Zamkatimu
Salankhula za malingaliro ake, amatha kutha kwa masiku angapo. Kumbuyo kwake kuli gulu la mitima yosweka, koma zikuwoneka kwa inu: ndiye ngwazi ya buku lanu. Chifukwa chiyani amuna ozizira amakhala ngwazi zamaloto aakazi ndipo ndi mfundo ziti zomwe mungatenge ngati mutakopeka nazo, katswiri wa zamaganizo Jill Weber akufotokoza.
Iwo «kuwala» ndi kukopa
Amunawa amadzisamalira okha ndipo amaoneka bwino nthawi zonse. Amatha kuyesa masitayelo osiyanasiyana, koma zovala zawo nthawi zonse zimakhala zapamwamba, ndipo chithunzicho chimasiyanitsidwa ndi kunyalanyaza kolingalira. Uthenga waukulu: Ndimachita chilichonse, kuphatikiza ine ndekha, mosavuta. Poyamba, izi zimawoneka ngati chinthu chokongola chomwe chimakopa chidwi.
Chinsinsi chachiwiri cha kupambana ndi kusagwirizana mu kulankhulana ndi aura ya kukhumudwa, kuchititsa chikhumbo chofuna kudziwa chomwe chili kumbuyo kwa chithunzi cha Childe Harold wodabwitsa. Kalanga, nthawi zambiri palibe. Ndipo kuuma kwamalingaliro sikuli chiwonetsero chakuya komwe sikuwululidwa kwa aliyense komanso osati nthawi yomweyo, koma kutha kuwongolera zinthu popanda kulowererapo kwambiri m'maganizo.
Sachita mikangano yoopsa ndipo amapeŵa kuthekera kwa kuoneka ngati opusa, osatetezeka, opanda ungwiro. M'mawu amodzi, munthu.
Amasunga chithunzicho
Mu psychology yamakhalidwe, pali lingaliro la kulimbikitsa malingaliro abwino pobwereza zomwe zidawoneka bwino nthawi yoyamba. Pankhani ya amuna osafikirika m'maganizo, chitsanzochi chimagwira ntchito motere: nthawi ndi nthawi amasonyeza kukhudzidwa ndi maubwenzi ndi zida zonse za chibwenzi.
Kukondana ndi ngwazi yomwe imakopa akazi ena mwachidwi kumakopa chidwi chachikazi
Zikuwoneka kwa mkazi kuti potsiriza wakwaniritsa malo a ngwazi yake. Pamene chidwi chake chachepa, amaputanso naye kusonyeza malingaliro ndi malingaliro omwe adazolowera. Ndipo pokhapokha atazindikira kuti wozunzidwayo akulephera kuleza mtima kapena chidwi ndi masewera otalikirapo, amamutumiziranso zizindikiro zosayembekezereka: zomwe amakonda pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti, amadzipereka kuti azipita limodzi kumapeto kwa sabata, amayambitsa kukambirana moona mtima, amatumiza maluwa. .
Amayambitsa zongopeka za moyo wanthano
Zikuoneka kwa mkazi kuti mwamuna wokongola mwakuthupi, amene ali wokhoza kulamulira bwino maganizo ake, ali wokhoza kulamulira zambiri m’moyo. Amadziwika kuti ndi ngwazi-wopambana yemwe angatuluke m'moyo wamba watsiku ndi tsiku ndikupereka nkhani yachikondi ya moyo wonse.
Amalimbikitsa kudzidalira
Kukondana ndi ngwazi yomwe imakopa akazi ena mwachidwi kumakopa chidwi cha akazi. Ngakhale nkhaniyo ikapanda kukhala ubale wokhazikika, wanthawi yayitali (zomwe zimachitika nthawi zambiri), zimakulolani kukhala ndi malingaliro a ubwana wa mwana wamkazi wa mfumukazi yomwe idayamikiridwa ndi chophiphiritsa, chosafikirika. kalonga. Monga katswiri wazamisala, nthawi zambiri ndimawona iyi ngati njira ina yotsimikizira kufunikira kwanga komanso kufunikira kwanga.
Iwo amasanduka kalilole wa maganizo akazi ndi mantha.
Kwa akazi, pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana, osatsimikiza kuti ndi oyenerera kupeza zomwe akufuna, kukoma mtima kwachimuna ndi malingaliro amawoneka ngati mikhalidwe yokayikitsa. Amuna amene amasonyeza chidwi chenicheni mwa iwo kaŵirikaŵiri amatchedwa osakwanira okondweretsa ndi olimba mtima.
M'maganizo a akazi omwe sakonda komanso osadzivomereza okha, amuna osafikirika amalimbitsa chithunzi chawo cha munthu wosayenerera chikondi.
Kunena zowona, ambiri mwa akazi ameneŵa sakonda ndipo sadzivomereza okha. Ndipo kusaloŵerera kwa munthu kumalimbitsa m'maganizo mwawo chifaniziro chawo cha munthu yemwe ali wosayenera chidwi ndi chikondi.
Iwo "samalowa mu moyo"
Ngati mkazi mwachibadwa ali wotsekedwa ndipo samakonda kuwonetsera maganizo, mnzakeyo sadzaumirira kuti amudziwe bwino ndikumumvetsa mozama. M'malo mwake, adzachita zonse kuti apewe nkhani zosasangalatsa, ndipo sizidzasokoneza chilichonse. Zokambirana zilizonse zomwe zimakhudzidwa ndi malingaliro amphamvu, ngwazi iyi idutsa.
Monga mukuonera, munthu amene ali ndi vuto la kusakhoza kuloŵerera m’thupi amatha, monga pagalasi, kusonyeza makhalidwe athu amene tinali tisanawaganizirepo. Kutithandiza kudziona tokha mwa njira ina ndi chinthu chabwino kwambiri chimene angatichitire. Chifukwa chifukwa cha kukopa kwawo konse kwakunja, mwamuna wamtundu uwu sadzakulolani kuti mukhale ndi chikondi chopanda malire cha wokondedwa yemwe mungakhale nokha.