Mwa njira, malinga ndi ziwerengero, mlingo wa imfa za makanda ndi amayi m'dziko lino ndizochepa!
Zochititsa chidwi, chabwino? Tiyeni tiwone Dutch mimba mwatsatanetsatane.
Mkazi amaphunzira za udindo wake wokongola ndipo .... Ayi, sathamangira kuchipatala monga mwachizolowezi chathu. Pofika kumapeto kwa trimester yoyamba (masabata 12), amapita kwa mzamba, yemwe angamutsogolere (ngati ndinganene choncho).
Ndipo atatha kuyezetsa koyenera (magazi a HIV, chindoko, chiwindi ndi shuga) ndi ultrasound, adzasankha ngati mayi woyembekezera akufunika dokotala kapena ayi. Njira yachiwiri ndiyofala kwambiri, chifukwa, kachiwiri, mimba ku Holland sikufanana ndi matenda.
Kotero, ndi njira ziti zomwe mkazi ali nazo "komwe ndi momwe angaberekere"? Pali zisanu mwa izo:
- kunyumba ndi mzamba wodziimira yekha (mkazi wake amasankha yekha),
- mu hotelo yoyamwitsa ndi mzamba wodziyimira pawokha, yemwenso wasankhidwa yekha, kapena woperekedwa ndi malo oberekera;
- m'malo oyembekezera omwe ali ndi malo abwino kwambiri, pafupifupi kunyumba komanso mzamba wodziyimira pawokha;
- chipatala chokhala ndi mzamba wodziimira payekha,
- m'chipatala ndi dokotala ndi mzamba wa chipatala (zovuta kwambiri, zomwe zimagwiritsidwa ntchito pa mimba yoopsa).
Kodi izi kapena kusankha kumadalira chiyani? Molunjika kuchokera ku gulu lachiwopsezo lomwe mkaziyo ali. Mwa njira, buku lonse ladziko lonse laperekedwa kumagulu owopsa. Mwinamwake, mukuzunzidwa kale ndi funso: Chifukwa chiyani zili zosiyana ndi ife? Chifukwa chiyani kubadwa kunyumba kuli kotetezeka kwa ena komanso kowopsa kwa ena? Physiology ina kapena chiyani?. Yankho ndi losavuta: malingaliro osiyana, mlingo wosiyana wa utumiki, chitukuko chosiyana cha dziko lonse.
Mukuganiza bwanji, kodi ambulansi imagwira ntchito pansi pa mazenera a mayi wakunyumba yemwe akubereka? Inde sichoncho! Koma ku Holland pali lamulo lomveka bwino komanso, chofunika kwambiri, lokhazikika nthawi zonse: ngati pazifukwa zina mzamba yemwe akubereka akuyitana ambulansi, ndiye kuti ayenera kufika mkati mwa mphindi 15. Inde, kulikonse m'dziko. Anamwino onse ndi oyenerera bwino ndipo ali ndi maphunziro abwino, kotero amatha kuwerengera zomwe zikuchitika mphindi 20 kutsogolo.
“Mwina akazi amene amasankha kubelekera m’nyumba sakhala anzeru mokwanira kapena salabadira kaimidwe kawo,” mungalingalire motero. Koma ngakhale pano yankho ndilolakwika. Pali mfundo imodzi yochititsa chidwi yomwe imatsimikiziridwa ndi kafukufuku: kubadwa kunyumba kumasankhidwa ndi amayi omwe ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba ndi IQ.
Mosamala kwambiri, pang'onopang'ono, mchitidwe wakubadwa kunyumba umalowa mu chidziwitso chathu. Nthawi zambiri amalankhula za izo, kulemba za izo, ndipo wina amayesa izo pa iwo eni. Iyi ndi nkhani yabwino, chifukwa pali zabwino zambiri za mtundu uwu wa kubadwa kwa mwana: malo abwino, owala omwe alibe chochita ndi makoma otuwa a zipatala, mwayi wamtengo wapatali womveka ndikusankha malo abwino kwambiri obereka, kutsagana ndi ndondomekoyi monga gawo la anamwino omwe sianthu ambiri, dokotala, dokotala woyembekezera, komanso pamaso pa mzamba wosankhidwa, ndi zina zotero.
Koma uphungu waukulu ndi wakuti: mverani nokha, mverani, phunzirani musanapange chosankha chofunika chotero m’moyo. Kumbukirani kuti pano muli ndi udindo osati zanu zokha.