Zomwe muyenera kudziwa zokhudza kugonana koyamba: malangizo kwa anyamata ndi atsikana

Kugonana koyamba kumakhala ndi gawo lalikulu pakupanga malingaliro athu okhudzana ndi kugonana. Ngati iwunikiridwa ndikuzindikiridwa ndi munthu molakwika kwambiri, ndiye kuti izi zitha kupanga zopinga pakumanga ubale m'moyo wonse.

Mwachitsanzo, chimodzi mwazovuta zomwe zimachitika mwa amuna, matenda ovutika maganizo okhudzana ndi kugonana, nthawi zambiri amachokera ku mndandanda wa "fiascos" panthawi yoyamba yoyesera kugonana. Izi "zolephera" zimazindikiridwa ndi mnyamata makamaka mopweteka ngati wokondedwayo akuperekanso zosakwanira mu mawonekedwe a kunyozedwa kapena kunyozedwa.

Pambuyo pake, mnyamatayo amayamba kukhala ndi nkhawa komanso kupsinjika maganizo asanayambe kugonana, amakhala ndi mantha a "kulephera kukwaniritsa zomwe akuyembekezera", "kulephera kupiriranso". Pamapeto pake, unyolo woterewu ukhoza kuyambitsa kupeŵa kuyanjana ndi akazi.

Ndipo atsikana, omwe ambiri mwa iwo amagonana chifukwa choopa kutaya mwamuna, akhoza kutaya chidaliro mwa amuna. Pambuyo pake, kuvomereza kugonana koyambirira mothandizidwa ndi kugwiriridwa, osati mwakufuna kwake, akhoza kumva "kugwiritsidwa ntchito". Makamaka ngati pambuyo pake mnyamatayo sakufuna kupitiriza naye chibwenzi.

Choncho, kugonana koyamba kuyenera kuyandikira ndi chidwi chapadera. Popanda ziyembekezo zabodza ndi mantha akutali.

Kodi muyenera kudziwa chiyani musanagone?

"Chikondamoyo choyamba ndi lumpy"

Anthu ambiri, kukumbukira kugonana kwawo koyamba, zindikirani kuti zinali kutali kwambiri ndi zabwino. Nthawi yoyamba ndi yabwino kwa pafupifupi aliyense. Ino ndi nthawi yodziwiratu, kudzifufuza nokha ndi thupi lanu mukugonana ndi munthu wina. Pakubwera kumvetsetsa kuti kugonana m'moyo ndi kosiyana kwambiri ndi zolaula. Zowonadi, m'mafilimu sawonetsa zochitika, zochitika, mavuto, koma m'moyo zimachitika nthawi zambiri, ngakhale pakati pa amuna ndi akazi odziwa zambiri.

Chofunika kwambiri, musamadziweruze mwankhanza kwambiri. Aka ndi koyamba.

Nkhawa n’zachibadwa

Mwamtheradi munthu aliyense, kugonana kwa nthawi yoyamba, amakhala wovuta. Inde, chifukwa pali mantha ambiri mkati: osachita zomwe akuyembekezera, kuyang'ana mopusa, kukhumudwitsa mnzanu. Muyenera kumvetsetsa ndi kuvomereza kuti manyazi, kusatetezeka, chisangalalo champhamvu komanso mayendedwe olakwika ndi zachilendo. Simuli nokha mu izi.

Kukonzekera m'maganizo

Simuyenera kuyesetsa kugonana koyamba chifukwa cha kungokhala. Yandikirani njirayi mwachidwi ndikuzichita pokhapokha mutakhala wokonzeka. Osati chifukwa mnzanu / malo anu amaumirira pa izi kapena amawongolera. Kumbukirani kuti ngakhale mukuchita, nthawi zonse muli ndi ufulu wokana. Mawu a m’gulu lakuti “ngati simukuvomereza, ndiye kuti zonse zatha” kapena “ndikhumudwitsidwa” sanganene za chikondi.

Kugonana sikungolowetsa

Ngati cholinga ndi kupeza chisangalalo, chimene anthu ambiri amayembekezera kugonana, ndiye kuti simuyenera nthawi yomweyo kudziletsa yekha mtundu wake - kugonana ndi malowedwe. Poyambira, mutha kugwiritsa ntchito njira zina zogonana - kugwirana, kugonana m'kamwa, kuseweretsa maliseche. Atha kukhala osangalatsa kwambiri kuposa kugonana kwachikale, ndipo pali mwayi wabwino wokhala ndi orgasm.

Chitetezo choyamba

Kugonana, kuphatikizapo pakamwa, muyenera ndi kondomu. Kugonana popanda kondomu kumawonjezera chiopsezo chotenga matenda opatsirana pogonana - matenda opatsirana pogonana ndi 98%. Matenda ena amathanso kufalikira kudzera mu kugonana mkamwa.

Muyenera kumvetsetsa kuti matenda ena, monga chindoko ndi mauka, samadzimva konse kwa masabata oyambirira, ndipo nthawi zina miyezi, popeza alibe zizindikiro. Choncho, ndikofunikira kugula makondomu ndikukhala nawo nthawi zonse, ngakhale mnzanuyo atalonjeza kuti agula yekha. Ganizirani choyamba za chitetezo chanu.

Ndipo simuyenera kugwa chifukwa cha zinyengo zilizonse zomwe ndi "zosasangalatsa", "zosafunikira", "za ma wimps", "ndilibe matenda".

