Timapitiriza mndandanda wa zipangizo za Wday supermoms. Kukhala kunyumba ndi mwana wamng'ono ndi kuchita zonse? Bwanji osapenga patchuthi cha amayi? Olemba mabulogu ochita bwino amagawana zinsinsi zawo ndi Tsiku la Akazi. N'zotheka kukhala kholo lalikulu, komanso wamalonda, chitsanzo kapena zisudzo! Kutsimikiziridwa ndi zochitika. Pakusankha kwathu olemba mabulogu opambana kwambiri omwe amalimbikitsidwa ndi mabanja, zomwe amakonda komanso dziko lozungulira. Galina Bob, Alena Silenko, Valeria Chekalina, Yana Yatskovskaya, Natalie Pushkina, Yulia Bakhareva ndi Ekaterina Zueva anayankha mafunsowo.
Tinawafunsa atsikanawo mafunso asanu ndi awiri opweteka ndipo tinawauza zinsinsi zathu.
Galina Bob ndi wojambula komanso woimba. Amatsogolera njira yake ndi akaunti pa Instagram .
1. Mwamuna, ana, ine ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
Ndikufuna kukhulupirira kuti ndapambana, ndimayesetsa kwambiri. Banja ndiloyamba kwa ine - uyu ndi mwamuna wanga, mwana wanga ndi ine ndekha. Ndife athunthu, ndipo chifukwa chake, pakumvetsetsa kwanga, ndife osagwirizana m'mbali zonse.
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Ndikukhulupirira kuti ngati mumayika patsogolo moyenera komanso choyamba kulabadira zofunika kwambiri komanso zofunika, ndiye kuti zonse zimangochitika zokha. Koma ndizabwinonso kupempha thandizo, chifukwa anthu apamtima amathandizira ndikuthandizira pazochitika zilizonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndikusunga malire mu chirichonse.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Choyamba, timaphunzitsa mwanayo kulankhulana, kuti asakule akapolo, osaopa anthu, ndikukhala munthu wokonda kucheza. Azolowera kale izi kuyambira ali ndi miyezi itatu, nthawi zonse amakhala m'makampani akuluakulu, amakonda anthu kwambiri. Ndipo, ndithudi, timamuphunzitsa kukonda mnansi wake.
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Chabwino, ndi molawirira kwambiri kuti mumunamize, ndipo ngati samvera, ndiye kuti timayesa kumusokoneza ndi masewera, kuti tichite chinthu china. Akachita zoipa, timamuuza kuti "ah-ah-ay", amamvetsa bwino zomwe zili. Amadziwa bwino liwu lakuti “mwaudongo,” ndiko kuti, pamene kuli kofunika kuchita zinthu mosamala. Ngati chinachake sichingachitike, ndiye timati: sizingatheke. Ndipo zikakhala bwino, timawomba m'manja ndikufuula "Bravo, Lyova!", Amamukonda kwambiri. Ndipotu Lev ndi wankhanza pokhapokha ngati akudwala, ndiye ngati ali wonyansa, timamuchitira. Pamene ali wamakani, timayesa kukambirana naye masewera, mwa kulankhulana, monga makolo aliwonse.
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Lingaliro lakuti, tikuthokoza Mulungu, tikukhala mumtendere ndi chikondi, limalimbikitsa.
6. Kodi n'chiyani chikukulepheretsani kulera, ndipo mwambo wokakamizika ndi wotani?
Lyova sanamvepo ziwonetsero zilizonse. Sitifuula, osalumbira pamaso pa mwana, ndipo, ndithudi, sitidzamumenya. Izi ndi taboo. Tsoka ilo, ndimawona amayi ndi abambo ambiri nthawi zina akukoka ana awo. Izi ndi zowopsa. Palibe tsiku limodzi lomwe limadutsa popanda kukumbatirana ndi kupsompsona. Ndizofunikira.
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
Kodi zinatheka bwanji kuti izi zitheke ... poyamba zinali zosangalatsa chabe. Bwanji osajambula chithunzi ndi mwana .. komanso opanda mwana. Ndili ndi makanema ambiri osiyanasiyana. Chabwino, ndiyeno ndidakonda pamlingo wina waukadaulo. Ndikumva ngati wotsogolera, zimakulitsa kuganiza, kulingalira ndi zina zotero. Ndimasangalala nazo, Leva nayenso, ndipo zikhala zokumbukira, padzakhala china choti muwone mtsogolo.
8. Tiuzeni za luso lanu loimba, momwe mudafikirako, zomwe mukugwira ntchito komanso za nyimbo zanu.
Ndi nyimbo, zonse zidayamba posachedwa kwa ine, koma kwenikweni, zakhala zikukhala mwa ine. Ndinkaimba pamatchuthi onse, zochitika za kusukulu, pa karaoke, pamasiku obadwa, ndipo aliyense ankayamikiridwa kwambiri, kotero mkati mwa mtima wanga ndinali ndi loto lochita mwaukadaulo, koma zinali zowopsa. Tsopano, popeza ndagonjetsa malire aakulu, ndikuganiza kuti chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti anthu amakonda ntchito yanga monga momwe ndimachitira. Nyimbo zanga (mpaka pano zilipo 12) ndizodzaza ndi zabwino zonse. Ngakhale nkhani ya bwenzi lakale ikhoza kukhala yabwino. Ndatulutsa kale makanema awiri ndi kanema wanyimbo imodzi. Onse amapangidwa ndi nthabwala ndi chikondi. Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti anthu ali pafupi ndi izi, anthu akusowa izi pakati pa zovuta zonse za moyo.
