Mawu akuti "kunena zoona" ndi "choonadi" m'chinenero chathu ali ndi matanthauzo abwino kwambiri, osatsutsika. Komabe, zokumana nazo zimatiuza kuti nthaŵi zina sikoyenera kunena zoona zonse ndi kuchita zinthu mosadziletsa.
Izi sizochenjera, osati zabodza, zomwe wachinyamata angatinyoze mosazengereza, koma umunthu, komanso malamulo a hostel.
Muunyamata, tikukhala pamlingo waukulu ndipo osayang’ana m’mbuyo, osadziŵabe kuti anthu ngopanda ungwiro. Masana, kangapo, zovuta za midget zimasinthidwa ndi zovuta za Gulliver. Nkhanza zosazindikira ndi mkwiyo zinaunjikana mwa iye; opanda chifundo, koma chilungamo. Amaonanso nsanje ndi chidani kukhala mawu a choonadi. Ndipo kuyang'anitsitsa nthawi yomweyo kumatsimikizira kulondola kwake.
Mu gulu langa lachinyamata, mwambo wolankhulana moona mtima unayambika (m'chaka chachinayi cha kulankhulana). Zolinga zabwino, mawu oyera, ndife abwino kwambiri. Ndipo zidakhala zowopsa. Ubale unayamba kuwonongeka, maubwenzi ambiri adasokonekera, komanso maukwati omwe adakonzedwanso.
“Popeza pali chowonadi mu “choonadi” chilichonse, chimabweretsa chisoni chochuluka, ndipo nthawi zina mavuto”
Amene amakonda kudula choonadi-mimba amapezeka pa msinkhu uliwonse ndi kampani iliyonse. Kuwona mtima kumawapatsa mwayi wokhawo kuti adziwonetsere okha, komanso nthawi yomweyo kuti awerenge ndi omwe, m'malingaliro awo, adakwera pamwamba. Popeza pali chowonadi mu "choonadi-mimba" chilichonse, chimabweretsa chisoni chochuluka, ndipo nthawi zina mavuto. Koma muunyamata, kunena zoona koteroko sikungolamulidwa ndi zovuta (ngakhale popanda izo). Ndiwopambana, wolamulidwa ndi lingaliro lachilungamo ndi lodalirika. Kuonjezera apo, nthawi zambiri izi siziri zoona za wina, koma za iwe mwini: kuvomereza kosalamulirika, kufooka kwa mtima.
Mwanjira ina ndikofunikira kufotokozera kwa achinyamata (ngakhale izi ndizovuta) kuti tsatanetsatane wa nthawi yolankhula momasuka akhoza kutembenuzidwa kwa amene adatsegula. Sikuti zochitika zanu zonse ziyenera kudaliridwa ndi mawu. Mwa kuvomereza, sitingosonyeza kudalira munthu, komanso kumulemetsa ndi udindo wa mavuto ake.
The psychological limagwirira amene wochezeka frankness akufotokozera mu mkangano ndi chidani motsimikizika zikusonyezedwa mu nkhani Leo Tolstoy "Youth", mu mutu "Ubwenzi ndi Nekhlyudov". Ngwaziyo akuvomereza kuti zimawalepheretsa kuthetsa chibwenzicho pamene chibwenzicho chinazirala: "...tinali omangidwa ndi lamulo lathu lachilendo lolankhula mosabisa mawu. Titabalalika, tinali ndi mantha kwambiri kusiya mu mphamvu ya wina ndi mzake zonse zodalirika, zochititsa manyazi kwa ife eni, zinsinsi zamakhalidwe. Komabe, kusiyana kunali kosapeweka kale, ndipo kudakhala kovutirapo kuposa momwe kukadakhalira: "Choncho ichi ndi chomwe lamulo lathu lidapangitsa kuti tiziuzana chilichonse chomwe timamva ... , kupereka, kuchititsa manyazi athu, kulingalira, kulota kwa chikhumbo ndi kumverera ... "
Choncho musanyadire kukhala oona mtima. Mawu ndi osalondola, zinsinsi zapamtima sizingathe kufotokozera, ndipo ndife osatetezeka komanso osinthika. Nthawi zambiri, mawu athu sangathandize wina, koma amamupweteka kwambiri, ndipo mwina amamukwiyitsa. Iye, monga ife, ali ndi chikumbumtima, chimagwira ntchito molondola, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, popanda kusokoneza kunja.