Azimayi ambiri, atachitiridwa nkhanza ndi mnzawo, amalumbira kuti sadzakumananso ndi munthu wotere pa chilichonse padziko lapansi ... ndipo patapita nthawi amazindikira kuti adagweranso mumsampha womwewo. Kodi mungamvetse bwanji pasadakhale kuti muli ndi wankhanza pamaso panu?
Ndithudi, palibe mkazi amene angafune kuchitiridwa nkhanza. Ndipo mukakhala muubwenzi wowopsa wotere, sikuli koyenera kuti adzivomereze yekha. Malinga ndi ziwerengero za ku America, mwachitsanzo, akazi pambuyo pa milandu 5-7 ya nkhanza amasankha kusiya okondedwa awo, ndipo wina sangayerekeze nkomwe. Ndipo ambiri, patapita kanthawi, amagweranso mumsampha womwewo. Koma zikanapeŵeka.
Nazi zizindikiro zowopsa zomwe ziyenera kutichenjeza nthawi yomweyo, malinga ndi memo ya American Women Center.
1. Kumayambiriro kwa ubale, amakakamiza zinthu. Simunakhale ndi nthawi yoyang'ana m'mbuyo, ndipo akutsimikizira kale kuti: "Palibe amene wandikondapo ngati iwe!" ndipo amakukakamizani kuti mukhale pamodzi.
2. Nthawi zonse amakhala wansanje. Iye ndi mwini woopsa, amakuyitanani kosatha kapena mosayembekezereka amabwera kwa inu popanda chenjezo.
3. Amafuna kulamulira chilichonse. Mnzanuyo amakufunsani mosalekeza zomwe munakambirana ndi anzanu, komwe munali, amayang'ana mtunda wa galimoto yanu, amayendetsa ndalama zonse, amafuna macheke kuti agule, akufuna kupemphedwa kuti apite kwinakwake kapena kuchita zinazake.
4. Amayembekezera zinthu zosatheka kwa inu. Amayembekezera kuti muzichita zinthu mwangwiro komanso kuti mukwaniritse zofuna zake zonse.
5. Ife tiri patokha. Amafuna kukupatulani kwa anzanu ndi achibale, samakulolani kugwiritsa ntchito foni kapena galimoto yanu, samakulolani kuti mufufuze ntchito.
6. Amaimba mlandu ena chifukwa cha zolakwa zake. Abwana ake, banja, mnzake - aliyense koma iye ali ndi mlandu ngati china chake chalakwika.
7. Anthu ena ali ndi udindo pa maganizo ake. Amati "Mwandikwiyitsa" m'malo monena kuti "Ndakwiya". "Sindingakwiye kwambiri ngati simunatero ..."
8. Ndi wovuta kwambiri. Amakhumudwa pazifukwa zilizonse ndipo amakonza zochitika chifukwa cha kupanda chilungamo pang'ono komwe moyo umakhala wodzaza.
9. Iye ndi wankhanza kwa nyama ndi ana. Mopanda chifundo amalanga kapena kupha nyama. Kuchokera kwa ana, iye angafune kuti azichita zinthu zowaposa mphamvu zawo, kapena kuwaseka, kuti agwetse misozi.
10. Amakonda kusewera chiwawa pakama. Mwachitsanzo, ponyani mnzanu kumbuyo kapena mugwireni momukakamiza kuti asafune. Amadzutsidwa ndi malingaliro ogwiriridwa. Amakukakamizani - mwa kukakamiza kapena mokunyengerera - kuti muchite chinthu chomwe simunakonzekere.
11. Amagwiritsa ntchito chiwawa chamawu. Amakudzudzulani nthawi zonse kapena kunena zinthu zosasangalatsa: amakunyozani, amakudzudzulani, amakutchani mayina, amakumbukira nthawi zowawa zakale kapena zamakono, ndikutsimikizirani kuti ndinu wolakwa pa chilichonse.
12. Iye ndi wochirikiza maudindo okhwima a jenda mu maubwenzi. Muzimtumikira, kumumvera ndi kukhala m’nyumba mwake.
13. Maganizo ake amasintha kwambiri. Tsopano iye anali wachikondi ndi wachikondi - ndipo mwadzidzidzi iye amagwa mu mkwiyo.
14. Ankachita chiwawa. Amavomereza kuti m'mbuyomu adakweza dzanja lake kwa mkazi, koma amafotokoza izi mwazochitika kapena kutsimikizira kuti wozunzidwayo adamubweretsa.
15. Amawopseza ndi chiwawa. Mwachitsanzo, anganene kuti: “Ndikuthyola khosi!” Koma kenako adzatsimikizira kuti sananene mozama.
Pang'ono ndi pang'ono, zizindikiro izi zikusonyeza kuti mnzanuyo sachedwa kuzunzidwa maganizo. Koma ndi kuthekera kwakukulu, posachedwa kapena pambuyo pake chidzakula kukhala chakuthupi.