Tsopano, ngakhale kuti tikuyembekezera mwana wachiwiri, ntchito yathu ikupita patsogolo, ndipo ndili ndi mphamvu zambiri. Ngakhale mphamvu ziwiri kuti muyimbe, kuti mubwere ndi chinachake chatsopano. Mwina posachedwa tidzajambula kanema komwe ndidzakhala ndi mimba. Sindibisa chilichonse kwa aliyense, ndimakhala wokondwa kuyankhulana ndi olembetsa anga ndipo ndimawathokoza chifukwa cha chikondi chawo kwa ine.
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1. Mwamuna - ana - ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
M’kumvetsetsa kwanga, makolo ndi maunansi awo ndiwo maziko a banja, ndipo ana ndiwo mbali yaikulu ya ukwati wawo wachimwemwe, ziŵalo zonse zabanja. Choncho, ndingayankhe kuti maubwenzi ogwirizana ndiwo maziko a banja.
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi yokwanira pa chilichonse nthawi imodzi, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Sindinayese kuchita chirichonse kwa nthawi yaitali, chifukwa ndi: a) zosatheka, b) njira yolunjika ya neurosis. M'malo mwake, ndimatsatira malamulo osavuta:
- kuika patsogolo;
- inde, ndikugawira ena ntchito ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndizabwinobwino. Amayi. Kwa mwamuna wanga. Nanny. Ana aang'ono. Ndimagwiritsa ntchito zinthu zambiri. Sindikuwona mfundo yotseka chilichonse pa ine ndekha, ndani angakhale bwino kuchokera pa izi? Ana amafunikira mayi wodekha, wokwanira, osati kavalo wothamangitsidwa.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Kukoma mtima, chifundo, kuthandizana.
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Zoonadi, zolakalaka zimachitika. Makamaka mkulu wathu Christina nthawi zambiri amasonyeza khalidwe. M'banja lathu, pali lamulo: timakhudza ana mwa kusowa zinthu zabwino, osati kuchita zoipa ("zipinda zamdima", "ngodya", ndi zina zotero). Ndipo "kumenya mbama" ndi "kumenya mutu" sikuli njira yathu, tili ndi vuto. Titha kutenga zidole zomwe timakonda, osawonetsa zojambula, ndi zina. Uthenga waukulu: ngati simumvera makolo anu ndikukwaniritsa zopempha zathu, ndiye kuti sitidzakwaniritsa zanu. Sankhani. Njira imeneyi yatsimikizira kale kukhala yothandiza m’banja mwathu.
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Lingaliro: chimodzimodzi, onse amakula tsiku lina. Joke (kumwetulira). M'malo mwake, masewera olimbitsa thupi kangapo pa sabata kapena maphwando amadzulo ndi mwamuna wanu pagalasi la vinyo ndi zokambirana zapamtima ndizabwino kwambiri pakupumula ndikubwezeretsanso mgwirizano wamkati.
6. Kodi n'chiyani chikukulepheretsani kulera, ndipo mwambo wokakamizika ndi wotani?
Taboo, monga ndidanenera, kukhudza thupi - kukwapula, lamba, ndi zina zotero. Sindidzanena mawu monga "munandikhumudwitsa", "simungathe", "kuchita zomwe mukufuna, koma osandivutitsa", "Sindinachitepo kanthu." sindisamala zomwe mukuchita. ” Mawu amene mwana angatanthauzidwe ngati uthenga womukaniza. Miyambo - Sindikudziwa, masiku athu onse safanana. Mwina mtundu wina wa zinthu za boma: kusamba, kutsuka mano, zojambulajambula, chokoma mukatha kudya. Chabwino, komanso kukumbatirana ndi kulengeza kwa chikondi - popanda izi, nayenso, tsiku silidutsa.
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
M'malo mwake, m'moyo ndine munthu wotsekedwa, ndipo poyambilira akaunti yanga ya Instagram idaperekedwa ku bizinesi yanga yaying'ono - chinthu chopangidwa ndi chilolezo - mbali zoteteza zomwe zimalepheretsa makanda kugwa kuchokera pabedi. Sindinakweze zithunzi zanga. Kenaka ndinali ndi mapasa achiwiri, ndinasintha mwamsanga ndondomeko ndikugona makanda, chifukwa cha zomwe ndakumana nazo kale ndi mapasa oyambirira, ndipo anzanga angapo panthawi yomweyi adandilangiza kuti ndiyambe kulemba za zomwe ndinakumana nazo pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti (kuyang'ana kutsogolo). , Ndikunena kuti ntchito yanga yolimbikira polemba zolemba za kugona ndi regimen, komanso mayankho ambiri abwino ochokera kwa amayi omwe amalota kugona mokwanira, zidapangitsa kuti pulogalamu yam'manja yokhala ndi zolemba zanga zonse pamutuwu iwonekere posachedwa. ). Nthawi zambiri, kwa nthawi yayitali sindinavomereze lingaliro la akaunti yanga, koma tsiku lina ndinapanga malingaliro anga. Ndipo ... adayamwa! Kwa ine, iyi mwina ndi njira yodziwonetsera ndekha, chifukwa m'moyo ndine munthu wotanganidwa kwambiri, ndikusokoneza moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku ndi nkhawa za tsiku ndi tsiku!
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1. Mwamuna, ana, ine ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
Mwinamwake ndidzawoneka wodzikonda, koma ndikuganiza kuti mkazi ayenera kudzikonda yekha poyamba! Apa ndi pamene zonse zimayambira, atsikana odalirika komanso odzidalira amakopa anyamata abwino. Chikondi chimabadwa ndipo banja limapangidwa. Chinthu chachikulu ndi chakuti pakubwera kwa ana, mapiri a ma diapers odetsedwa ndi kusowa tulo kosatha, musaiwale za chikondi ichi. Zingakhale zovuta kuthana ndi kusintha kumeneku muubwenzi pamene maudindo a mwamuna/mkazi asintha kukhala abambo/amayi. Pampata uliwonse, ndimayesetsa kupatsa mkazi wanga nthawi: kuphika chakudya chamadzulo, kukambirana mwachidule za nkhani za kuntchito komanso kupsompsonana. Padzakhala nthawi ya izi, chifukwa mwamuna wanga ndiye chithandizo changa, ndipo popanda iye sindikanakhala ndi ana odabwitsa chonchi. Ndipo chikondi kwa iwo ndi chosiyana, ndichoposa malo oyamba kapena achiwiri!
