Zakale, kubadwa kwa mtsikana ku India, makamaka m'banja losauka, ndipo ndithudi m'mudzi, sikungakhale kosangalatsa kwambiri. M’madera akumidzi (ndi m’madera ena m’mizinda) mwambo wopereka chiwongo kwa mwana wamkazi ukadali wosungidwa, choncho kukwatira mwana wamkazi ndi chinthu chosangalatsa chodula. Chotsatira chake ndi tsankho, ndipo ana aakazi kaŵirikaŵiri amawonedwa ngati mtolo wosafunidwa. Ngakhale sitingaganizire milandu yakupha kwa ana aakazi, ndi bwino kunena kuti palibe chilimbikitso chothandizira chitukuko cha ana aakazi, makamaka pakati pa anthu osauka, ndipo chifukwa chake, ndi gawo laling'ono chabe. atsikana akumidzi aku India amaphunzira pang'ono. Nthawi zambiri, mwana amapatsidwa ntchito, ndiyeno, kale kwambiri kuposa zaka zambiri, makolo, ndi mbedza kapena mwachinyengo, amafuna kukwatira mtsikanayo, osasamala kwambiri za kukhulupirika kwa bwenzi lake.
Nkhanza kwa amayi zomwe zimayambitsidwa ndi "miyambo" yotere, kuphatikizapo nkhanza m'banja la mwamuna, ndi nkhani yowawa komanso yosaoneka bwino m'dziko lino, ndipo sichikambidwa momasuka ku India. Kotero, mwachitsanzo, zolemba za BBC "", zinaletsedwa ndi kufufuza, chifukwa. imadzutsa mutu wa nkhanza kwa amayi aku India m'dziko momwemo.
Koma anthu okhala m’mudzi waung’ono wa Amwenye wa Piplanti akuoneka kuti apeza njira yothetsera nkhani yoyaka moto imeneyi! Zomwe akumana nazo zimadzetsa chiyembekezo, ngakhale kuti panali “miyambo” yoyipa yazaka zapakati. Anthu okhala m'mudzi uno adadza, adalenga ndi kugwirizanitsa miyambo yawo, yatsopano, yaumunthu pokhudzana ndi akazi.
Zinayamba zaka zisanu ndi chimodzi zapitazo ndi mtsogoleri wakale wa mudziwo, Shyam Sundar Paliwal () - polemekeza mwana wake wamkazi, yemwe anamwalira, ndidzakhalabe wamng'ono. Bambo Paliwal salinso mu utsogoleri, koma mwambo umene adakhazikitsa wasungidwa ndi kuchitidwa ndi anthu okhalamo.
Chofunikira pamwambowu ndikuti mtsikana akabadwa kumudzi, anthu okhalamo amapanga thumba la ndalama zothandizira mwana wakhanda. Onse pamodzi amasonkhanitsa ndalama zokwana 31.000 rupees (pafupifupi $ 500), pomwe makolo ayenera kuyikapo ndalama 13. Ndalamayi imayikidwa pa deposit, yomwe mtsikanayo akhoza kuichotsa (ndi chiwongoladzanja) pokhapokha akafika zaka 20. Chonchozasankhidwafunsomalowolo.
Pofuna thandizo la ndalama, makolo a mwanayo ayenera kusaina pangano lodzifunira loti asakwatire mwana wawo wamkazi kwa mwamuna asanakwanitse zaka 18, ndi pangano lomupatsa maphunziro a pulaimale. Makolowo amasainanso kuti abzale mitengo 111 pafupi ndi mudziwo ndikuisamalira.
Mfundo yomaliza ndi njira yaying'ono yachilengedwe yomwe imakulolani kuti mugwirizane ndi kukula kwa chiwerengero cha anthu ndi momwe chilengedwe chilili m'mudzi komanso kupezeka kwa zachilengedwe. Choncho, mwambo watsopano sumangoteteza moyo ndi ufulu wa amayi, komanso umakulolani kupulumutsa chilengedwe!
Bambo Gehrilal Balai, bambo amene anabzala mbande 111 chaka chatha, anauza nyuzipepalayi kuti amasamalira mitengoyo mosangalala ngati akunyamula mwana wawo wamkazi.
Pazaka 6 zapitazi, anthu a m’mudzi wa Piplantry abzala mitengo masauzande ambiri! Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, adawona momwe malingaliro kwa atsikana ndi amayi asinthira.
Mosakayikira, ngati muwona kugwirizana pakati pa zochitika zamagulu ndi mavuto a chilengedwe, mungapeze njira yothetsera mavuto ambiri omwe alipo masiku ano. Ndipo pang'onopang'ono, miyambo yatsopano, yomveka komanso yodziwika bwino imatha kumera mizu - ngati katsamba kakang'ono kamene kamamera kukhala mtengo wamphamvu.
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