Zamkatimu
Konzani zonse musananyamuke… kapena pafupifupi!
Pangani moyo wanu kukhala wosavuta poyenda mopepuka momwe mungathere. Lembani mwatsatanetsatane zomwe mudzafunikira. Tengani zolemba zaumoyo, zithunzi za zitupa, mapasipoti… chovala, ngati ... Osayiwala bulangeti wokondedwa ndi masewera omwe angatengere ana - masewera a masewera, piritsi kapena foni yamakono yanu ingakupulumutseni ulendo wanu, koma ziwonetseni kuti ndi nthawi yaulendo! Bweretsani zomwe ang'onoang'ono amatenga nthawi yamvula: masewera a board kuti azisewera limodzi, masamba opaka utoto, ma collages, mabuku azithunzi kuti azitanganidwa. Tengani ma DVD awo omwe amawakonda ndikuwonera nawo limodzi. Phunzirani njira yanu mwatsatanetsatane, konzekerani nthawi yopuma kuti mutambasule miyendo yanu, ndikudya kuti mudye ndi kumwa.
Zilekeni
Amayi onse (komanso abambo) padziko lapansi ali ndi malamulo osawoneka omwe amatsimikizira moyo watsiku ndi tsiku wa banja. Tchuthi ndi mwayi woti aliyense apume pang'ono, kuti asinthe malo omwe amakhalamo komanso ma rhythm. Osatopa ndi kufuna kuti zonse ziyende bwino monga momwe mungakhalire kunyumba. Ndi bwino ngati mwana wanu akugona mu stroller yake mu mthunzi pamene inu kumaliza kudya chakudya chamasana. Palibe chifukwa chodziimba mlandu ngati anawo adya zochepa kuposa masiku onse! Mutha kudya nkhomaliro pakapita nthawi ngati mupita kokacheza, kudumphadumpha, kudya zokhwasula-khwasula, kudya masangweji ngati chakudya, kutuluka madzulo amodzi kapena awiri ndi banja lanu kukawona zozimitsa moto kapena kudya ayisikilimu. Landirani zosayembekezereka ndi zatsopano. Osaimba mlandu mwamuna wanu pobweretsa zokometsera zokometsera, ma pizza, ndi zokometsera zotsekemera mukafuna masamba ndi zipatso.
Thandizani ana
Ana amakonda kutenga nawo mbali pazochitika zapakhomo, amanyadira kuthandiza mwa kukhala othandiza. Musazengereze kuwapatsa maudindo. Kuyika zodula, magalasi ndi mbale patebulo ndikokwanira kwa mwana wazaka 2½/3. Ngati pali kusweka kulikonse, iwo adzamvetsa mwamsanga kufunika kolamulira kayendedwe kawo. Zovala zachilimwe zimakhala zosavuta kuvala, azilola kuti asankhe zovala zawo ndi kuvala okha. Auzeni kutsuka ndi kupukuta zovala zawo zonyowa zosambira ndi matawulo akabwera kuchokera kugombe. Apatseni thumba kuti aike zinthu ndi zoseweretsa zomwe akufuna kukwera. Adzakhala ndi udindo wowasonkhanitsa asananyamuke. Tchuthi ndi nthawi yabwino kuti aphunzire kusamba paokha ndikudziyendetsa pawokha kugwiritsa ntchito potty ndi / kapena zimbudzi za akulu..
Chepetsani mikangano
Kungoti tili patchuthi sizitanthauza kuti sitidzakangananso. Kunena zowona, zili ngati chaka chonsecho, choipitsitsa kwambiri, chifukwa timakhala pamodzi maola 24 patsiku! Wina akafika kumapeto kwa chitsekerero chake, amaitana winayo kuti amuthandize ndikuyenda pang'ono kuti apume ndi kukhazika mtima pansi. Njira ina yowombola ndiyo kulemba chilichonse chomwe chikukuvutitsani, kukhuthula thumba lanu, musadzipende nokha, kenako ndikung'amba pepala ndikulitaya. Mwakhala Zen kachiwiri! Osatopa ndi chipwirikiti chomwe mwatopa ndi tchuthi zovundazi, musadandaule pamwayi pang'ono chifukwa zimapatsirana. Aliyense akuyamba kubuula! M'malo mwake, dzifunseni zomwe mungasinthe kuti mumve bwino. Mukakhumudwa kapena kukwiya, fotokozani zakukhosi kwanu mwa munthu woyamba, m'malo mwake "Ndiwe waulesi, ndiwe wodzikonda" ndi "Ndakhumudwa, zimandimvetsa chisoni". Njira zazikuluzikuluzi zidzapeputsa nyengo ya tchuthi.
