Tikakumana ndi anthu atsopano, timadziwonetsera tokha kwa iwo kuchokera kumbali yabwino ndikusunga maubwenzi ndi omwe mikhalidwe yawo ili yoyenera kwa ife. Njira yabwino, koma imalepheretsa ubale wokhazikika komanso imachepetsa kulumikizana.
"Ine" wathu ali ndi mbali zambiri. Titha kukhala odzidalira komanso aluso, ansanje ndi achikondi, odekha komanso onyoza. Kukula, timamvetsetsa kuti mbali zina za "Ine" yathu zimakopa chidwi cha ena. Ichi ndichifukwa chake timakonda kukula, kuwaphatikiza mu "khadi yathu yochezera". Makamaka pankhani ya maubwenzi ofunika kwa ife. Ndipo timagwiritsa ntchito khadili moyo wathu wonse pamene tikufuna kukopa chidwi cha munthu amene timamukonda, akutero katswiri wa zabanja Assael Romanelli.
Fanizo la msonkhano wamabizinesi ndilabwino: tikakumana ndi mabizinesi, timawawonetsa mosazindikira makhadi athu abizinesi, ndipo amawonetsa awo. Ndipo ubwenziwo udzapitirira ngati tikonda zimene tinaziona.
Chifukwa chake, akugogomezera Romanelli, timakopa m'miyoyo yathu omwe "makadi abizinesi" awo amagwirizana ndi athu. Ndiko kuti, anthu amene amaona kuti n’zosavuta kucheza ndendende ndi anthu ngati ife. Ngati "khadi lanu la bizinesi" likunena kuti ndinu munthu wamanyazi, mudzapeza mosavuta chinenero chodziwika bwino ndi munthu amene ali ndi luso lopeza chinenero chodziwika bwino ndi anthu amanyazi. Mwina khadi lake limasonyeza kuti iye ndi “mphunzitsi”, “mtsogoleri” kapena “kholo”.
Mwayi wochepa
Poyamba, njirayi ikuwoneka ngati yabwino. Koma ili ndi drawback yofunika. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti mobwerezabwereza mumadziwa ndikulowa muubwenzi ndi "zosiyana pamutu" wa munthu yemweyo. Izi ndizochitika pamene "amuna onse atatu ali ngati pulani" kapena "abwenzi anga onse amakonda kudandaula." Ndiko kuti, mwayi wanu umangotengera machitidwe omwe mumawakonda kusonyeza.
Kodi khadi lanu likumenyedwa?
Zodabwitsa, koma mikhalidwe yapadziko lonse lapansi yomwe ingagwirizane ndi zochitika zonse popanda kupatula palibe. Kukhala wosinthika, kugwiritsa ntchito "makadi oyimbira" angapo nthawi imodzi ndi njira yopindulitsa kwambiri. Munjira zambiri, "makadi athu abizinesi" amagwira ntchito ngati "magalasi" momwe timawonera dziko lapansi. Zimasonyeza zikhulupiriro zathu ndipo zimakopa kwa ife anthu ofanana ndi athu kapena mtundu umene umatikomera.
Koma ngati mukufuna kuti china chake chiwonekere m'moyo wanu, muyenera kusintha mawonekedwe anu! Kodi ndiyenera kuchita chiyani? Nawa njira zingapo zomwe Assael Romanelli adapanga. Ngati muli ndi mnzanu, muphatikizepo popanga "khadi la bizinesi" latsopano.
- Ganizirani momwe "khadi loyimbira" laubwenzi wanu likuwonekera panthawiyi. Dziwani zabwino zisanu za kirediti kadi iyi - momwe ingathandizire kulumikizana kwanu.
- Lolani mnzanuyo awerenge nkhaniyi ndikufunsani ngati akudziwa "khadi lanu loyimbira" muubwenzi. Ngati inuyo simukuzizindikira, lolani wokondedwa wanu akuthandizeni.
- Fotokozani pamapepala awiri a makhadi anu abizinesi omwe mumagwiritsa ntchito paubwenzi. Awonetseni mnzanuyo ndipo yesani kukambirana naye za makadiwa. Kodi zinaoneka liti ndipo zinali zotani? Kodi mumapindula chiyani mukamagwiritsa ntchito - ndipo mumaphonya chiyani?
- Funsani wokondedwa wanu kuti akuuzeni momwe amawonera "khadi loyimbira" lalikulu la chiyanjano. Nthawi zambiri pali mgwirizano wina pakati pa "makhadi a bizinesi" a anthu awiri, amapanga awiriawiri a mawonekedwe "kholo / mwana", "mphunzitsi / wophunzira", "mtsogoleri / kapolo", "ofooka / amphamvu", ndi zina zotero.
- Dzifunseni nokha: ndi mbali ziti zomwe mumaphonya mu "makadi abizinesi"? Aliyense wa ife ali ndi sitolo yaikulu ya njira zosiyanasiyana ndi malingaliro. Koma ena a iwo ndi gawo la ife lomwe mu psychoanalysis limatchedwa Shadow. Awa ndi mawonetseredwe omwe pazifukwa zina timakana, timawaona ngati osayenera. Wokonda wokonda akhoza "kukhala" mkati mwa munthu wodzichepetsa, ndipo wina amene akufuna kumasuka ndi kulandira caress akhoza "kukhala" mkati mwa chifaniziro chogwira ntchito. Ndipo titha kugwiritsa ntchito ziwonetserozi popanga "makhadi abizinesi" atsopano.
- Gwiritsani ntchito makhadi atsopano muubwenzi wanu. Pochita izi, mumasonyeza mbali za mthunzi wa umunthu wanu - ndipo mungakonde zimenezo.
Musadabwe ngati wokondedwa wanu akukana kusintha kwa khalidwe lanu. Izi ndi zachilendo: mukusintha dongosolo lokha! Mwinamwake adzayesa kubwezera chirichonse "monga momwe zinalili", chifukwa iyi ndi nkhani yodziwika bwino komanso yomveka. Ndipo komabe, pokulitsa mikhalidwe yatsopano mwa inu nokha, mumamuthandiza kuzindikira mbali zake zatsopano. Bwerani ndi "makadi oyimba" atsopano: mwanjira iyi mupangitsa moyo wanu kukhala wolemera komanso wosangalatsa, komanso mudzatha kupeza zatsopano pamaubwenzi omwe alipo.