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Ndine woyamikira kwambiri kuti ndili ndi banja lalikulu komanso laubwenzi. Othandizira nthawi zambiri amatiyimira pamzere: kuwonjezera pa agogo athu okondedwa komanso opanda mavuto (omwe tiyenera kuwapempherera), tili ndi amalume, azakhali, alongo ndi abale. Poyamba, sindinapemphe aliyense kuti andithandize, ngakhale amayi anga sindinawayitane. Ndinaganiza kuti: "Ndine chiyani, amayi oipa, ndipo sindingathe kupirira ndekha, ndili ndi chibadwa cha amayi ndipo luso lakulera mwana lili m'magazi anga, ndi encyclopedia yaikulu" Chilichonse chokhudza ana kuyambira 0 mpaka 3 "Zimadzaza mu ubongo wanga! Koma patapita nthawi, ndi kutopa, kunyada kunathanso. Ndinazindikira kuti palibe cholakwika ndi izi, ingoyitanani ndikupempha thandizo, chifukwa izi sizikuwonetsa kufooka, koma mwayi wodzipatula nokha, bizinesi yanu ndi mwamuna wanu. Makamaka ngati pali mwayi wotero ndipo achibale amakhala pafupi. Chifukwa chake, nthawi zambiri ndimakhala ndi nyumba yodzaza alendo komanso zolembera zaulere zokonzeka kusangalatsa gulu langa.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Chitirani anthu momwe inu mungafunire kuti iwo akuchitireni inu. Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti apa ndi pomwe zonse zimayambira. Palibe amene amafuna kulankhula ndi abodza? Choncho, simuyenera kudzinamiza. Chabwino, kapena ponena za ulemu: nthawi zambiri timafuna kuti ana azilemekeza ndi kumvera akuluakulu, ndipo sitiganizira zomwe mwanayo akufuna, chifukwa tiyenera kumvetsera maganizo ake - apa ndi pamene kulemekeza kwathu kwa ana kumawonekera.
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Ngakhale kuti ana anga akadali aang’ono, amadziwa kale kusonyeza khalidwe. Koma ngati ndikutsimikiza kuti mwana wanga sakuvutitsidwa ndi mano, mimba ndipo adagona, ndipo pazifukwa zina amalavulira phala, ndikhululukireni, okondedwa anga, koma ndiyenera kudya. Choncho, sitipereka chofooka ndi kuima molimba patokha! Kupatula apo, amayi (werengani "bwana") ndi inu!
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Kuposa yankho lililonse lingakhale fanizo la chochitika cha m’moyo wanga, chimene sindidzaiŵala ndipo chinandiphunzitsa zambiri.
Ine ndi mkazi wanga timayesetsa kuchita miyambo yonse yamadzulo ya kusamba, kudyetsa ndi kugona pamodzi, koma zimachitika kuti munthu mmodzi yekha ndi amene amayang'anira. Ndiyeno, atabwera kunyumba kuchokera ku ulendo wautali kunja ndi ana, mwamuna wanga anaganiza zopita ku masewera olimbitsa thupi, ine, ndithudi, ndinamulola kuti apite. Pamene ankachoka, anandiyang’ana modabwitsa kwambiri n’kundifunsa kuti: “Mudzapiriradi? Kodi sindingakusiyeni atatu? ” Ndinadabwa ndi funsoli, koma ndinangolichotsa n’kunena kuti, “Zoona, pita! Osati nthawi yoyamba. ” Atangochoka pakhomo, ndinagwidwa ndi chikaiko, koma kodi zonse zikhala bwino? Kodi ndingathe ndekha? Kupatula apo, ife, wina anganene, tilinso pamalo atsopano! Ndiwasambe bwanji? Ndi chakudya? Anawo ankaoneka kuti akumva, ndipo patapita mphindi zisanu kulira koopsa kunayamba ndi mawu awiri. Ndinachita mantha, izi sizinachitike, kotero kuti onse analira ndipo nthawi yomweyo anapempha zolembera. Sindidzalongosola maminiti a 40 awa, ndikupulumutsa mitsempha yanu, koma pobwerera kuchokera ku maphunziro, mwamuna wanga anapeza ana atatu m'chipinda chogona - osokonezeka, amanjenje ndi kulira! Mwamsanga kunyamula mwana mmodzi, ananditumiza ku bafa kuti ndikayeretse mkaka wotayika. Zinanditengera mphindi zisanu kuti nditulutse mpweya ndikukhazika mtima pansi. Ndipo anawo atangomva mtendere umene umachokera kwa bambo awo, nthawi yomweyo anasiya kulira n’kugona. Kotero pambuyo pake ndinazindikira chinthu chimodzi: amayi atangoyamba kuchita mantha, ana, monga barometer, amamumva ndi kusokoneza chikhalidwe chake. Ndipo lamulo ndilo: "Amayi odekha - ana odekha."
6. Ndi chiyani chomwe chikukuvutani pakulera?
Ndiyankha monga mayi wa mapasa, chofunika kwambiri si kufananiza ana ndi wina ndi mzake. Simunganene kuti: “Bwerani, idyani mwachangu! Mwaona mmene m’baleyo anadyera phala lonse! Munthu wabwino bwanji!” Ndizomveka kuti wina ayenera kufikitsa winayo ndipo kupikisana sikungapeweke, koma mwanjira iyi amatha kukhala ndi zovuta "Mwanjira iliyonse, koma kuposa mlongo." Ndipotu, ana onse ndi osiyana, ndipo aliyense amapambana mosiyana: wina adzakhala katswiri wa masewera, ndipo wina adzamaliza sukulu ndi mendulo ya golide.
