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Amakangana, amakangana, amachita nsanje ... Palibe nkhawa, mikangano yawo yosapeŵeka komanso kupikisana kwawo kwabwino kumapangitsa kutengera ndipo ndi labotale yeniyeni yomangira ndi kuphunzira kukhala pakati pa anthu ...
Osakana nsanje yawo
Kukangana pakati pa abale ndi alongo, kuchitira nsanje n'kwachibadwa, choncho musayese kukakamiza mgwirizano wopeka ! M'malingaliro a ana aang'ono, chikondi cha makolo ndi keke yaikulu yogawidwa mu zidutswa. Magawowa amachepa ndi kuchuluka kwa ana ndipo amamva chisoni… Tiyenera kuwapangitsa kumvetsetsa kuti chikondi ndi mitima ya makolo zimakula ndikuchulukana ndi kuchuluka kwa ana komanso kuti kholo litha kukonda ana awiri, atatu kapena anayi nthawi imodzi. nthawi ndi mphamvu mofanana.
Asiyanitseni momwe mungathere
Osafanizirana wina ndi mzake, m'malo mwake, tsindikani mphamvu, zokonda, kalembedwe kake. Makamaka ngati pali atsikana kapena anyamata okha. Nenani kwa wamkulu: “Mumajambula bwino… Cholakwika china, "gulu lamoto". Kunena kuti “Bwerani ana, akulu, ana aang’ono, atsikana, anyamata” kumaika aliyense mudengu limodzi! Lekani kuwalera mwachinyengo mofanana. Kupereka zokazinga zofananira, kugula T-shirts zomwezo… ndi malingaliro oyipa omwe amayatsa nsanje. Osapatsa mwana wamkulu kamphatso kakang'ono ngati ndi tsiku lobadwa la wamng'ono. Timakondwerera kubadwa kwa mwana osati kwa abale! Komabe, mungamulimbikitse kuti apatsenso mbale wakeyo mphatso, zomwe n’zosangalatsa. Ndipo buku limodzi-m'modzi kwa aliyense. Nthawi izi zaubwenzi wogawana zidzatsimikizira kuti aliyense ndi wapadera, monganso chikondi chanu.
Osasiya kukangana
Mikangano pakati pa mbale ndi mlongo ili ndi ntchito: kutenga malo awo, kuzindikiritsa gawo lawo ndi kulemekezana. Ngati pali kusinthana pakati pa ndewu ndi mphindi zokangana ndi masewera, zonse zili bwino, ubale waubale uli panjira yodzilamulira. Palibe chifukwa chodera nkhawa kapena kumva kuti akutsutsidwa mu kuvomerezeka kwake monga makolo abwino ngati ana amakangana.
Osawaletsa, mverani madandaulo awo ndikukonzanso : “Ndikuona kuti mwakwiya. Simuyenera kukonda abale ndi alongo anu. Koma muyenera kuwalemekeza, monganso ife tiyenera kulemekeza munthu aliyense. ” Khalani omasuka ngati kugunda kwazing'ono. Nthawi zambiri mikangano imatha msanga monga momwe idayambira. Malingana ngati makolowo amakhala patali ndipo safuna kudzipeza okha pakatikati pa chiyanjano. Palibe ntchito kulowererapo nthawi iliyonse ndipo koposa zonse osatchula funso lachinyengo: "Ndani adayamba?" Chifukwa sichingatsimikizike. Apatseni mpata wothetsa mkanganowo paokha.
Alowererepo ngati ana abwera ku nkhonya
Ma belligerents ayenera kulekanitsidwa mwakuthupi ngati mmodzi wa iwo apezeka pangozi kapena ngati nthawi zonse ali yemweyo yemwe ali ndi udindo wogonjera. Kenako gwirani wowukirayo ndi mkono, yang'anani molunjika m'maso ndikukumbukira malamulowo: “N’zoletsedwa kumenyana kapena kutukwana m’banja mwathu. “ Nkhanza zapakamwa mofanana ndi chiwawa chakuthupi ziyenera kupeŵedwa.
Alange mwachilungamo
Palibe choipa kwa wamng'ono kuposa kulangidwa molakwika. ndipo popeza n'zovuta kudziwa amene anachititsa zinthu kuipiraipira, ndibwino kusankha chilango chochepa cha ana aliyense. Monga Mwachitsanzo, kudzipatula mu chipinda kwa mphindi zingapo ndiyeno kupanga chojambula chopangira mbale kapena mlongo wake ngati chikole cha uthenga wa chiyanjanitso ndi mtendere. Chifukwa ngati mulanga kwambiri, mutha kusintha kusamvana komwe kumangochitika kumene kukhala chakukhosi.
Lembani mzere wanthawi zomvetsetsa bwino
Nthawi zambiri timakhala tcheru kwambiri pa nthawi yamavuto kuposa nthawi ya mgwirizano. Ndipo ndi zolakwika. M’nyumba mukakhala chete, onetsani kukhutira kwanu : "Ukusewera bwino chiyani, zimandisangalatsa kukuwonani muli limodzi mosangalala kwambiri!" »Apatseni masewera kuti agawane. Timakangana kwambiri ngati tatopa! Yesani kutsimikizira tsiku lawo ndi zochitika zamasewera, kupita kokayenda, kuyenda, kujambula, masewera a board, kuphika ...
Kodi makolo onse ali ndi zokonda?
Malinga ndi kafukufuku waposachedwapa wa ku Britain, Makolo 62 pa XNUMX alionse amene anafunsidwa ananena kuti amakonda mmodzi wa ana awo kuposa ena. Malinga ndi iwo, zokondazo zimatanthauzira kukhala ndi chidwi chochulukirapo komanso kukhala ndi nthawi yochulukirapo ndi m'modzi mwa anawo. Mu 25% ya milandu, ndiye wamkulu kwambiri chifukwa amatha kugawana naye zochitika zambiri komanso zokambirana zosangalatsa. Kafukufukuyu ndi wodabwitsa chifukwa kupezeka kwa wokondedwa m'mabanja ndi nkhani yovuta! Wokondedwa amatsutsa nthano yakuti makolo angakonde ana awo onse mofanana! Izi ndi zopeka chifukwa zinthu sizingakhale zofanana mwa abale, ana ndi anthu apadera ndipo chifukwa chake ndi zachilendo kuwaona mosiyana.
Ngati abale ndi alongo amasirira mwaŵi wa wosankhidwa wa makolowo kapena amene amaona kuti ndi wofunika kwambiri, kodi amenewo ndiwo malo abwino koposa? Ayi ndithu! Kuwononga mwana kwambiri ndikumupatsa chilichonse sikutanthauza kumukonda. Chifukwa chakuti kuti mwana akhale wamkulu wokhutira, amafunikira dongosolo ndi malire. Ngati adzitenga kukhala mfumu ya dziko lapansi pakati pa abale ndi alongo ake, akhoza kukhumudwa kunja kwa chikwa cha banja, chifukwa ana ena, aphunzitsi, akuluakulu onse, adzamuchitira monga wina aliyense. Kutetezedwa mopitirira muyeso, kofunika kwambiri, kunyalanyaza kuleza mtima, kuyesetsa, kulolera kukhumudwa, wokondedwa nthawi zambiri amadzipeza kuti sakuyenera kusukulu poyamba, kenako kugwira ntchito ndi ku moyo wa anthu onse. Mwachidule, kukhala wokondedwa si mankhwala, m'malo mwake!