Zamkatimu
Pali anthu omwe amapeza bwino kwambiri ndikusintha anthu kukhala abwino. Panthawi imodzimodziyo, kuwadutsa mumsewu, simungaganize kuti ndi apadera. Mosiyana ndi aphunzitsi otchuka ndi olemba mabulogu, «opambana mwakachetechete» samafuula za zomwe achita pakona iliyonse. Tiyeni tione makhalidwe ena amene ali nawo.
1. Amamvetsetsa kuti sangapambane pa chilichonse.
Ntchito yododometsa, moyo wochuluka wa anthu, kulera bwino, chimwemwe m'chikondi - anthu otere amadziwa bwino kuti ndi anthu ochepa omwe amatha kuchita bwino m'madera onse nthawi imodzi.
Kuyika ndalama pantchito, amamvetsetsa kuti moyo wawo ukhoza "kumira", ndipo ali okonzekera m'maganizo. Kuchita bwino m’maganizo mwawo n’kogwirizana kwambiri ndi kufunika kwa kulolera.
2. Sayesa kuoneka ngati opambana.
Osachepera chifukwa ndizotopetsa - zolankhula zosatha izi, zoyankhulana, kutenga nawo mbali pama podcasts ndi makanema apa TV. Anthu otere amathera nthawi ndi mphamvu zawo mwanzeru. Amati chimwemwe chimakonda kukhala chete. Kwa anthu otere, kupambana kwawo kumakonda kukhala chete.
3. Amafunsa kuposa kuyankha
Zimakhala zotopetsa kwa iwo kuyankhula zambiri ndikupereka malingaliro awo ovomerezeka nthawi zambiri. Komanso, ndi pafupifupi zosatheka kuphunzira kalikonse. Ndizosangalatsa komanso zothandiza kufunsa mafunso, kuphunzira zatsopano, kupeza chakudya choganizira ndi mafuta amalingaliro atsopano (zomwe zimabweretsa "kupambana mwakachetechete").
4. Sapeputsa zimene anthu ena achita.
M'malo mwake, m'malo mwake: iwo eni sakonda kukhala pamalo owonekera ndikulola ena kuswa m'manja, komanso kulandira chidwi ndi kutamanda. Ichi ndichifukwa chake kumakhala kosangalatsa kugwira nawo ntchito, ndichifukwa chake anthu ambiri amafunitsitsa kukhala m'gulu lawo.
5. Sachita mantha kudziseka okha.
"Opambana chete" amadziwa bwino kuti n'zosatheka kukhala pahatchi nthawi zonse. Iwo sachita mantha awo «oyera odula» zauve ndi mosavuta kuvomereza zolakwa. Izi zimawalola kusungunula madzi oundana muubwenzi ndi anthu ena, zomwe mwazokha ndizofunika kwambiri.
6. Sachita modzionetsera zomwe zimawapambana.
Kuchuluka kwazaka mubizinesi, kuchuluka kwa ogwira ntchito, kuchuluka kwa akaunti, kuchuluka kwa ndalama zomwe zimakopeka - ndizotheka kuti simudzadziwa zonsezi pakukambirana ndi "wopambana chete". Cholinga chake ndi kupitiriza kuika moyo wake mu ntchito yake, chifukwa posachedwa chinachake chidzabwera.
7. Amavala momasuka.
Munthu woteroyo sangaonekere pagulu - makamaka chifukwa sakufuna. "Opambana opanda phokoso" nthawi zambiri samavala zovala zonyezimira kapena zodula mopambanitsa—palibe zosonyeza kuchuluka kwa ndalama zomwe amapeza. Safuna mawotchi a "status": ali ndi foni kuti adziwe nthawi.
8. Amapewa kutchuka
Ulemerero ndi vuto lalikulu kwa iwo, ndipo sakanasinthana ndi kuthekera kwawo kochoka mnyumbamo modekha kukagula kapena kusewera ndi ana pabwalo lamasewera ndi chilichonse. Amakonda moyo wawo wabata, wabata.
Nanga n’cifukwa ciani amapambana?
Kupeza yankho la funsoli sikophweka - ngati chifukwa, monga tadziwira kale, anthuwa amapewa kulengeza kulikonse ndipo sapereka zoyankhulana za zomwe zidawapangitsa kuti apambane. Koma tinganene kuti zoona zake n’zakuti amakonda kugwira ntchito yawo kuposa kutchuka. Amasamala kwambiri ndipo amachita chidwi ndi zomwe akuchita. Izi angaphunzirepo.
Kupambana sikuli pagulu, koma pogwira ntchito ndi moyo ndi chidwi. Pochita izi, “opambana mwakachetechete” amasintha dziko kukhala labwinoko tsiku ndi tsiku, ngakhale kuti nthawi zambiri sitizindikira. Kodi pali anthu otere pafupi nanu?