Zamkatimu
Gwirizanani; ndizofanana: mkwati ndi mkwatibwi wochepa thupi, patatha chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri atakwatirana, mwadzidzidzi amakhala ngati anthu ena. Amakhala ndi mimba ndipo amakula panja m'chiuno, ndipo amakhala atavala madiresi oyenera, chifukwa mwina akuwonetsa zolakwika kuposa kutsindika mphamvu.
Kodi nchifukwa ninji anthu amathamangira kunenepa muukwati? Akatswiri a zamaganizo apeza zifukwa zinayi zazikulu.
1. Mkazi amatanthauza chakudya
Kwa amayi ambiri, chisamaliro chimatanthauza chakudya chokoma ndi chosangalatsa. Koma nthawi zambiri, izi zimachuluka kwambiri. Mkazi akayamba kupondereza mwamuna wake, kupereka magawo akulu kapena kuphika kwambiri kumatha kutsindika gawo lawo lofunikira m'banja (makamaka ngati ayenera kusiya ntchito yake kapena kusamukira kudziko lina).
Kapenanso amatha kuwonetsa mopanda tanthauzo kuti alibe chisamaliro, nati, Ndimakusamalirani, inunso?
2. Othandizana nawo apezana; palibe chifukwa chodya pang'ono
Anthu adakumana wina ndi mnzake, wina ndi mnzake adaphunzira. Ndidaphunzira kuti onse amakonda kudya komanso kudya zambiri ndipo adangoganiza zopumula ndikukhala ndi chilakolako chawo. Pali ena omwe amakhala moyo wamtendere komanso wabanja, monga akunenera, akukwera ma clover.
Koma nthawi zambiri, m'modzi mwa omwe akuyanjanawo amafunika kusinthanso chibwenzicho, ndikuchita mantha ndi thupi lake lodzikulupiralo, aganiza zosiya. Kwa mnzanu wina, ndi funso lalikulu. Pachifukwa ichi, pali mipata yambiri. Chifukwa chake ndibwino kuti onse azichita zomwe onse akufuna, osati "mwakachetechete komanso mokhutira," kukhala pakama ndi pizza.
3. Mkazi amatulutsa "dala" zochita za mwamuna wake mwadala.
Amayi ambiri, owopsedwa ndi nkhani zokhudzana ndi mitala yamwamuna, amapititsa amuna awo mwadala. Chifukwa pamene mukuwonjezera kulemera, kudzidalira kwa amuna kumachepa. Sakuyang'ananso: komabe, palibe chomwe chingatheke kwa iye. Mkazi ndi wokondwa: mwamuna wake ndi wake yekha komanso zakudya zake zokoma.
Kenako amatha kuyamba kunyoza mwamuna wake, nati, masewera amatha. Mwinanso mungamupulumutse, ngati zingayambitse mavuto azaumoyo chifukwa cha kunenepa kwambiri. Ndipo komabe, mkazi - wopambana, ndi mwamuna wake - kapolo.
4. Madyerero olandira ndiolandilidwa kwambiri
Pamene okondanawo amakondanadi, koma ntchito siziwalola kuti azikhala limodzi kwa nthawi yayitali, chakudya chamadzulo cha sabata ndi nthawi yokhayo yomwe mumatha kuyankhulana. Ndipo, zachidziwikire, akufuna kuzikulitsa.
Kapenanso mkazi amakhala otanganidwa tsiku lonse ndi mwana wamng'ono komanso monga mayi ndi agogo kamodzi, kudikirira moona mtima mwamuna wake kuchokera kuntchito, osadya popanda iye. Ndipo tonse tikudziwa momwe maphwando akuchedwa mochedwa!
Kodi nditani?
- Idyani! Koma chitani ndi kulawa, kusisita kuluma kulikonse, mulimonse momwemo osati pamakina.
- Sintha! Kukumananso ndi theka lina, sitisiya kukhalapo monga aliyense payekha. Choncho musaiwale za inu nokha.
- Lankhulani! Kudziwitsa ndiye gawo loyamba la yankho lake. Chonde lankhulani ndi mnzanu ndikutiuza zomwe simumakonda mwa inu kapena paubwenzi wanu; kuganiza zopanga moyo uja limodzi kunali kosangalatsa.