"Chifukwa chiyani sindikufuna kuwerengera mwana wanga wamkazi nthano ya Cinderella"

Tinaphunzira kuchokera ku nthano yotchuka ya Charles Perrault kuti "ndizoipa kusapita ku mpira ngati ukuyenerera." Wowerenga wathu Tatyana ndi wotsimikiza: Cinderella sali konse yemwe amadzinenera kuti ndi, ndipo kupambana kwake kumakhazikika pakusintha mwaluso. Akatswiri a zamaganizo amayankhapo pa mfundo imeneyi.

Tatyana, wazaka 37

Ndili ndi mwana wamkazi wamng'ono amene ine, monga makolo ambiri, ndimamuwerengera tisanagone. Iye amakonda kwambiri nthano "Cinderella". Nkhaniyi, ndithudi, imadziwika bwino kwa ine kuyambira ndili mwana, koma patapita zaka zambiri, ndikuwerenga mwatsatanetsatane, ndinayamba kugwirizana nayo mosiyana kwambiri.

Tidazolowera kuti heroine ndi wantchito wosauka, wodetsedwa ndi phulusa, ndipo zolinga zake ndizokwezeka kwambiri komanso zopanda chidwi. Ndipo tsopano chilungamo chikupambana: mdzakazi wa dzulo, yemwe sanayese kuyesetsa kuteteza zofuna zake m'nyumba ya mayi wopeza woipa, pakuyenda kwa wand wa fairy, amakhala mwana wamkazi ndikusamukira ku nyumba yachifumu.

Nzosadabwitsa kuti kwa mibadwo yambiri ya atsikana (ndipo ine sindiri wosiyana), Cinderella wakhala munthu wa maloto. Mutha kupirira zovuta, ndipo Kalonga yekha adzapeza, kukupulumutsani ndikukupatsani moyo wamatsenga.

M'malo mwake, Cinderella adasunthira ku cholinga chake moganizira kwambiri.

Zochita zake zonse ndizongonyenga chabe, ndipo, m'mawu amakono, amatha kutchedwa wojambula wamba. Mwina sanalembe dongosolo lake papepala, ndipo linakula mosazindikira, koma zotsatira zake sizingatchedwe kuti zinangochitika mwangozi.

Mutha kusirira chidaliro cha mtsikana uyu - akupita ku mpira, ngakhale sanayambepo. Chotero, iye amadziŵa bwino lomwe kuti ali ndi ufulu wochita zimenezo. Komanso, iye mosavuta, popanda kukaikira kulikonse mkati, amadzinamiza kuti sali yemwe iye ali kwenikweni.

Kalonga amawona mlendo wofanana naye paudindo wake: chonyamulira chake chili ndi diamondi, womangidwa ndi akavalo owoneka bwino kwambiri, iye mwini ali mu chovala chapamwamba komanso zodzikongoletsera zamtengo wapatali. Ndipo chinthu choyamba Cinderella amachita ndikupambana mtima wa abambo ake, Mfumu. Anawona kuti kolala yake idang'ambika, ndipo nthawi yomweyo adapeza ulusi ndi singano kuti zimuthandize. Mfumu idakondwera ndi kukhudzidwa mtima kumeneku ndikudziwitsa mlendoyo kwa Kalonga.

Aliyense wozungulira nthawi yomweyo amayamba kukondana ndi Cinderella ndikupikisana wina ndi mnzake akuyitanitsa kuvina

Iye si wodzichepetsa, amavina ndi aliyense, mosavuta amayambitsa mikangano pakati pa amuna, kuwakakamiza kuti apikisane. Pokhala yekha ndi Kalonga, amamulimbikitsa kuti ndiye wabwino koposa. Amamumvetsera mwachidwi komanso nthawi zonse amathokoza pa chilichonse, akukhalabe wansangala, wopepuka komanso wosasamala. Ndipo ndicho chimodzimodzi chimene amuna amakonda.

Kalonga, wachinyamata wowonongeka, mosayembekezereka amakumana ndi mtsikana yemwe ali wofanana naye pamalo, koma osati eccentric ndi capricious, monga olowa nyumba ambiri olemera, koma ndi khalidwe lodabwitsa, lodandaula. Kumapeto kwa nkhaniyi, pamene Cinderella akuwululidwa ndipo zikuwoneka kuti ndi wonyenga, chikondi cha Prince chimamulola kuti asalole izi.

Kotero kupambana kosakayikitsa kwa Cinderella sikungatchulidwe mwangozi. Ndipo iyenso si chitsanzo cha kuona mtima ndi kusachita chidwi.

Lev Khegay, katswiri wa Jungian:

Nthano ya Cinderella idapangidwa munthawi yaubwana wokhwima ndipo idalimbikitsa mkazi wogonjera, woponderezedwa komanso woponderezedwa, woti abereke, kusamalira m'nyumba kapena ntchito yotsika.