Ukhondo

Masana, mabakiteriya ambiri amasonkhanitsidwa kumaliseche, omwe, akalowa mu mucous nembanemba, amayambitsa ma pathologies osiyanasiyana. Choncho, ndikofunika kwambiri kusamba musanayambe kugonana kapena mutatha kugonana. Ukhondo wa thupi lanu sikofunikira kokha, komanso chizindikiro cha ulemu kwa inu nokha ndi mnzanu. Mutha kunenanso kuti zimakhudza mtundu wa chisangalalo chomwe mwalandira. Kupatula apo, anthu ochepa angasangalale kupsompsona thupi la thukuta, osatchulanso zachikondi zapamtima.

Ngati palibe mwayi wosamba, muyenera kusamba nokha kapena kupukuta maliseche akunja ndi nsalu yonyowa. 

Kusankhidwa kwa anzanu

Kugonana sikuti ndizochitika zakuthupi zokha, komanso zamaganizo. Choncho, zimakhala zosangalatsa kwambiri kuchita nawo pamene pali malingaliro ndi malingaliro kwa wokondedwa. Malinga ndi zotsatira za kafukufuku ambiri, mowiriza koyamba kugonana ndi mwachisawawa bwenzi anabweretsa pafupifupi palibe zosangalatsa kwa aliyense. M’pofunika kuti kugonana kuyambe pang’onopang’ono. Chifukwa chake psyche idzakhala yosavuta kusintha ndikuzindikira zatsopano.

Pregnancy

Mimba imatha kuchitika kokha pamene umuna umalowa mu nyini. Izi zitha kuchitika mwachindunji kudzera kulowera kwa mbolo ndi zala ngati panali umuna pa iwo, kapena kukhudzana kwambiri ndi mbolo yomwe ili pafupi ndi nyini. Zatsimikiziridwanso kuti spermatozoa ikhoza kukhala muchinsinsi chomwe chimatulutsidwa mwa amuna panthawi yachiwonetsero. Ndipo ngakhale mwayi wa mimba ukazi ukadutsa pa zala ndikusisita ndi mbolo ndi wochepa kwambiri, umakhalapobe. 

Koma kungokhudza maliseche, kusisita zovala, kugwedeza, kugonana m'kamwa, komanso kutenga umuna m'mimba, sikutheka kutenga mimba!

Zomwe zili zofunika kuti mnyamata ndi mtsikana azidziwana

Kwa iye za iye:

1. Mnyamata akhoza kukwera mofulumira kwambiri Kwenikweni mumphindi zochepa kapena ngakhale musanayambe kugonana. Izi nzabwino. N’chifukwa chiyani zimenezi zikuchitika? Kuchokera ku chisangalalo chochuluka, mantha, chisokonezo ndi kupsinjika maganizo, komanso chifukwa cha malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri.

2. Mwina sangadzuke. Kapena phompho la erection Musaganize kuti alibe mphamvu. Mavuto ogona musanayambe kapena pogonana nthawi zambiri amabwera chifukwa cha chisangalalo ndi mantha "osakondedwa", "kulakwitsa". 

3. "Iye ndi wamng'ono" - Nthawi zambiri atsikana amalabadira kukula kwa mbolo ya wokondedwa wawo ndipo amakhumudwitsidwa kuti siili yayikulu mokwanira. Koma musanayambe kukhumudwa, ndi bwino kukumbukira kuti pafupifupi kutalika kwa mbolo ndi 9 centimita mu mawonekedwe ake abwino ndi 13 centimita mu chikhalidwe chilili. Ambiri mwa oimira kugonana kolimba mu mawonekedwe oima ali ndi kukula kwa 13-15 centimita. 

Za iye:

1. Ndikofunikira kwambiri kuti mtsikana atsegule bwino - ngati mukufuna kuti amve bwino ndipo amakonda kugonana, perekani chidwi chapadera pawonetsero. Gawo loyamba ndi lamalingaliro, lofunikira kuti chikhumbo chofuna kugonana chiwonekere. Nthawi zambiri zimachitika mokhudzidwa ndi kukondoweza kwamalingaliro (kukhudza, kuyamikira, ma caress apamwamba) kuchokera kwa mwamuna.

   Gawo lachiwiri limatchedwa forspiel (German Vorspiel) - kuwonetseratu. Panthawiyi, chifukwa cha chilakolako chogonana, pamakhala kuthamanga kwa magazi kumakoma a nyini, zomwe zimapangitsa kuti zikhale zonyowa. Ndikofunikira kwambiri. Kusamalira koyambirira kwa mphindi 15-20 kudzathandiza kupewa kupweteka ndikusangalala. Sikophweka kuti amayi apeze orgasm, komanso, monga lamulo, samakumana nawo konse panthawi yoyamba yogonana. Ndipo zimenezi sizikutanthauza kuti aliyense wa inu ali ndi mlandu.

2. Kukanidwa sikutanthauza kuti mtsikanayo sakufunanso kukhala nawe pachibwenzi. Mwina sanakonzekerebe. Yesetsani kuzindikira chisankho chake mokwanira ndikudikirira nthawi. Afunseni kuti akudziwitseni pamene ali wokonzeka kupita ku gawo lina la chiyanjano.

3. "Anati anali namwali, koma panalibe magazi panthawi yogonana!" - palibe chifukwa chonyoza mtsikanayo chifukwa cha kunama. Magazi amenewo ndi chizindikiro cha unamwali ndi nthano yakale. Ndipotu, nthawi zambiri, kugonana koyamba sikumayambitsa kuoneka kwa magazi: zonse zimadalira momwe hymen ya mtsikanayo inapangidwira komanso momwe adakhalira omasuka komanso okonzeka bwenzi lake.