Kodi mwambo wokakamiza ndi wotani?
Kuyambira ndili mwana ndimakumbukira kuti mayi anga ankandiyamikira pafupifupi tsiku lililonse. Anati ndine mtsikana wake wanzeru kwambiri, wokongola komanso wophunzira kwambiri. Ngakhale kuti sindinkagwirizana naye nthawi zonse, ndinkafunitsitsa kukwaniritsa zimene ankayembekezera. Umu ndi momwe chilimbikitso chinagwirira ntchito! Choncho, nthawi zambiri ndimayamikira ana anga, ndipo sindingathe kuyerekezera zimene ndinganene kwa mwana wanga kuti: “Simukanatha kuthetsa vutolo. Chabwino, ndinu opusa. ” Mosakayika ndinganene kuti: “Chabwino, osadandaula, ndiwe mwana wanga wanzeru, tsopano tiphunzira malamulo, tiyesetse ndi zitsanzo, ndipo mawa udzamumenyadi!
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
Zonse zinayamba ndendende chaka chimodzi chapitacho madzulo a Chaka Chatsopano. Monga ndikukumbukira tsopano, ndinakwaniritsa chimodzi mwa maloto anga akale ndikulamula mtengo wa Khirisimasi wamoyo: Ndinavala kukongola kwanga kwa mamita atatu kwa pafupifupi mlungu umodzi, ndinapita ku sitolo kukagula zoseweretsa kawiri ndikukwera patebulo nthawi 500! Mwamunayo anakalipira koopsa, amati siya kudumpha, khalani ndi kupuma. Koma ayi, ndinali ndi cholinga, ndipo mimba yanga yaikulu panthawiyo sinali cholepheretsa izi. Inde, ndinkafuna kutenga chithunzi chosaiwalika, ndinazunza kwambiri wokondedwa wanga, koma adatenga chithunzi "kuti ndisawoneke ngati wonenepa". Maola awiri onyengerera ndi pempho loti ayike pa intaneti, popeza palibe wina aliyense kupatulapo achibale athu ndi abwenzi apamtima omwe ankadziwa za vuto langa, ndipo tsopano positi yomwe inali kuyembekezera kwa nthawi yaitali "idakwezedwa" ku inst ndi hashtag #instamama # poyembekezera. cha chozizwitsa. Ndi chozizwitsa, zokonda ndi olembetsa anabwera. Ndinayamikiridwa osati ndi anzanga okha, komanso ndi alendo! Chisamaliro choterechi chinali chosangalatsa kwa ine ... Aliyense anali ndi chidwi ndi momwe ndinatha kusunga thupi langa, ndinalemba pang'ono ndikugawana zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi atsikana. Chotsatira chake, monga mwamuna wanga amakonda kuseka, ngati chinachake chichitika, tikhoza kuika amayi oposa zikwi zana pa olakwira athu!
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1. Mwamuna, ana, ine ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
Banja ndilofunika kwambiri komanso lofunika kwambiri kwa ine. Sindinamvetsetse akazi omwe amasiya kulabadira amuna awo pambuyo pa kubadwa kwa mwana. Ana amakula, ndipo ubwenzi sungakhalenso glued. Aliyense ayenera kutenga malo ake. Mwana ndi mwana, mwamuna ndi mwamuna, banja ndi chipatso cha ntchito zathu. Ndilibe ana, koma makolo anga amathandiza masiku 2 pa sabata. Ndili ndi mgwirizano ndi mwamuna wanga, timathandizana. Kudzisamalira ndi gawo lofunika kwambiri la moyo wanga. Amuna amatidziwa bwino komanso okonzeka bwino, choncho, pokhala pamodzi, ndikofunika kukhalabe mfumukazi, osati kusanduka chule. Sindichita manyazi kupita kukapanga manicure ndi mwana wanga wamkazi kapena kupita kukagula limodzi. Kuti mudzisamalire, choyamba, mumafunikira chikhumbo, osati ndalama zambiri. Kuti ndiwoneke wokongola, mphindi 20 m'mawa ndizokwanira kwa ine. Mukungoyenera kupanga lamulo kuti mudzipereke nthawi ino m'mawa osati kutsutsa chirichonse pazochitika. Ndiyeno mukhoza kuphika chakudya cham'mawa, kusamba, kuyeretsa, kuphunzitsa, ndi zina zotero. Timakhalanso ndi miyambo ya banja - mwachitsanzo, timayenda pamodzi, timadya chakudya chamadzulo, timatseka malo ochezera a pa Intaneti madzulo, kuthetsa nthawi zambiri pamodzi. Kukhalapo kosalekeza kwa liwu lakuti “pamodzi” m’miyoyo yathu kumatigwirizanitsa kwambiri. Ndikukhulupirira kuti muyenera kupangitsa mwamuna wanu, mwana, okondedwa anu kukhala osangalala, kupatsa dziko lapansi zabwino ndi zabwino, ndipo yankho labwino lidzabwereranso kumbali yathu.
