Mwinamwake mwakumana nawo pabwalo lamasewera kapena pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Ana awo nthawi zonse amakhala akhalidwe labwino, amaphunzira Chingerezi kuyambira ali ndi zaka zitatu ndikuthandizira pakhomo. "Amayi abwino" amadziwa zonse zokhudza kulera ana, amatha kugwira ntchito, kusamalira mabanja awo ndikupita ku yoga. Zingawonekere kuti ndi oyenera kusimikiridwa. Koma m'malo, iwo kukwiyitsa «wamba» akazi. Chifukwa chake, akutsutsa wolemba Marie Bolda-Von.
Mukayang'ana pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti komanso m'magazini onyezimira, mumaona kuti kukhala mayi wabwinobwino m'zaka za zana la XNUMX sikuli kokwanira. Kuchokera kumbali zonse timawukiridwa ndi akazi apamwamba omwe amadziwa, angathe ndikuchita chirichonse.
Sikuti amangokhalapo, amalankhulanso mwatsatanetsatane za kusachita bwino kwawo. Nthawi yachisanu ndi chiwiri m'mawa amaika chithunzi cha chakudya cham'mawa choyenera iwowo ndi ana awo pa Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia), nthawi ya XNUMX amalemba pa Twitter kuti kalabu ya ana yatsegulidwa pafupi ndi makalasi malinga ndi njira ya katswiri wama psychologist wamafashoni.
Kenako - chithunzi cha wathanzi ndi moyenera nkhomaliro. Kenako lipoti lochokera kusukulu ya mpira, sukulu yovina, kapena maphunziro a Chingerezi oyambilira.
"Amayi abwino" amachititsa kuti tizidziimba mlandu chifukwa cha moyo wathu wapakati komanso chifukwa cha ulesi wathu.
Mukakumana ndi "mayi abwino" m'moyo weniweni (pabwalo lamasewera, m'chipatala kapena m'sitolo), adzagawana mosangalala zinsinsi zotsimikizirika za kulera ana, kunena kuti mwana wake wakhala akugona bwino kuyambira kubadwa, akudya kwambiri ndipo samatero. kukhala wamwano.
"Chifukwa ndidachita zonse monga momwe adalangizira m'mabuku." Ndipo potsiriza, zidzakudabwitsani kuti simunasankhebe sukulu, yunivesite, maphunziro okwera kukwera ndi mphunzitsi wamipanda kwa mwana wanu. "Bwanji? Simutumiza mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi ku mpanda? Ndizofasho. Kuphatikiza apo, imapanga mgwirizano ndi ma hemispheres onse a ubongo! Kodi mudaganizapo za masewera olimbitsa thupi? Inu muma? Ndizopanda thanzi. Akatswiri onse amalemba za izi!
Ino ndi nthawi yoti mayi wamba anene podziteteza kuti "mayi abwino" ayenera kuti anaiwala za iyemwini, kusiya ntchito yake, sakusowa ndalama, choncho akhoza kuthera maola 24 patsiku. kwa ana. Koma ayi! Tsoka ilo kwa ife, "mayi wa mtundu wa 2.0" uyu ali ndi kagulu kakang'ono ka PR, sitolo yapaintaneti yogulitsa zamasamba, kapena bizinesi ina yamafashoni.
Kuphatikiza apo, amawoneka bwino nthawi zonse ("ngakhale sanakhalepo mu salon kwa zaka zana"), abs ake amasilira ngakhale mphunzitsi wake wolimbitsa thupi, ndipo amalowa mosavuta mu jeans yomwe amavala kusukulu yasekondale (" palibe nthawi yopita ku sitolo, ndinayenera kuwatenga ku mezzanine ").
Nanga n’cifukwa ciani amatikwiyitsa m’malo mocita cidwi? Choyamba, chifukwa "amayi abwino" amachititsa kuti tizidziimba mlandu chifukwa cha "moyo wopanda luso." M'malo mwa chakudya chamadzulo koma chokhala ndi vitamini kwa banja lonse, dzulo munaphika pasitala. Tinayitanitsa pitsa dzulo lake.
M’malo mwa yoga, tinapita ku cafe ndi anzathu ndipo tinadya makeke atatu kumeneko. Nthawi zina mulibe mphamvu m'mawa, osati kungopanga makongoletsedwe, koma kutsuka tsitsi lanu. Chifukwa mwanayo sanagone usiku wonse. Simunavutike kuwerenga buku lomwe limakuuzani momwe mungakhalire ndi mwana wangwiro. Kapena kuwerenga, koma, mwachiwonekere, sanamvetse kapena kuchita chinachake cholakwika.
