Woponya nkhonya yemwe samamenya nkhonya? Wokonda wopanda kuthekera kophatikizana mu chisangalalo ndi wokondedwa wake? Wantchito amene savomereza malamulo a kampani yake? Zitsanzo zopanda pake zikuwonetsa lingaliro loti mitundu yosiyanasiyana ya kukana kukhudzana (kupewa, kuphatikizika, kulowetsa muzochitika pamwambapa) sizowopsa nthawi zonse.
Lingaliro lofunikira la Gestalt psychology - «kulumikizana» limafotokoza kuyanjana kwa chamoyo ndi chilengedwe. Popanda kukhudzana, katswiri wa Gestalt Gordon Wheeler akugogomezera, zamoyo sizingakhalepo. Koma palibe kukhudzana "koyenera": "Chotsani zotsutsa zonse, ndiyeno zomwe zatsalira sizidzakhala kukhudzana koyera, koma kugwirizanitsa kwathunthu kapena thupi lakufa, lomwe liri "lopanda kukhudzana". Wolembayo akuganiza kuti zotsutsa ndizo "ntchito" zolumikizana (ndi kuphatikiza kwawo ngati "njira yolumikizirana" ya munthu, zomwe zimakhala zothandiza ngati zikugwirizana ndi zolinga zake, komanso zovulaza ngati zikutsutsana nazo).
Kutanthauza, 352 p.