Zizindikiro za 15 zaubwenzi wamoyo wonse (osati muphonye)

Zizindikiro 15 zosonyeza kuti mwapeza bwenzi lenileni

Kodi mumadziwa kuti timatha kuona kuti ubwenzi ndi weniweni wozikidwa pa zizindikiro?

M'moyo, mabwenzi enieni nthawi zambiri amakhala omwe simumawayembekezera.

Mwina munauzidwapo kale kuti mabwenzi enieni amafanana kwambiri, ndipo zimenezo si zolakwika. Koma pali zambiri zokhudza kudziŵa “mabwenzi apamtima a moyo wonse” kuposa zimenezo. Iwo ndi ndani?

Mizere ingapo yotsatira idzakuuzani zambiri za nkhaniyi, koma ndithudi, sitingathe kulowa mu izi popanda kufotokozera pang'ono mawu oti "ubwenzi".

Kodi ubwenzi ndi chiyani?

Kulankhula momveka bwino, mawu akuti ubwenzi amachokera ku zomwe zimatchedwa vulgar Latin "amicitatem" ndi classical Latin "amicitia".

Mwa tanthawuzo, ubwenzi ndi chikondi chapadera komanso chofanana pakati pa anthu awiri kapena kuposerapo omwe sali m'banja lomwelo.

Titero kunena kwake, chikondi ndi mgwirizano wachifundo umene sunakhazikike osati pa ubale wabanja kapena pa kukopeka ndi kugonana, koma chifukwa cha kubadwa kwa maubwenzi osadziwika bwino pakati pa anthu awiri kapena kuposerapo.

Ignace Lepp, komabe, akutsimikizira kuti ndizotheka kuti ubale weniweni udzabadwa pakati pa abale ndi alongo, komabe zikuwoneka ngati zachilendo kunena kuti izi sizimachokera ku magazi omwe ali nawo, koma m'malo mwake. alipo ngakhale magazi awa.

Zizindikiro 15 zosonyeza kuti ubwenzi wanu ndi wopanda cholakwika

Mukakumana ndi munthu, sizingachitike kwa inu kuti mukufuna kukhala bwenzi lake lapamtima nthawi yomweyo.

Ayi, zimangobwera mwachibadwa. M’malo mwake, mumayang’ana mikhalidwe mwa iye, ya kufanana pakati pa inu ndi iye.

Osaumiriza ubwenzi, pali zizindikiro zomveka ngati muli omangika mwamphamvu ngati magazi.

1- ndi munthu woyamba kuganizira zinthu zikavuta

Tonse tadutsa nthawi m'moyo wathu momwe timafuna kudandaula za chilichonse komanso aliyense. Kapena pamapeto pake mumakhumudwa kwambiri pazifukwa zina osadziwa zoyenera kuchita.

Ndipo kumeneko, mwachibadwa, ndi iyeyo, bwenzi lapamtima limene timakumana naye chifukwa tikudziwa kuti angakhale wokonzeka kusiya ntchitoyo kuti atimvetsere pamene tikuvutika maganizo, kapenanso bwino kwambiri, kupsinjika nafe. (1)

2- Amakupangitsani kuseka nthawi zonse ngakhale mutakhala wachisoni kwambiri

Ineyo pandekha, ndadziwa masiku omwe sindingathe kupirira ndipo kulira kunali chifukwa changa chokha chokhalira. Inde ndi misala, koma inunso munazidziwa kale izi.

Koma mwamwayi muli ndi bwenzi lanu lapamtima. Kungomuona patali kumakusekani. Zimakulimbikitsani ndikumwetuliranso.

3- Kukwaniritsa chilichonse ndi chilichonse

Mudzadziwa kuti ndi wolondola mutakambirana naye musanapange chisankho chofunika kwambiri. (1)

4- Ngakhale mutakhala masiku osalankhulana, mulibe choopa pa ubwenzi wanu

Monga wina aliyense, inunso muli ndi moyo wanu woti mukhale nawo, ngakhale ndi mnzanu. Ndipo mukudziwa bwino kuti kukhala osalumikizana kwa masiku angapo sikungathandizire ubwenzi wanu.

Amamvetsetsanso ngati inuyo kuti ngakhale mutakhala masiku ambiri osamva za wina ndi mnzake, mukawonana, kapena mudzalankhulananso, ubale pakati panu sudzasintha.

