Psychology

Nthawi zina zimaoneka ngati palibe aliyense pafupi. N’kutheka kuti aliyense wa ife anakumanapo ndi zimenezi kamodzi pa moyo wathu. Koma mphunzitsi wabanja Lisa Copeland akuti mitundu 11 ya amuna osakwatiwa mudzakumana nayo pa intaneti motsimikiza. Ndipo muzochitika zina, kulankhulana ndi aliyense kudzakhala kothandiza. Koma ndi iti mwa izo zomwe zikuyenera inu, ziri ndi inu.

1. Mnyamata wabwino

Iye ndi wokondedwa, nthawi yomweyo amawonekera kuchokera kwa ena onse, ndipo, ndithudi, mudzamusankha iye poyamba. Iye ndi wokongola ndipo amadziwa momwe angakupangitseni kumva ngati muli kumwamba kwachisanu ndi chiwiri. Koma iyenso ndi wofunika kwambiri kuti akuswe mtima ...

Ndizosangalatsa kukhala ndi nthawi yocheza naye - malinga ngati simudalira ubale wautali.

2. Wokonda

Mukungotumizirana mameseji, ndipo amakutchani kuti bwenzi lake. Nthawi zonse amafuna kulandira mauthenga kuchokera kwa inu ndipo amakuyimbirani kangapo patsiku.

Onetsetsani kuti sakutenga nthawi yanu yonse motere: mwanjira iyi simungathe kuyankhulana ndi amuna ena, mwina osangalatsa.

3. Mnyamata pa njinga yamoto

Musaphonye mbiri yake chifukwa cha chithunzi chake atavala magalasi ndi chisoti: ndioyenera kuyang'ana. Amuna ambiri apakati pa moyo amakhala ndi chizolowezi chotere. Ena mwa iwo angakhale madokotala, maloya, ndi amalonda.

Ngati simuopa kukhala pampando wakumbuyo kwa iye, wosankhidwayo ali ndi kuthekera.

4. Mnyamata wopanda chithunzi

Mutha kulankhulana naye, komanso mukamalankhulana, ndipo pambuyo pake, adzakhalabe chimodzimodzi monga analili: mwamuna wokwatira atakhala pachibwenzi kapena pa Tinder.

5. Wachikondi patali

Ngati mumakonda kulakalaka kuyambira ali mwana, iyi ikhoza kukhala chisankho chabwino kwa inu. Mumathera maola ambiri pafoni yanu ndikuwulula zinsinsi zanu zakuya kwa wina ndi mnzake. Zoona, pambuyo pa msonkhano waumwini, "chemistry ya telefoni" imakhalabe nthawi zonse.

Ngakhale zoseketsa, mutawerenga mndandanda waukulu wa zofunikira, sangalalani kuti mwakwaniritsa.

Monga mlangizi, ndakumanapo ndi maanja omwe amakhala moyandikana wina ndi mnzake, maola angapo kuchokera pamenepo. Ameneyu ndi bwenzi lanu ngati simukonda chizolowezi mu ubwenzi ndi kungovomera kukhala limodzi Loweruka ndi Lamlungu.

6. Mnyamata pofunafuna psychotherapist

Iye akuyang'ana katswiri wa zamaganizo, ndipo katswiri wa zamaganizo ameneyo ndi inu. Kwa maola ambiri komanso popanda malipiro aliwonse, adzakuuzani za mavuto ake ndi kukayikira kwake.

Koma musatengeke ndi izi, yang'anani bwenzi labwino kwambiri.

7. "Ogula pa intaneti"

Zina mwazinthu zoseketsa kwambiri zimalembedwa ndi omwe amalemba zomwe wosankhidwa wake ayenera kukhala nazo. "Ndiwe wamtali, wochepa thupi, ndiwe dokotala kapena namwino, palibe ana, osasuta ..."

Koma ngakhale zoseketsa, mutawerenga mndandanda waukulu, sangalalani kuti mumagwirizana nawo.

8. Wonyenga

Zachidziwikire, uyu si wachinyengo yemwe angakufunseni ndalama kuti mupititse patsogolo bizinesi yanu yopindulitsa kwambiri. Sadzakutengerani ndalama, koma akudziwa momwe angapindulire mtima wanu mwachangu.

Amuna otere nthawi zonse amakhala ndi zithunzi zokongola kwambiri komanso deta yowala. Mudzakondwera kuti mnyamata woteroyo anakumvetserani. Ndipo iye akudziwanso izo.

9. Achinyamata. wamng'ono kwambiri

Kwa dona yemwe ali muubwana wake: pali gulu la anyamata pa intaneti omwe ali ndi chidwi ndi azimayi achikulire.

Ngati izo zikugwirizana ndi ego wanu, bwanji? Chinthu chachikulu ndikusamala kuti musatembenuke, monga aku Britain amanenera, kukhala Sugar Mama - "shuga mommy" - osayamba kumusamalira.

10. Munthu wamkulu

Pakati pawo, anthu a sukulu yakale, oona mtima ndi olunjika, akhoza kugwidwa. Pakhoza kukhala amene angakuchitireni ngati dona. Mulimonse mmene zingakhalire, ambiri a iwo ndi okondweretsa kulankhula nawo. Ndikoyenera kupereka mwayi kwa amuna osakwatiwa amtunduwu kamodzi kokha.

11. Mwamuna wanu

Iye sadzakhala wokongola kwambiri.

Koma iye adzasangalala ndi zimene mukuchita, mmene mumakhalira, ndipo adzafunitsitsa kukuchitirani chilichonse kuti mukhale osangalala.

Onse ali pa intaneti ndipo akuyembekezera kuti muwonekere pamenepo. Ingokhulupirirani.

Siyani Mumakonda