Ndipo tsopano mumayamba kuzunzika ndi liwongo chifukwa cha ulesi ndi kusachita bwino. Ndipo, mwachibadwa, mumakwiyira munthu amene anayambitsa kudzivulaza kumeneku. Tonsefe timafuna kukhala amayi abwino kwambiri kwa ana athu, ndipo zimatipweteka kuti sitingathe kutero.
Langizo langa: pumulani ndikukhulupirira kuti ndinu mayi wangwiro kwa mwana wanu. Sadzakusinthirani M’malo ena. Amakukondani opanda tsitsi, zodzoladzola ndi mapaundi owonjezera. Ndipo akukuthokozani (ngakhale sakudziwabe) kuti simungamukakamize kumukokera kumpanda ndi maphunziro oyambirira a Chingerezi. M’malo mwake, adzakumba mosangalala m’bokosi la mchenga.
Komanso, n'kutheka kuti onsewa nkhani za kukongola ndi zolondola kukhalapo «abwino amayi» mumaona zabodza. Ndipo ichi ndi chifukwa chachiwiri chomwe amakwiyitsa.
Chabwino. Akazi apamwambawa ali ndi othandizira, ngakhale samatsatsa. Ndipo sikuti tsiku lililonse limakhala ngati nthano.
M'mawa, zimakhalanso zovuta kuti adzigwetse pabedi, nthawi zina amaphika phala lam'mawa (koma amajambula zithunzi zokongola ndi zipatso - simungadziwe pa chithunzi), ndipo mwezi wamawa. akukonzekera kuyamba kusewera mpira ndi kuvina (chifukwa ndi okwera mtengo ndi kuphunzitsa choncho).
Mchitidwe wa "mayi wabwino" udawonekera potsatira lingaliro lachikhalidwe la moyo wopanda chiyembekezo wa mkazi wokhala ndi mwana.
Kwa omwe akuwadziwa komanso osawadziwa, ndizosangalatsa kwa iwo kupanga chithunzi chojambulidwanso cha umayi wopanda tulo komanso matewera akutha.
Mchitidwe womwewo, wotchedwa "mayi wabwino", udawonekera potsatira lingaliro lachikhalidwe la moyo wopanda chiyembekezo wa mayi wokhala ndi mwana wamng'ono. “Amayi abwino” anati: “Ayi, sitili otero!” ndikupereka chithunzi chatsopano. Sakhala mkati mwa makoma anayi, koma amakhala ndi moyo wokangalika ndi mwanayo. Chifukwa cha njira yodabwitsayi, akhala otchuka m'malo ochezera a pa Intaneti. Azimayi ambiri ankafuna kuulula chinsinsi chawo, kuti akhale ngati iwo.
Koma panthawi ina panali "amayi abwino" ambiri. Ndithu, Pakati pa anzanu alipo angapo mwa awa. Mwina samasindikiza zithunzi pa Instagram (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia) kuti asangalatse olembetsa masauzande ambiri, koma panthawi yamisonkhano yachilendo amakudabwitsani ndi nkhani za momwe amakhalira bwino, popanda kupsinjika konse. Savomereza kuti atopa, alibe nthawi yochita zinazake, kapena sakudziwa. Kupatula apo, njira iyi siili mumayendedwe.
Ndipo komabe, poyankha izi, posachedwapa zawoneka zosiyana kwambiri - "amayi a Normcore". Ayi, iwo samadandaula za zovuta za amayi. Amalankhula za iye moseketsa komanso mosakometsera kwambiri. Iwo amaika chithunzi cha mwana amene anatumizidwa mwamsanga kukayenda ndi nsapato zosiyanasiyana, kapena chitumbuwa cha apulo chimene chinawotchedwa chifukwa chakuti iye ndi mwana wake wamwamuna ankaseŵera Amwenye.
«Amayi a Normkor» sapereka malangizo ndipo safuna kukhala chitsanzo kwa aliyense. Amalankhula za momwe muli nthawi zosangalatsa komanso zovuta pakulera ana. Chinthu chachikulu ndikusunga mutu wanu pamapewa anu ndikuchita zonse ndi nthabwala. Ndi chifukwa chake timawakonda kwambiri.