Zamkatimu
Kuthetsa ubale kumakhala kowawa kwa onse awiri. Ndipo ngati akazi amakonda kukamba zakukhosi kwawo ndikuvomera kuthandizidwa, ndiye kuti amuna nthawi zambiri amakhala ogwidwa ndi malingaliro a "anyamata salira" ndikubisa momwe akumvera. Ngwazi zathu zinavomera kukambirana za momwe adapulumutsira kutha.
“Sitinalekana ngati mabwenzi amene timakumana kuti timwe khofi ndi kukambirana nkhani”
Ilya, wazaka 34
Zinkaoneka kuti ine ndi Katya tidzakhala limodzi nthawi zonse, zivute zitani. Sindinaganizepo kuti ndingamutaye. Zonse zidayamba ndi chikondi champhamvu, sindinakumanepo ndi chilichonse ngati ichi kwa wina aliyense pazaka zanga 30.
Patangotsala nthawi yochepa kuti tiyambe kusonkhana, amayi anga anamwalira, ndipo Katya, mwa maonekedwe ake, anandithandiza kupeza bwino pambuyo pa imfayo. Komabe, posakhalitsa ndinayamba kuzindikira kuti, popeza amayi anga anamwalira, ndinalinso kutaya bambo anga. Pambuyo pa imfa yake, anayamba kumwa. Ndinali ndi nkhawa, koma sindinachite kalikonse ndipo ndinangosonyeza ukali ndi mkwiyo.
Zinthu zinafika poipa kwambiri pabizinesi. Ine ndi mnzanga tinali ndi kampani yomanga, tinasiya kupeza makontrakitala. Sindikuganiza mochepera chifukwa ndinalibe mphamvu pa chilichonse. Katya anayesa kulankhula nane, anabwera ndi maulendo osayembekezereka. Anasonyeza zozizwitsa za kudekha ndi kulolera. Ndinalowa m’chipinda chamdima n’kutseka chitseko.
Ine ndi Katya takhala timakonda kuyenda kuzungulira mzindawo, kupita ku chilengedwe. Koma tsopano anapitiriza kuchita zimenezo mwakachetechete. Sindinalankhule kapena kumukalipira. Kanthu kakang'ono kalikonse kakhoza kuchotsapo. Sanapemphe konse chikhululukiro. Ndipo adakhala chete poyankha.
Sindinalabadire kuti amangokhalira kugona ndi amayi ake ndipo, mwachinyengo chilichonse, amathera nthawi yake yopuma ndi abwenzi ake. Sindikuganiza kuti adandinyenga. Panopa ndikumvetsa kuti kukhala ndi ine kunali kovuta kwambiri kwa iye.
Atachoka, ndinazindikira kuti ndinali ndi chosankha: kupitiriza kumira pansi kapena kuyamba kuchita chinachake ndi moyo wanga.
Atandiuza kuti akuchoka, poyamba sindinamvetse. Zinkawoneka zosatheka. Ndipamene ndinadzuka kwa nthawi yoyamba, ndikumupempha kuti asachite izi, atipatse mwayi wachiwiri. Ndipo modabwitsa, iye anavomera. Izi zidakhala chilimbikitso chomwe ndimafunikira. Zinali ngati ndikuwona moyo mumitundu yeniyeni ndikuzindikira momwe Katya wanga amandikondera.
Tinakambirana zambiri, analira ndipo kwa nthawi yoyamba pambuyo pa nthawi yayitali anandiuza zakukhosi kwake. Ndipo pomalizira pake ndinamvetsera kwa iye. Ndinaganiza kuti ichi chinali chiyambi cha siteji yatsopano - tidzakwatirana, tidzakhala ndi mwana. Ndinamufunsa ngati akufuna mnyamata kapena mtsikana ...
Koma patatha mwezi umodzi, iye ananena modekha kuti sitingathe kukhala limodzi. Zomva zake zatha ndipo akufuna kundinena chilungamo. Kuyang'ana kwake, ndinazindikira kuti pamapeto pake adasankha zonse ndipo zinali zopanda pake kuyankhula za izo. Sindinamuonenso.