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Nditha kupempha makolo anga kuti andithandize. Sindikumvetsa chifukwa chake ndimaganizira zofooka kapena mphamvu. Bwanji osapempha thandizo ngati, mwachitsanzo, sindigona mokwanira kwa mwezi umodzi? Sindikufuna kukhala ngati ngwazi yabodza. Ndikufuna kukhala mkazi wokondwa, mayi, mkazi. Mapewa a amayi amangowoneka osalimba, koma ngakhale atakhala amphamvu bwanji, amafunikirabe chithandizo. Zoonadi, anthu amene ndingatembenukireko angaŵerengedwe pa zala zanga, koma ndiwo amene ndingawakhulupirire, ndipo anthu ameneŵa nthaŵi zonse angandichirikize.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Timaphunzitsa mwanayo kuti azilemekeza ena. Mwachitsanzo, Alexa ndi Nika (Spitz) ndi mabwenzi apamtima. Chifukwa cha Nika, Alexa yakhala yosalimba komanso yowoneka bwino. Amakulira limodzi, ndipo mwanayo amaphunzira kuchita zinthu mopanda dyera: kugawana, kugonjera. Timayesetsa kuti tisawononge mwanayo kwambiri ndikukhala okhwima. Amazindikira mosavuta chikondi ndi kusakhutira. Nthawi zambiri, ndimakhulupirira kuti mazikowo adakhazikitsidwa zaka zitatu zisanachitike. Komanso, momwe zonse zimayendera, zimatengera iye. Kutha kuyanjana ndi dziko lakunja ndi chimodzi mwazinthu zofunika kwambiri pa moyo wotukuka pakati pa anthu.
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Ana ndi chithunzi chagalasi cha khalidwe la makolo awo. Sitizindikira zambiri zomwe zili kumbuyo kwathu, ndipo makanda amayamwa chidziwitso ngati chinkhupule.
Lamulo nambala 1 - palibe mikangano, nkhanza ndi kufotokozera ndi mwanayo.
Lamulo # 2 - sinthani chidwi kapena perekani njira ina. Ngati Alexa ali wamakani, ndimasintha zomwe ndikufuna kukhala masewera. Mwachitsanzo, anabalalitsa zinthu ndipo sakufuna kutolera. Ndimamukopa, ndikupeza dengu laling'ono labwino kwambiri la tinthu tating'ono, ndipo timatuluka ndikusonkhanitsa zonse. Kapena ngati akufuna kutenga chinachake, nthawi yomweyo ndimamupatsa chinthu china ndikumuuza, ndikumuwonetsa. Ndiko kuti, sikuti ndikungozembera njira ina, koma ndikukopa. Kaya ndimakonda kapena ayi, khandalo limawona ndi zomwe zikuchitika.
Ndimayesetsa kusiyanitsa momveka bwino pakati pa mawu ndi machitidwe kuti athe kusanthula bwino zomwe ndikuchita. Ndiko kuti, palibe chinthu choterocho - "ah-ah-ah, hee-hee-hee" - popeza mwana akhoza kusokonezeka, mwina sindimakonda, kapena ndikuseka. Nthaŵi zonse ndimaona kuti ngati sali m’maganizo, ndimayesetsa kusintha n’kumupatsa chinachake chosangalatsa. Tikhoza kudzidodometsa mwa kusambira, kujambula, kuyenda, kuyitana banja lathu pa Skype ndi zina zambiri. Zonse zimatengera kumverera.
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Palinso mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima. Nthawi zina pamakhala kutopa, panthawi zotere ubongo umangozimitsidwa, ndipo ndimanyalanyaza chilichonse, ndikuganiza zonse, ndikuzindikira, koma kwenikweni zomwe zimachitika ndi ziro. Izi zikachitika, wokondedwa nthawi zambiri amamvetsetsa zonse ndipo amati: pitani mukapume. Koma palibe mkwiyo, chiwawa, komanso kutopa kwakuthupi, choncho masewera, kugona bwino, ndipo nthawi zina kugula kumachepetsa kutopa. Nditha kukhala ndi anzanga mu lesitilanti, koma izi sizichitikachitika.
6. Kodi n'chiyani chikukulepheretsani kulera, ndipo mwambo wokakamizika ndi wotani?
Taboo kwa ine ndikutukwana ndi mikangano pamaso pa ana. Ndidzayesa kuchita momwe ndingathere popanda chilango chakuthupi, popeza sindimawaona ngati chitsanzo chabwino cha khalidwe. Chabwino, mu mkhalidwe wopanda zabwino, ine ndithudi kusiya mawu aliwonse. Tsiku lililonse ndimagwirizanitsa ubale wathu wabanja ndi chakudya cham'mawa, chakudya chamadzulo, kuyenda. Loweruka ndi Lamlungu timakhala ndi banja lathu. Ndikufuna kuti mwanayo akhale ndi zikumbukiro zoterozo ndi mayanjano ndi banja okhazikika pamene aliyense ali pamodzi.
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
Ndinazindikira kuti zomwe ndakumana nazo ndi zosangalatsa kwa anthu. Ngati tonse titagawana chinthu chothandiza, zingakhale zosavuta. Mutha kupita patsogolo ndipo ndidatero. Ndili ndi maakaunti awiri @youryani ndi @yani_care. Chachikulu ndi blog yanga yokhudza moyo ndi ntchito. Ndipo chachiwiri ndi kudzisamalira. Palibe malo amodzi otsatsa m'menemo - awa ndi malo anga okhazikika. Koma @youryani sizovuta kulowa. Chilichonse chomwe ndimalankhula ndichondichitikira ndipo ndimayesa chilichonse ndekha. Ndimakana kwambiri. Ndimakonda kukhala oona mtima ndi owerenga anga ndi kuteteza omvera anga. Ndiwokoma mtima komanso wolimbikitsa. Monga akunenera, pezani ntchito yomwe mukufuna - ndipo simugwira ntchito tsiku limodzi m'moyo wanu. Pankhani imeneyi, kulemba mabulogu ndi za ine. Phokoso lomwe limabweretsa zopindula komanso mulu wa zokonda kuchokera kwa owerenga othokoza!
Natalie Pushkina - mlengi, mayi wa ana aakazi awiri.