Lonjezo la ukwati ndi Kalonga Wokongola (monga mphotho ya malo oponderezedwa m’chitaganya) lili ngati lonjezo lachipembedzo la malo m’paradaiso kaamba ka onyozeka ndi otsenderezedwa kwambiri. M’zaka za m’ma 21, zinthu zasintha kwambiri m’mayiko otukuka. Tikuwona m'badwo woyamba pomwe amayi amakhala ndi maphunziro apamwamba ndipo nthawi zina amalandila malipiro apamwamba kuposa amuna.

Poganizira zitsanzo zambiri za moyo wa amayi ochita bwino pagulu, komanso chithunzi cha kanema cha Hollywood cha heroine wamphamvu, mtundu wa Cinderella wonyenga suwonekanso wodabwitsa. Ndi mawu omveka okha omwe amabwera kuti ngati iye anali wodziwa bwino kwambiri zachinyengo, sakanagwera mu udindo wa wantchito wotsika, wochita ntchito yonyansa kwambiri.

Kuchokera pamalingaliro a psychoanalytic, nthanoyi ikufotokoza zowawa za kutaya mayi komanso kuzunzidwa ndi amayi ake opeza ndi azilongo ake.

Kuvulala koyambirira kumatha kukakamiza Cinderella wotere kuti achoke kudziko longopeka. Ndiyeno thandizo la nthano ndi kugonjetsa Prince Charming akhoza kuonedwa ngati zinthu za delirium ake. Koma ngati psyche ili ndi zinthu zokwanira, ndiye kuti munthu sangawonongeke, koma, m'malo mwake, adzalandira chilimbikitso champhamvu cha chitukuko.

Pali zitsanzo zambiri za kupambana kwakukulu kwa anthu omwe moyo wawo wachinyamata unali wovuta komanso wodabwitsa. Nkhani zonse zolimbikitsa, zomwe zimaphatikizapo nthano, zimalongosola zochitika zachitukuko, momwe ofooka amakhala amphamvu, ndipo osazindikira amakhala anzeru.

The ngwazi simpleton, amene mwayi zachilendo, akuimira kukhulupirira moyo ndi anthu, kukhulupirika ku zolinga zake. Ndipo, ndithudi, kudalira mwachilengedwe. M'lingaliro ili, Cinderella amaimiranso chinthu chomwe sichinaphunzire pang'ono cha psyche yathu, pomwe chinsinsi cha kukwaniritsa maloto anu chabisika.

Daria Petrovskaya, dokotala wa Gestalt:

Nthano ya Cinderella sinatanthauzidwebe. Limodzi mwa matanthauzo ake ndi "kuleza mtima ndi ntchito zidzasokoneza chirichonse." Lingaliro lomwelo limasanduka nthano ya "msungwana wabwino": ngati mudikira nthawi yaitali, kupirira ndi kuchita bwino, ndiye kuti padzakhala mphoto yosangalatsa yoyenera.

Pachiyembekezo ichi cha chisangalalo mwa munthu wa Kalonga (ngakhale palibe chomwe chimadziwika za iye, kupatulapo udindo wake), pali gawo la kupeŵa udindo wa chopereka cha mtsogolo. Mkangano wa wolemba kalatayo ndikuti adagwira Cinderella pakuchitapo kanthu. Ndipo adawadzudzula kuti: "Uku ndikupusitsa."

Sitikudziwa wolemba nkhaniyo, sitidziwa zomwe ankafuna kutiphunzitsa, komanso ngati analidi. Komabe, mbiri yapeza malo ake m’mitima mwathu, chifukwa ambiri mwachinsinsi akuyembekezera chozizwitsa ichi. Ndipo amaiwala kuti zozizwitsa ndi zotheka ngati mutaikapo ndalama. Kuti mupeze Kalonga, muyenera kubwera ku mpira ndikumudziwa. Monga osati iye yekha, komanso malo ake ozungulira. Pokhapokha pali mwayi woti chozizwitsa chidzatheka.

Heroine wa kalatayo akuwoneka kuti akudzudzula Cinderella: ndi wonyenga komanso wosakhulupirika, chifukwa amadziyesa kuti sali yemwe ali.

Izi ndi zoona kuchokera m'malemba a nthano. Koma zoona zake n'zakuti Cinderella anatenga mwayi.

Chifukwa cha mafanizo awo, nthano zongopeka zimasanduka gawo lachiwonetsero chosatha kwa owerenga. Iwo ndi otchuka kwambiri chifukwa aliyense amapeza zosiyana mwa iwo, malingana ndi zomwe akumana nazo komanso moyo wawo.

Mawu a mlembi wa kalatayo ndi cholinga makamaka kudzudzula «kusaona mtima» Cinderella. Ndipo sali munthu wamantha kwenikweni, koma mtsikana amene amamvetsetsa malo ake m'moyo ndipo sakugwirizana nawo. Amafuna zambiri ndikuchita khama.

Kutengera ntchito zathu zamkati, timasankha mitundu yosiyanasiyana yokhumudwitsa ndi nthano. Ndipo iyinso ndi njira yowulula komanso yofunika.

Siyani Mumakonda