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Kodi kukhala mayi wazaka 40 kumasintha bwanji?
Mwayi pang'ono, chipiriro chochuluka
Vuto loyamba: kukhala ndi pakati. Pazaka 40, nthawi zambiri zimatenga nthawi yayitali kuti mukhale ndi pakati, osachepera chaka. Kuyambira m'badwo uno, mkazi ali ndi mwayi 10% kuti abereke ubwamuna, womwe ndi wocheperapo katatu kuposa zaka 25. Koma awa ndithudi ndi ma avareji. M'malo mwake, ndi amayi angati azaka 40 kapena 42 omwe anali ndi pakati pasanathe miyezi isanu ndi umodzi atasiya kulera?
Kuvuta kwachiwiri: kupititsa patsogolo zochitika za trimester yoyamba. Pamsinkhu uwu, kutaya mimba koyambirira (kusokoneza chitukuko cha dzira ngakhale tsiku la kusamba lisanafike) nthawi zambiri. Choncho patapita zaka 40, 30% ya mimba sapitirira mwezi wachiwiri siteji. Pofunsidwa, kukalamba kwa oocyte komwe kumasungidwa m'mimba mwake kuyambira mwezi wachinayi wa moyo wa mwana wosabadwayo! Ndipo zaka zisanu kapena khumi zina, zomwe zimawerengedwa, mu oocyte nawonso.
Zaka zikupita, ndiye chiyani?
Kutenga mimba ukakalamba kwakhala kofala. Chiwerengero cha obadwa pambuyo pa 40 chawonjezeka kuwirikiza katatu mu XNUMX yapitayi zaka! Mu 15% ya milandu, imakhala yoyamba, koma nthawi zambiri, ndi banja lomwe limakula. ” Ku France, okwatirana ochulukirachulukira akusankha kuchita chachitatu kapena chachinayi, osatchulanso za mabanja omwe amapangidwanso! ", Amadzutsa Pulofesa Michel Tournaire, wamkulu wa chipatala cha Saint-Vincent-de-Paul, wolemba The Happiness of being a mother - Mimba pambuyo pa zaka 35. Ndiyeno, mophweka, mibadwo ikupita! Mwana woyamba amafika pafupifupi zaka 30 mwa akazi, choncho, omalizawo adzatuluka pambuyo pake pang'ono komanso zaka zingapo zapitazo.
Mimba mochedwa, ndizofala!
Madonna anabala Lourdes ku 39 ndi mwana wake Rocco ku 41. Isabelle Adjani anali ndi mnyamata wake womaliza, Gabriel-Kane, ali ndi zaka 40. Lio anabala mapasa ake Garance ndi Léa ali ndi zaka 37, ndipo anabala mwana wake Diego ali ndi zaka 41. Pamene mukukhala moyo wa nyenyezi ... ana amabwera pambuyo pake! Ngakhale kuti ndizofala masiku ano, mimba zochedwa zimenezi siziyenera kuonedwa mopepuka! Amafuna chisamaliro chapadera ndipo amayi omwe akuganizira izi ayenera kudzifunsa mafunso oyenera asanayambe. : “Kodi amene ali pafupi nane adzatani? "," Kodi ndidzigwira ndekha? »,« Kodi ine ndikhoza kutenga kusiyana koteroko mu msinkhu pakati pa mwana wanga ndi ine? “…
Kulandira mimba yanu mochedwa kuvomerezedwa
Kwa akulu. Akhoza kubisa chisangalalo chawo akadziwa kuti muli ndi pakati. Anzawo aganiza bwanji? Ndiyeno, pang'ono kunyumba, kumapanga phokoso! Osadandaula, mchimwene kapena mlongo wake akangobadwa, amakonda kumusangalatsa ...
Mwana wothandizira. “Sazindikira kuopsa kwake! "," Mosakayika ndi ngozi ... "… Nkhawa za ena, chiweruzo cha ena ... sikophweka kwa mayi wamtsogolo kukumana ndi zomwe zimachitika. Ganizirani kwambiri za ubwino wanu ndi wa mwanayo!
“Makolo anga anali ndi nkhawa. Kukhala ndi mwana pa msinkhu wanga! Mchimwene wanga ankaganiza kuti kunali kulakwitsa kwakukulu... khalidwe limeneli, linawonjezera mavuto ena, linachititsa kuti ubale wathu usokonezeke. Sylvie, wazaka 45 “Anzathu ndi abale athu onse ali kale ndi ana, ena mwa iwo ndi akuluakulu tsopano. Mngelo wathu wamng'ono adalandilidwa ndi chisangalalo chachikulu ndi aliyense, chifukwa takhala tikumuyembekezera kwa nthawi yayitali ... "Lise, wazaka 38 |
Kukhala ndi mwana pambuyo pake, ubwino wake ndi wotani?
Ife tayikidwa bwino. Choyamba mu ubale wake, komanso mu ntchito yathu choncho, kunyumba! “Amayi amtsogolowa nthawi zambiri amakhala ndi moyo wabwino pazachuma. Ndizosavuta kuti alandire pang'ono "akutsindika Prof Tournaire.
Ndife anzeru. "Pa 40, mumayendetsa bwino mimba yanu. Amayi azaka 40 amasamala kwambiri kuposa amayi achichepere… mwina chifukwa amadziwa kuzama kwa nkhaniyi ndipo ali ndi chidziwitso chochulukirapo! ”
Timatenga kutopa kwake ndi nthabwala! Ndikawaona akufika muofesi yanga, ali fulati! Amapweteka akadzuka, akagona, koma amamwetulira kwambiri pa zowawazi. Amandilimbikitsa kwambiri, mwina. ”…
Mwayi winanso wazaka: pambuyo pa zaka 35, tili ndi zizindikiro zochepa, chifukwa khungu limakhala lokhwima! (Nthawi zonse ndi nkhani yabwino kutenga!)
40 വയസ് കഴിഞ്ഞു. എന്റെ വിവാഹം താമസിച്ചാണ് നടന്നത്… എനിക്കൊരു കുഞ്ഞ് ഉണ്ടാകാൻ സാധ്യത ഉണ്ടോ