8 malingaliro a microdate

Ntchito, kugula, ntchito zapakhomo ndi masewera - m'moyo wathu watsiku ndi tsiku pali nthawi yochepa ya wokondedwa. Ndipo pamene ana akuwonekera, zimakhala zovuta kwambiri kupereka chisamaliro chokwanira kwa mnzanuyo. Okondedwa ambiri amangowonana m'mawa kapena madzulo, pamene aliyense ali wotopa kwambiri kuti asawononge nthawi ndi mzake.

Kuti chizoloŵezicho chisaphwanye chikondi, mufunikira kupatula nthaŵi yolankhulana pamodzi mwachikondi. Chosangalatsa n’chakuti anthu otanganidwa kwambiri sayenera kuthera mlungu wonse m’chipwirikiti chofuna kukhala paokha. Lingaliro lamisonkhano yaying'ono limagwirizana mosavuta ndi nthawi iliyonse yotanganidwa. Gwiritsani ntchito nthawi zazifupi zomwe mumakonda kugwiritsa ntchito foni yam'manja kapena mndandanda. Kodi lingaliro la microdating ndi chiyani?

Lingaliro 1. Kumanani ndi khofi yam'mawa

Kuyamba bwino kwa tsiku logwira ntchito kudzakusangalatsani maola 24 pasadakhale. Choncho, ngati n’kotheka, yesani kudzuka limodzi pabedi, ngakhale ngati wina atha kuvula kapu yawo yausiku pambuyo pake. Ganizirani za zochitika zam'mawa zomwe nonse mumakonda. Mwachitsanzo, tsiku lalifupi pa wopanga khofi. Mutha kukonza mapulani atsiku, kugawana ntchito ndi zovuta zomwe zikubwera, kapena zoyembekeza zabwino mukamamwa khofi pamodzi.

Lingaliro lachiwiri. Idyani limodzi nkhomaliro

Ngati inu ndi mnzanuyo mumagwira ntchito moyandikana, mutha kukhalira limodzi nthawi yopuma masana kamodzi pa sabata. Tsiku kwinakwake "pa equator", pakati pa maofesi anu, ndi mwayi waukulu kuti mudye mu lesitilanti yabwino ndikusangalala ndi nthawi pamodzi.

Ngati kukumana ndizovuta kwambiri kwa inu, koma mukufuna kusunga lingaliro la microdating, ingokonzekerani kuyimba foni nthawi yankhomaliro. Kapena macheza apakanema omwe angakupatseni mwayi wodyera limodzi, ngakhale pafupifupi. Misonkhano yanthawi zonse ya maso ndi maso ikhoza kukhala mwambo wosangalatsa komanso kulimbitsa ubale wanu. Ngati nthawi yanu yopuma masana ili yochepa ndipo mumaimbira foni kuchokera kuntchito nthawi zonse, mwinamwake mungathe kunyamulana kuntchito nthawi ndi nthawi?

Lingaliro 3. Pitani kukagula

Ngati inu ndi mnzanu mumagula limodzi sabata iliyonse, mutha kusinthanso kugula kukhala microdate. Nyamulani dengu kapena kugudubuza ngolo, kugwirana chanza, kupsompsona pamzere potuluka. Zosangalatsa zazing'onozi zidzakwanira tsiku lanu ndikuthandizira kuti chikondi ndi kukhudzika kusazimiririke m'chipwirikiti cha moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.

Lingaliro 4. Bwererani ku tsiku loyamba

Zikuwoneka kuti kubwereza chibwenzi chanu choyamba ndi lingaliro lovuta kapena losatheka. N'zokayikitsa kuti zidzatheka kubereka molondola tsiku limenelo. Koma zing'onozing'ono, ndithudi, zikhoza kuphatikizidwa m'moyo watsiku ndi tsiku. Mwachitsanzo, yatsani nyimbo imene nonse munaimva panthawiyo, phikani chakudya chimene munaitanitsa nthawi imeneyo, kapena valani chinachake chimene chinadabwitsa kapena chinapangitsa mnzanuyo kuseka panthawiyo. Idzabweretsadi zikumbukiro zabwino.

Lingaliro 5. Perekani wina ndi mzake mphindi yachifundo mgalimoto

Ngati mukuyenda limodzi m’galimoto popita kuntchito kapena kukagula zinthu, gwiranani pa bondo la mnzanuyo kapena mugwire dzanja la mnzanuyo. Mutha kuyikanso CD ya nyimbo zomwe mudagawana kale kuti mukumbukire zinthu zosangalatsa.

Lingaliro 6. Gawani ntchito zapakhomo pakati pa awiri

Sankhani “homuweki” yomwe mungachite ndi mnzanu. Mwachitsanzo, pindani zochapira kapena patsani chotsukira mbale pamodzi. Ndipo pochita izi, mutha kusewera, nthabwala - iyi idzakhala njira yabwino kwa microdate.

Lingaliro 7. Gwirani mwachisawawa

Nthawi zonse mukadutsa mnzako, yesani kumugwira. Kupsompsonani pamphumi kapena tsaya, gwirani kumbuyo, kapena kukumbatirani mwamphamvu. Kukhudza koteroko sikumangopereka kumverera kwa kuyandikana ndi kutentha, komanso kumapangitsa munthu wina kukhala wosangalaladi. Kupatula apo, aliyense wa ife amafunikira kulumikizidwa. Kafukufuku wasonyeza kuti munthu wamba amafunikira kukumbatiridwa kasanu ndi katatu patsiku kuti apange mahomoni ofunikira kaamba ka chimwemwe.

Lingaliro 8. Sambani limodzi

Yesani kusonkhana m'bafa ndi microdate usikuuno. Sambani limodzi. Microdate yotereyo molimbika pang'ono ipereka zotsatira zabwino kwambiri, kukupatsani ubwenzi, kutsitsimutsa chilakolako.

Pali njira zambiri zotsitsimutsa maubale. Zinyengo zoterezi ndizofunikira makamaka kwa okwatirana omwe ali ndi ana, pamene chiopsezo chotengeka ndi maudindo a makolo ndikuiwala za maudindo a okondedwa ndi aakulu. Kumbukirani kuti pafupi ndi inu pali munthu wokondedwa kwa inu yemwe, monga inu, amafuna chidwi chenicheni ndi kutentha. Ichi ndi sitepe yoyamba komanso yofunika kwambiri yopita ku chisangalalo mu ubale.