Sitinasiyane ngati abwenzi omwe amakumana kuti adye khofi ndikuuzana za nkhani - izi zingakhale zowawa kwambiri. Atachoka, ndinazindikira kuti ndinali ndi chosankha: kupitiriza kumira pansi kapena kuchita chinachake ndi moyo wanga. Ndinaganiza kuti ndikufunika thandizo. Ndipo anapita ku chithandizo.
Ndinayenera kumasula zopinga zambiri mkati mwanga, ndipo patapita chaka zambiri zinamveka bwino kwa ine. Ndinakwanitsa kuwasazika amayi, ndinawakhululukira bambo anga. Ndipo mulole Katya apite.
Nthawi zina ndimadandaula kwambiri kuti ndinakumana naye, monga momwe zimawonekera, pa nthawi yolakwika. Zikadachitika tsopano, ndikanachita mosiyana ndipo, mwina, sindingawononge chilichonse. Koma n’kopanda phindu kukhala ndi moyo m’zongopeka zakale. Ndinamvetsetsanso izi titasiyana, ndikulipira mtengo wapamwamba pa phunziroli.
“Chilichonse chosapha chimakupangitsani kukhala wamphamvu” kunapezeka kuti sichinali za ife
Oleg, wazaka 32
Ine ndi Lena tinakwatirana titamaliza maphunziro athu ndipo posakhalitsa tinaganiza zotsegula bizinesi yathuyathu - kampani yonyamula katundu ndi zomangamanga. Zonse zidayenda bwino, tidakulitsanso timu yathu. Zinkawoneka kuti mavuto omwe amachitikira okwatirana ogwirira ntchito limodzi amatilambalala - tinatha kugawana ntchito ndi maubwenzi.
Mavuto azachuma amene anachitika anali kuyesanso mphamvu kwa banja lathu. Mzere umodzi wamalonda umayenera kutsekedwa. Pang’onopang’ono tinadzipeza tili ndi ngongole, osaŵerengera mphamvu zathu. Onse anali atatopa, zonenezana zinayambana. Ndinatenga ngongole kwa mkazi wanga mobisa. Ndinkayembekezera kuti izi zithandiza, koma zinangosokoneza zinthu zathu kwambiri.
Zonse zitawululidwa, Lena anakwiya. Ananena kuti chinali chiwembu, adanyamula katundu wake ndikunyamuka. Ndinkaona kuti kuchita zinthu mwachinyengo ndi zimene anachita. Tinasiya kucheza, ndipo posakhalitsa, kupyolera mwa anzanga, ndinapeza mwangozi kuti anali ndi wina.
Kusakhulupirirana ndi kukwiyirana kudzakhalabe pakati pathu. Mkangano wocheperako - ndipo chilichonse chimayamba ndi mphamvu zatsopano
Mwamwayi, izi, ndithudi, sizikanatchedwa chiwembu - sitinali pamodzi. Koma ndinada nkhaŵa kwambiri, ndinayamba kumwa. Kenako ndinazindikira - iyi si njira. Ndinadzigwira mdzanja. Tinayamba kukumana ndi Lena - kunali koyenera kusankha pa bizinesi yathu. Misonkhanoyi inachititsa kuti tiyesetse kubwezeretsa ubale, koma patatha mwezi umodzi zinali zoonekeratu kuti "chikho" ichi sichingagwirizane.
Mkazi wanga adavomereza kuti pambuyo pa nkhani ndi ngongole sangandikhulupirire. Ndipo sindinamukhululukire kuti anachoka mosavuta n’kuyamba chibwenzi ndi munthu wina. Titayesa komaliza kukhala limodzi, tinaganiza zochoka.
Zinali zovuta kwa ine kwa nthawi yayitali. Koma kumvetsetsa kunathandiza — sitikanatha kukhala ngati kuti palibe chimene chinachitika pambuyo pa zomwe zinachitika. Kusakhulupirirana ndi kukwiyirana kudzakhalabe pakati pathu. Mkangano wocheperako - ndipo chilichonse chimayamba ndi mphamvu zatsopano. “Chimene sichimatipha chimatipatsa mphamvu” —mawu amenewa sanali onena za ife. Komabe, m’pofunika kuteteza ubwenziwo osati kufika poti simungabwererenso.