5- Amakhala kumbali yako ndipo amakuyimira nthawi zonse

Pali ABWENZI kunja uko amene samasamala kwenikweni za mmene anthu amakuchitirani kapena kunena za inu. N’chifukwa chake amangokhala ABWENZI, osati abwino kwambiri.

Iye, dziko lonse likhoza kukutsutsana nanu, iye nthawizonse adzakhala kumbali yanu. Mutha kukhala olakwa, adzakuyimirani pazonse. (1)

6- mumadana ndi anthu omwewo

“Ndimadana…” Mawuwa mosakayikira ndi amodzi mwamawu obwerezabwereza pamacheza abwenzi apamtima.

Ndipo nthawi zambiri ngakhale munthuyo wakulakwirani mmodzi yekha wa inu, winayo amadana naye chifukwa cha chizolowezi komanso ngati chizindikiro cha mgwirizano. Ndipo kawirikawiri zokambiranazi zimatha ndi kuseka kwakukulu. (1)

7- Amakhalabe chithandizo chanu chachikulu

Nthawi zonse amakhala ndi inu ndipo amakhalapo mukamufuna. Iye samasamala chimene inu mukumuyitanira iye.

Itha kukhala chochitika chofunikira m'moyo wanu kapena upangiri chabe, bwenzi lanu lapamtima lili pano.

Kodi sizosangalatsa kudziwa kuti pali wina yemwe mungatembenukireko nthawi iliyonse podziwa kuti sadzakusiyani? (1)

8- "Ndimakukondani" anu ndi oona

Atsikana onse amaika mafoni awo kuti "I love you" kwa wina ndi mzake. Mawu amenewa si mawu ongofunika kunenedwa kapena otuluka m’kamwa mwachizoloŵezi, ayi, nonse mumadziwa bwino lomwe tanthauzo lake, kuti akuchokera m’mitima yanu. (1)

9- Iye yekha akhoza kukuseketsani kwambiri komanso motalika momwe mungathere

Ndi zoona kuti aliyense akhoza kunena nthabwala zomwe zingakusekeni, koma palibe amene angafanane ndi wokondedwa wanu. Ndi iye yekha amene angakusekeni kwambiri mpaka misozi imabwera kwa inu, ndipo kwa nthawi yayitali. (1)

10- zithunzi zodabwitsa, ngakhale zonyansa

Simuli mabwenzi apamtima ngati simunatumizirenapo zithunzi zoopsa zomwe zingagwiritsidwe ntchito mwachinyengo mnzako.

11- Umakhala womasuka pamaso pake

Nthawi zambiri, mukakhala ndi munthu, ngakhale mutamudziwa, pamakhala kusakhazikika komwe kumapitilirabe. Ndi "zabwino" zanu, manyazi awa amatha. Mutha kukhala wamisala, palibe chomwe chingakusokonezeni iye ali pamenepo. (1)

12- Mumachita zonse pamodzi

Nthawi zina mumamuzolowera kwambiri moti ngati palibe, mumangoona kuti palibe. Mumadyera limodzi nthawi yopuma, mumapita kukagula zinthu limodzi… mumapita ku bafa limodzi. (1)

13- Amamvetsetsa kusinthasintha kwanu

Pali masiku omwe palibe chomwe chimayenda momwe mukufunira m'moyo wanu. Ndipo izi zimabweretsa kuphulika m'moyo wanu, kusintha kwadzidzidzi m'malingaliro anu. Ndipo panthawi imeneyi, amakumvetsetsani ndipo amakuthandizani kupirira.

14- Amakukondani monga momwe mulili

Kodi simukumva kukhala wapadera podziŵa kuti winawake, kupatulapo makolo anu, amakukondani ndi mtima wonse? Umu ndi momwe zilili ndi bwenzi lapamtima. (1)

15- Ndi membala wathunthu wabanja lanu

N’zoona kuti sitisankha abale ndi alongo athu, koma tingathe kusankha anzathu amene angakhale nawo.

Ndinu okondana kwambiri moti makolo anu ngati ake amakuonani ngati mmodzi wa ana awo chifukwa mumathera pafupifupi nthawi yanu yonse kunyumba kapena kunyumba kwake. (1)

Simuli nokha, pali bwenzi nthawi zonse kwinakwake, ngakhale atakhala kuti sakhala ndi inu pafupipafupi. Pali munthu amene angakuchitireni chilichonse ndikuyika moyo wake pachiswe ngati zili za inu. Munthu ameneyu amatchedwa bwenzi lapamtima.