1. Mwamuna, ana, ine ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
Nthawi! M'miyezi yaposachedwa, mawuwa ndi ofunika kulemera kwake kwagolide kwa ine. Iye wakhala akusowa kwa aliyense, koma kwa zaka zambiri, tsiku lililonse limasanduka mpikisano. Ponena za mwamuna ndi ana, ndiye sindikubisa mfundo yakuti mwamuna nthawi zonse amabwera poyamba. Iye ndiye mapiko anga. Ngati kulumikizana kwathu kukuyamba kuwonongeka, ndiye kuti china chilichonse chimatha ngati nyumba yamakhadi. Choncho, mgwirizano ndiye chinsinsi cha chisangalalo, thanzi ndi moyo wa banja lathu ndi atsikana athu. Iye ndi mnzanga. Munthu yekhayo padziko lonse lapansi yemwe ali naye kunja popanda halftones. Monga momwe zilili. Ndipo chifukwa chake ubale wathu ndi wamtengo wapatali. Chaka chino patha zaka khumi kuchokera pamene takhala tikugwirana manja mwamphamvu, ndipo "kuyenda" uku ndikokhudza ubwino wa maubwenzi, osati "osachepera, bola mpaka ukwati wa golidi."
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Zimakhala zovuta kupempha thandizo, mwachiwonekere, kotero sindikusankhabe za nanny! Sindimakonda kufunsa ayi. Panthaŵi ina, mawu a Bulgakov akuti “Mphunzitsi ndi Margarita” anafotokoza maganizo anga: “Osapempha kalikonse! Osatero ndipo palibe, ndipo makamaka ndi omwe ali amphamvu kuposa inu. Iwo eniwo adzapereka ndipo iwo eni adzapereka chirichonse ”. Umu ndi momwe timakhalira, ndithudi, kugwiritsa ntchito thandizo la agogo. Koma ana athu ndi ife tiyenera kuwakonda tokha. Monga "mukonda", kotero pambuyo pake mudzalandira kubwezera.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Ndikuganiza kuti yankho lake ndi lodziwikiratu: muyenera kumukonda. Kuyambira pachiyambi, pamene iye sali mwana, koma mizere iwiri pa mtanda. Ubwenzi ndi makolowo ndi wamphamvu kwambiri. Ndi amayi - osatha. Ngakhale ndikamadzudzula kapena kudzudzula wamkulu wanga, nthawi zonse ndimanena kuti kwa amayi ndi wokondedwa kwambiri, zivute zitani. Ndipo ndimadzudzula chifukwa ndimakonda komanso ndikufuna kuphunzitsa zinazake. Munthu akapanda kusamala, sakhalanso ndi malingaliro ... Izi ndizowopsa!
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Ndikumva atsikana anga mwachidziwitso, ndikudziwa kulimbikitsa kapena kuikapo pang'onopang'ono. Palibe “wothandizira” amene angachite zimenezi. Tsoka ilo kapena mwamwayi, nthawi idzanena!
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Ngakhale kuti ndimagwira nawo ntchito pazama TV, ndimakonda kukhala ndekha. Ingokhalani nokha. Ngakhale itakhala "yekha" m'galimoto pakati pa magalimoto. Koma maganizo sanandikhazike mtima pansi. Munthu yekhayo amene anganditsitsimule pamakhalidwe ndi mwakuthupi ndi mwamuna wanga. Ubwenzi wathu unayamba ndi zokambirana zazitali za chilichonse. Iwo anandikokera ine ndiye. Ine, ndili mwana, ndinadzikulunga muzokambiranazi ndikuzindikira kuti ndi iye yekha izi ndizotheka, ndipo izi zikupitirirabe mpaka lero. Mkazi amakonda ndi makutu ake ndipo makutu anga sanalandidwepo.
6. Kodi n'chiyani chikukulepheretsani kulera, ndipo mwambo wokakamizika ndi wotani?
Musakhalepo pamene mwana wanu akukufunani. Sitikambirana za lamba ndi chilango chakuthupi pompano, sichoncho? Izi ndizosavomerezeka kwa ine. Koma kunena mwachidule zomwe tikuyembekezera ndizovuta. Ndikudziwa kuti palibe wina koma ine amene angapeze mawu oyenera otithandizira. Penapake muyenera kukweza mawu, kwinakwake kukanikiza ndi kukakamiza, kwinakwake kukumbatira ndikunena kuti "titha kuchita chilichonse! Pamodzi!” Ndipo ndi amayi okha omwe angamvetse nthawi komanso chida chogwiritsa ntchito.
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
Pazifukwa zina sindimakonda mawu awa - blogger, mwanjira ina alibe moyo. Panthawi ina, ndinkasunga zolemba zapaintaneti ndipo chifukwa cha izo ndinapeza anzanga enieni ambiri. Tonse tidadziwana, ndipo ana athu akhala mabwenzi kuyambira nthawi imeneyo ... Ndiye kunalibe Facebook ndi Instagram, ndipo nthawi zambiri sitinkadziwa kuti zonsezi zingabweretse chiyani. Ndinkangolemba maganizo anga ndi mmene ndikumvera tsiku lililonse. Sindinayambe ndachitirapo olembetsa ngati gulu, ndikudziwa pafupifupi aliyense amene amalemba, ndimayesetsa kuyankha. Moyo wa anthu kwa ine ndi ntchito ndekha. Zimakupangitsani kukhala "wofulumira, wapamwamba, wamphamvu." Sindingathe kulemba za kutopa kwanga, podziwa kuti ndili ndi amayi mazana ambiri mwa olembetsa anga omwe amapeza mphamvu ndi mphamvu kuchokera m'malemba anga, amafunikira kuwala kumapeto kwa msewu, ndipo nthawi zonse ndimakhala ndi tochi m'thumba mwanga, zomwe iwo amandikonda. kukhala mabatire ndemanga zawo ndi zikomo.
Yulia Bakhareva ndi mayi wa ana awiri, amasunga blog yokhudza umayi mu ".
