitsidwa motsatira chibadwa:
- kufufuza mozama,
- matanthauzo a kapangidwe,
- kulumikizana mwachilengedwe ndi kusatsimikizika (ngozi),
- kusandutsa malingaliro kukhala zinthu zogwirika.
Chibadwa chilichonse chimawonetsedwa mwamphamvu kwambiri komanso mokulirapo kapena pang'ono. Akhoza kutitsogolera mwamphamvu, ndiyeno zochitika zofananirazo zimatipatsa mphamvu - ndipo iyi ndi gawo lofunikira kwa ife. Ndiko kuti, kaya timakonda kapena ayi, timatsogolera mphamvu zathu kumalo kumene timafotokozera zachangu, kapena, kukana mwamsanga. Nthawi zina munthu amangoumirira kuti asachite zinazake. Mwachitsanzo, JK Rowling amakana mwamphamvu kumanga nyumba zachifumu zina kupatula mabwalo amlengalenga. Malinga ndi Colby, iyinso ndi talente! Ndipo ife taziwona izo zikugwira ntchito.
Chitsanzo chosiyana cha mphamvu zachibadwa chathu chikuwonekera. Mphamvu yotsalayo imagwera pamitundu yotsalayo, momwe ife timayesetsa kupulumutsa mphamvu popewa mavuto okhudzana ndi ntchitoyi, kapena mochuluka kapena mocheperapo mofunitsitsa kusintha zochita zathu pamlingo wina munjira iyi. Choncho, mphamvu ya chibadwa chilichonse imadziwonetsera m'njira zitatu - zone yachangu, kukana kapena kusintha.
Chilichonse palimodzi chimaphatikiza kuphatikiza kwanu kwapadera, komwe kutha kuganiziridwa mozama pakuchita bwino muzochita, kulankhulana, kuphunzira.
Kupsinjika kumachotsedwa mosavuta - ngati mukuumirira pazachibadwa - chitani. Ngati sichoncho, musachite izo. Osadzikakamiza. Zambiri pambuyo pake. Mutha kupeza lingaliro losavuta la zomwe tikukamba poyang'ana mayeso a Colby kwa ana - mufunso lililonse, mayankho amangowonetsa mawonetseredwe a chimodzi mwazachibadwa zinayi, ndikuyang'ana pa tebulo 1 ndi 2. (Table 2 ikuwonetsa Mode Operandi (Mode of Action) malingana ndi madera achangu - kukana, malo ogona, kapena (pansipa) changu chachibadwa).
Gulu 1
Mitundu yophunzirira yomwe imachokera ku lingaliro ili ndi mawonekedwe ena a anthu, kutengera komwe ali ndi mphatso:
Lofalitsidwa m'buku la R. Kiyosaki "Rich Kid, Smart Kid"
Gulu 2
Amawonetsa Modus Operandi (Mode of Action) kutengera madera achangu - kukana, malo okhala, kapena (pansipa) changu chachibadwa ichi.
Zolemba
- Index (mayeso) Colby