"Mwamuna amafunikira kugonana kwambiri kuposa mkazi"

Zakhala zikudziwika bwino pakati pa anthu kuti amuna amatha kumva kuti akufuna kugonana, kukhala ndi ogonana nawo ambiri komanso sasankha bwino pa zibwenzi. Komabe, amuna eni ake akuchulukirachulukira kuti amakumana ndi kusowa kwa mgwirizano wapamtima ndi okondedwa awo komanso chifundo muubwenzi. Ndi maganizo ati omwe ali pafupi ndi choonadi?

“Akazi amakhala okonzeka kwambiri kugonana akamakula”

Alain Eriel, psychoanalyst, sexologist

Kuchokera pamalingaliro a physiology, kutulutsa umuna tsiku ndi tsiku ndikofunikira kuti mwamuna agwire bwino ntchito ya testicles ndi prostate. Odwala ena amalangizidwa ndi akatswiri a urologist kuti adziseweretsa maliseche kamodzi patsiku. Ndi njira yachipatala! Kwa amayi, njira zomwe zimayambitsa chilakolako zimakhala zogwirizana kwambiri ndi zinthu monga nyengo, malo, malingaliro ake.

Chilakolako cha mkazi chimatsimikiziridwa mochepa ndi thupi komanso zambiri ndi kulingalira. Zofuna zake zakugonana ndi gawo la chitukuko chake; m’lingaliro limeneli, mkazi amasanjidwa molingana ndi mfundo ya “kukhala”. Mwamuna, kumbali ina, amayang'anitsitsa kwambiri mpikisano, mpikisano, chikhumbo cha "kukhala" chimakula mwa iye.

"Kwa mwamuna, kugonana ndi njira yoti "ndimakukondani"

Mireille Bonierbal, psychiatrist, sexologist

Mawuwa ndi oona, koma zambiri pano zimadalira zaka. Mpaka zaka 35, amuna amatha kutengeka ndi mahomoni ogonana omwe amawagonjetsa. Iwo amachita ngati alenje. Ndiye mlingo wa testosterone umachepa.

Atsikana achichepere samvera malamulo achilengedwe; ndi kuyamba kwa kukhwima, pamene zoletsa mkati ndi taboos kutha, iwo amakhala okonzeka kugonana.

Komabe, ngati mkazi wapeza chikondi chake, ndiye kuti nthawi iliyonse ya moyo wake zimakhala zosavuta kuti azichita popanda kugonana kusiyana ndi mwamuna. Kwa mwamuna yemwe nthawi zambiri amakhala wotopa ndi mawu, kugonana kumakhala njira yoti "ndimakukondani."