1. Mwamuna, ana, ine ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
Inde, chitsanzo chabwino cha banja - ine ndi mwamuna wanga timabwera poyamba, ana amabwera kachiwiri. Banja loterolo lidzakhala logwirizana ndipo ana adzakhala osangalala. Pambuyo pake, adzadziwa kuti amayi ndi abambo amakhala pamodzi nthawi zonse ndipo amakondana. Ndimayesetsa kukhala ndi chitsanzo choterocho. Mwamuna wanga ndi mnzanga wapamtima, ndipo ndikuthokoza kwa iye ana odabwitsa chotere adabadwa. Timayesetsa kukhala limodzi. Ana akachoka, nthawi yathu yokha imabwera. N’zoona kuti nthawi zina amagona mochedwa kwambiri, ndipo nthawi imakhala yochepa.
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Ndikukhulupirira kuti ndikofunikira kuyang'ana othandizira ndikugawira ena mwa ntchito. N’zosatheka kukhala mkazi wabwino, mayi wachikondi, udakali mkazi wabwino wapakhomo ndi msungwana wokonzedwa bwino. Chinsinsi chonse ndikukopa othandizira ndikukonza tsiku lanu moyenera. Ndimakhala ndi au pair, kamodzi pa sabata wogwira ntchito m'nyumba amatsuka ndi kusita ndikuphika kamodzi. Mwamuna wanga anandimasula ku ntchito zambiri zapakhomo. Ndimadzisamalira ndekha, ana, ndikulemba zolemba ndikusunga blog. Zikuwoneka kwa ine kuti ngati pali mwayi, ndikofunikira kufunsa agogo kuti akuthandizeni, kubwereka nanny kwa maola angapo pa sabata kapena awiri. Ndiye amayi adzakhala ndi mwayi wodzisamalira yekha, mwamuna wake, kukhala wosangalala, wokondwa ndi wokhutira. Ndipo ngati mayi ali wokondwa, ndiye kuti anawo amasangalala.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Ndimawaphunzitsa kukonda, kudalira. Ndimaphunzitsa kuti banja ndi malo omwe anthu amayembekezeredwa nthawi zonse, kusamalidwa, kukonda ndi kupereka chithandizo nthawi zonse. Ndimaphunzitsanso ana kukhala oona mtima mwa iwo okha, kumvetsera maganizo awo, malingaliro awo ndi zokhumba zawo. Kuti muyankhe kwa anthu ena, choyamba muyenera kumvetsetsa nokha.
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Ana anga akadali aang'ono ndipo, mwamwayi, sadziwa kunama. Koma Max nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi zofuna. Ndikukhulupirira kuti iyi ndi gawo lachitukuko mwamtheradi. Amakula, ali ndi zofuna zake, zofunika. Ndipo izi ndi zabwino. Iye amalimbikira kwambiri, cholinga, amapeza njira yake. Makhalidwe amenewa m’moyo adzamuthandiza kwambili. N’zoona kuti nthawi zina amangondisonyeza kuleza mtima, ndipo zimandivuta. Ndimagwiritsa ntchito njira zosiyanasiyana malinga ndi momwe zinthu zilili - nthawi zina "kumvetsera mwachidwi" kumathandiza, nthawi zina mumafunika kukumbatirana ndikunong'oneza bondo, nthawi zina kunyalanyaza kapena kunena mosamalitsa.
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Nthawi zambiri ndimadandaula kwa mwamuna wanga, ndipo amandilola kuti ndilowe ndekha ndikusamba. Momwemo, ndimakonda nthawi zina kukhala opanda ana, kusintha ntchito, kusintha. Tsopano izi sizichitika kawirikawiri, popeza Zlata ndi wamng'ono. Koma tsiku lina mwamuna wanga anandilola kupita ku spa ndipo linali tchuthi langwiro kwa ine.
6. Kodi n'chiyani chikukulepheretsani kulera, ndipo mwambo wokakamizika ndi wotani?
Taboo ndi chilango chakuthupi ndi chipongwe chamtundu uliwonse. Ndikufuna kulera ana osangalala, odzidalira. Timakonda kupsompsona, kukumbatirana, kupusitsa ndi kuseka. Palibe tsiku lomwe limadutsa popanda izi. Ndipo nthawi zambiri timauzana kuti “Ndimakukondani” komanso kumvetsera zofuna za wina ndi mnzake. Ndipo tili ndi mwambo wovomerezeka tisanagone - kuwerenga buku, kupsompsona ndi kunena usiku wabwino.
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
Ndakhala ndi Instagram kwa zaka zingapo kale, koma inali ngati blog yomwe ndidayamba kuisunga pafupifupi chaka chapitacho. Tsopano ili ndi dziko langa laling'ono, gawo lofunika kwambiri komanso losangalatsa la moyo wanga. Ndimakonda blog yanga ndi olembetsa anga! Ichi ndi gwero la kudzoza, mphamvu ndi chilimbikitso kwa ine. Ndinapeza mabwenzi ambiri atsopano ndi anthu amalingaliro ofanana. Kulemba mabulogu monga chonchi ndi ntchito yambiri, koma kubwereranso kwamalingaliro ndikwambiri. Ndipo ndimakonda kwambiri!
Ekaterina Zueva, amasunga blog yake pa Instagram
1. Mwamuna, ana, ine ndekha. Kodi mumatha bwanji kupeza nthawi yochitira aliyense ndikudzisungira nokha? Ndipo ndani amabwera poyamba kwa inu?
Sipangakhale malo oyamba ndi achiwiri m'banja, ndimakonda mwamuna wanga ndi mwana wamkazi mofanana mwamphamvu, koma izi ndi "chikondi" chosiyana. Kodi tingayerekeze chikondi cha mwamuna ndi cha amayi? Ndife atatu pafupifupi nthawi zonse, kotero sitiyenera kugawa nthawi pakati pawo: timaphika pamodzi, ndikuyenda, ndipo timakwera pa slide. Koma kamodzi pa mlungu timayesetsa kutuluka pamodzi ndi mwamuna wanga, ndikuwoneka kuti iyi ndi imodzi mwa mfundo zazikulu za ubale wabwino.