Sangalalani masiku anu
Kuyambira kadzutsa, funsani aliyense kuti: "Kodi mungatani kuti tsiku lanu likhale labwino lero, kuti musangalale?" Dzifunseninso funsolo. Chifukwa ngati kuli koyenera kuchitira limodzi zinthu, tithanso kukonza zochita m’magulu ndi paokha. Kumbukirani kukonzekera nthawi yopuma ya tsiku ndi tsiku chifukwa cha inu, zodzikongoletsera kapena nthawi yopumula, kugona pamthunzi, kukwera njinga ... Pitani kumadziwikira m'nyanja m'mawa kwambiri kapena kumapeto kwa tsiku, mwachidule, musachite simumana kuthawa kwapang'ono payekha, mudzakhala okondwa kwambiri kupeza fuko lanu.
Pangani kusintha koyambira
Mwamuna wanu ali ndi zolinga zolimba zobwereranso kumasewera, kumangokhalira kuwerenga zosangalatsa, kugona… Mwachidule, cholinga chake ndi kupindula kwambiri ndi tchuthi. Pamene mumasamalira ang'onoang'ono omwe amamatira ku masiketi anu ndipo amafuna chisamaliro chanu chokhazikika? Sizingatheke ! Kupanda kutero, mudzabwera kunyumba kuchokera kutchuthi mukumva wowonda komanso wokhumudwa. Kuti mupewe izi, fotokozerani mofatsa kwa abambo kuti inunso muli patchuthi, kuti mukupita kukagwira ntchito, 50% inu, 50% iye. Mufotokozereni kuti mumadalira iye kuti aziyang’anira ana, kupita nawo kokayenda, kusonkhanitsa zipolopolo za m’nyanja, kuwayang’ana posambira ndi kupanga nawo mabwalo amchenga pamene mukuwotchedwa ndi dzuwa mwakachetechete kapena popita kokagula zinthu kapena pothamanga. Gawani ntchito, wina azigula zinthu ndipo wina kukhitchini, wina azikonza pabalaza, wina azitsuka mbale, wina azisamba ndipo wina azisamalira nthawi yogona ...
Kupumula, kugona ...
Zofufuza zonse zikusonyeza, anthu asanu ndi anayi mwa khumi alionse opita kutchuthi amakhulupirira kuti cholinga chatchuthi ndicho kuchira kutopa komwe kunapezeka m’chakachi.
Ana nawonso atopa, choncho mupumule banja lonse. Gona pamene mukumva zizindikiro zoyamba za kugona, kugona, ndi kulola ana ndi akulu kudzuka mochedwa ndi kukacheza chakudya cham'mawa. Palibe kuthamangira, ndi tchuthi!
Salirani moyo wanu
Mukafika, sankhani zakudya zosavuta, brunch m'mawa, saladi wosakaniza, picnics masana, mbale zazikulu za pasitala, barbecues, zikondamoyo ndi zikondamoyo madzulo.
Palibe chomwe chimakulepheretsani, nthawi ndi nthawi, kuphika chakudya chamadzulo kwa ana nthawi ya 19pm ndikudya chakudya chamadzulo nokha 21pm Gulani nthawi ndi nthawi zakudya zophikidwa pamsika ndi masamba owundana kumalo ogulitsira kuti mupewe ntchito zapakhomo ...
Pitani pa chibwenzi nthawi ndi nthawi
Kukhala makolo sikutanthauza kukhala ndi malire m’banja mwanu. Dzipatseni mpweya wabwino, perekani mwana wanu kwa womulera kuti apite kukadya ndi wokondedwa wanu kapena kupita kokacheza ndi anzanu. Fufuzani ndi ofesi ya alendo kuti mupeze mndandanda wa olera ana apafupi ndikuwona angapo kuti mupeze mwala wosowa umene mumaukhulupirira. Koposa zonse, musatengere mwayi pazifukwa izi kuti mutenge mafayilo onse "ovuta" omwe mulibe nthawi yoti muwathane nawo mchaka chonsecho ndipo amasanduka mzere (amayi anu, ana anu, ntchito yanu, anzanu, kutayikira mu bafa, etc.). Gwiritsani ntchito madzulo ozizira achilimwewa ndikusangalalira
chisangalalo kukupezani maso ndi maso, mophweka.
Ludivine, mayi wa Léon, wazaka 4, Ambre et violette, wazaka 2: “Timapezera ana masuku pamutu kuposa onse”
“Timagwira ntchito kwambiri, choncho maholide ndi kusangalala ndi ana athu. Timachitira zonse limodzi ndipo ndi zabwino. Koma usiku, timagona ngati makanda ! Magazini onse amanena choncho : tchuthi ndi nthawi yabwino yoti maanja azisangalala pogonana ! Koma sitili mumkhalidwe wonyansa, makamaka ndi kupsa ndi dzuwa ! Ndipo monga chaka chonse, tatopa ndi kupsinjika, timadzimva kuti ndife olakwa kwambiri… Ndizovuta kwambiri ndipo nthawi iliyonse, timadzilimbitsa tokha podziwuza tokha kuti tikhala paulendo wachikondi “posachedwa”. “