2. Ngati mulibe nthawi ndi mphamvu zokwanira, mumapita kwa ndani kuti akuthandizeni?
Kunena zoona, nditangobereka mwana wanga wamkazi, zinali zovuta kupereka mwana kwa agogo anga, mwanayo ndi wanga, kutanthauza kuti ayenera kupirira yekha. Tsopano ndizosiyana kwambiri, mwana wamng'onoyo amasangalala kupita kwa agogo ake kwa maola angapo, ndipo modekha ndimatha kutuluka ndikupatula nthawi ndekha. Monga amayi anga amanenera: "Ndani amafunikira kulimba mtima kwako?" Ndi bwino kuti mupumule kwenikweni kwa maola angapo, ndiyeno mukhale ndi mphamvu zambiri posewera ndi kuwerenga "Kolobok" kwa khumi motsatizana.
3. Lamulo pamaphunziro # 1 - mumamuphunzitsa chiyani mwana wanu poyamba?
Chikondi chopanda malire! Chinthu choyamba chimene mwana ayenera kudziwa n’chakuti amakondedwa. Amakonda kwambiri akakhala ndi khalidwe labwino, ndipo amamukonda kwambiri akakhala ndi khalidwe loipa. Mwana amene amaona zimenezi amamuthandiza kukhala bwino kwambiri, ndipo n’zosavuta kukulitsa makhalidwe abwino mwa iye.
4. Mwanayo ndi capricious, samvera, amanyenga - mumatani ndi izi?
Mwana wathu wamkazi amakonda kwambiri zachipongwe, motero, dongosolo la zololedwa limakhazikitsidwa momveka bwino m'banja mwathu. Palibe chinthu choterocho kuti abambo, mwachitsanzo, sanalole kufalitsa phala patebulo, ndipo amayi alibe nazo ntchito. Inde, zimachitikanso kuti Nika akuyesera kukwaniritsa cholinga chake ndi misozi ndipo samandimva. Kenako ndinamuuza kuti: “Mwanawe, ukakhala pansi n’kukonzeka kulankhula, ubwere kwa ine, ndimakukonda kwambiri ndipo ndikukudikira.” Patadutsa mphindi zisanu akubwera akuthamanga ngati palibe chomwe chachitika. Sititsatira njira zapadera zolerera, pambuyo pake, ana, choyamba, amasonyeza makolo awo, kotero kuti tsopano tikuyesera kudziphunzitsa tokha.
5. Kodi ndi ganizo lotani limene limakupatsani mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima nthaŵi zonse?
Ndine kutali ndi kukhala mayi wangwiro. Ndipo kutopa kumapitilira, ndipo kuleza mtima sikokwanira pachilichonse, pali masiku omwe simungathe kuchita modekha ndi khalidwe loipa la mwanayo, mumamva kuti mwatsala pang'ono kumasuka ndikufuula chifukwa cha cholakwika china ... nkhani yomwe ndinawerenga chaka chapitacho pa intaneti, ndipo m'malo mokuwa, mukufuna kukhala pansi ndikukumbatira mwana wanu mwamsanga. Ndi chilolezo chanu, ndiyikamo kachigawo kakang'ono:
“Kodi mukudziwa zimene zimachitikira mwana mukamakuwa kapena kumulanga? Tayerekezani kuti mwamuna kapena mkazi wanu wayamba kukulalatirani. Tsopano yerekezerani kuti akuchulukitsa katatu kukula kwanu. Tiyerekeze kuti mumadalira munthu ameneyu kuti akupatseni chakudya, pogona, chitetezo komanso chitetezo. Tangoganizani kuti ndiwo magwero anu okha a chikondi, kudzidalira ndi chidziwitso cha dziko lapansi, kuti mulibe kwina kulikonse. Tsopano onjezani malingaliro awa nthawi 1000. Umu ndi momwe mwana wanu amamvera mukakwiyira ”(tsamba la Confidence).
6. Kodi n'chiyani chikukulepheretsani kulera, ndipo mwambo wokakamizika ndi wotani?
Taboo? Kuwukira komanso ngakhale kuganiza kwake. Chinthu chokha chimene munthu amene angamenye mwana amatsimikizira kuti ndi wofooka! Sindimamuuza mwana wanga wamkazi kuti sindimakonda kapena kusiya kumukonda, mwanayo ayenera kudziwa kuti amakondedwa nthawi zonse komanso muzochitika zilizonse. Kodi si tsiku lopanda chiyani? Palibe ulesi. Uku ndi kuthyolako kwa moyo wa makolo. Nthawi zina muyenera kukhala aulesi! Kukhala waulesi kudya supuni, ikani zoseweretsa za mwana, kapena kuvala zovala zogona. Ndipo tsopano mutha kumwa kapu ya khofi mosatekeseka pamene mwana wanu akupukuta mosamala tebulo kumbuyo kwake.
7. Mumadziwika kuti ndinu mayi wamabulogu. Mwafika bwanji pamenepa? Kodi malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndi ntchito kapena malo ochezera basi?
Malo ogulitsira, malo omwe ndingathe kugawana nawo bwino komanso zokhumudwitsa, kapena kungolankhula za momwe tsiku langa linayendera. Sindikudziwa za enawo, koma ndinali ndi mwayi wochita misala ndi olembetsa, ngakhale sindingathe kutchula atsikana anga kuti, kwa ine ndi chinthu choposa mawu owuma "olembetsa". Takhala paubwenzi ndi ena mwa atsikanawa kwa zaka zingapo tsopano, ndipo ndikuthokoza Instagram chifukwa chondibweretsa pamodzi ndi anthu odabwitsa chonchi.