Zamkatimu
Fotokozani zifukwa zimene bamboyo anasiya
Bambo samakhalapo pafupipafupi pazifukwa zaukadaulo. Ziyenera kufotokozedwa mophweka monga momwemo kwa mwana wanu. Iye amadziona kuti ndi wopanda pake ndipo ayenera kumvetsa. Muuzeni kuti ntchito yake ndi yofunika komanso kuti ngakhale kuti bambo kulibe, amawakonda kwambiri ndipo amawaganizira nthawi zambiri. Kuti mumutsimikizire, musazengereze kukambitsirana nkhaniyi nthaŵi zonse, ndipo malinga ndi msinkhu wake, malizitsani chidziŵitsocho. Chabwino ndi chakuti bambo adzipatula nthawi yofotokozera yekha ntchito yake, zigawo kapena mayiko omwe akudutsa… Izi zimapangitsa kuti ntchitoyi ikhale yokhazikika ndipo mwana wanu akhoza kunyadira.
Dziwitsani kunyamuka kulikonse
Munthu wamkulu ali ndi tsiku lonyamuka lolembedwa pa tsiku lake, wakonza zinthu zake, nthawi zina kutenga tikiti yake yoyendera ... Mwachidule, ulendo ndithudi kwambiri konkire kwa inu. Koma zinthu sizimveka bwino kwa mwanayo: madzulo ena abambo ake alipo, tsiku lotsatira, palibe! Kapena sakudziwa. Amayi, omwe amuna awo amayenda kwambiri, amvadi mawu akuti “Abwera kunyumba usikuuno, adadi?” “. Kusatsimikizika kumakhala kovuta kuti ana ang'onoang'ono azikhala nawo. Popanda kukhala ndi msonkhano wa atolankhani, abambo nthawi zonse amayenera kutenga mphindi zingapo kuti afotokozere mwana wawo kuti akuchoka komanso kuti zitenga nthawi yayitali bwanji (nthawi zambiri timawerengera kuchuluka kwa kugona). Mawu a uphungu: sayenera kuchoka "ngati wakuba", ndi kuopa kuyang'anizana ndi kulira ngati pali. Nthawi zonse zimakhala bwino kuposa kulola kuti angst ayambe.
Musamubisire mwana wanu kuti tili ndi vuto
Sikophweka kukhala nokha m'chipinda chanu cha hotelo nthawi zambiri. Zinali zovutanso kusamalira banja ndekha panthawi imeneyi. Koma ndi kusankha kwa akulu, simuyenera kumulipiritsa mwana wanu. Pewani ziganizo monga "Mukudziwa, abambo, sizimamusangalatsa kukhala yekha nthawi zonse", mwana wanu samamvetsetsa zovuta zanu zachuma. Nthawi zonse yesetsani kukhala otsimikiza pankhani ya kuyenda komanso koposa zonse de-cul-pa-bi-li-sez. Ubale wozama umagwirizanitsa tate ndi mwana wake ndipo si kusowa komwe kungachepetse.
Pitirizani kulankhulana pafoni
Masiku ano, n'zosavuta kulankhulana! Telefoni, e-mail kwa ana okulirapo ndipo ngakhale njira yakale, makalata kapena mapositikhadi, zomwe mwanayo adzasunga ngati zikho zambiri. Kukambitsirana kumeneku n’kofunika kwambiri kuti pakhale kulinganizika: kumanga ubale ndi mwana wake ndi kusunga malo ake atate. Amayi nawonso amathandizira kukhazikitsa ubalewu: amamupangitsa kukhalapo polankhula za iye nthawi zambiri. Chinyengo chochepetsera nthawi: pangani kalendala nayo, bwanji osawerengera ngati kalendala yobwera. Kwatsala masiku x kuti abambo abwere kunyumba.
Bambo akuyenda: kuyembekezera kubwerera kwake
Nkhani yabwino ndiyakuti pambuyo pochoka, pali kubwerera. Ndipo kuti, anawo satopa kuchita chikondwerero! Mwachitsanzo, mukhoza kukonzekera "gala chakudya" ndi bambo. Sankhani mutu (nyanja, England ngati mukubwerera kuchokera ku London), pangani zokongoletsera zokongola (zipolopolo zochepa zomwe zimayikidwa patebulo, mbendera zing'onozing'ono za Chingerezi zobwezeretsedwa kuchokera kumalo othamanga) ndipo mudzakhala ndi nthawi yachisangalalo yomwe imalola mwana wanu kuti azisangalala. kuyimbanso banja ndi kumulimbikitsa. Atate angapulumutsenso kanthaŵi kochepa pa kusakhalapo mwa kukonzekera kubwerera. Mwachitsanzo, angauze mwana wake kuti ayambe kujambula kapena kumanga naye nyumba akadzabwerako.
Kupanga mgwirizano ngakhale palibe
Cholinga: pamene, mwatsoka, sitikhalapo nthawi zambiri, kuti tikwaniritse bwino maola ochepa omwe timathera ku banja lathu. Bambo akabwera kunyumba, banja lake lonse likudikirira, aliyense amafunikira mphindi yake.
* Sungani mphindi zapadera za mwana wanu. Ana aang'ono amakonda ntchito zomwe nthawi zambiri zimagwera kwa abambo: kutsuka galimoto, kupita ku masewera kapena sitolo ya DIY. Mwanayo adzapindula kwambiri ndipo adzakhala wonyadira kugawana nawo mphindi zovuta, "kutuluka" m'nyumba ndi abambo ake. Komanso, nthawi zambiri pamakhala mafunso okhudza dziko lapansi chikwi chimodzi. Izi sizimalepheretsa kupita kukwera njinga kapena kupita ku mpikisano wa judo, ntchitozi, zopanda pake, ndizofunikanso kwa mwanayo ndikungosonyeza chidwi chomwe munthu amamunyamula.
* Ndithudi, pomalizira pake, banjalo lifunikira kusonkhana pamodzi: kuzungulira chakudya, kuyenda m’nkhalango, kuyenda pang’ono kupita kumsika kapena kupaki. Chifukwa chakuti ndinu banja "labwino"!
* Ndipo ngati yatsala ndi kanthawi kochepa, atateyo ampatseko nthawi. Masewera a squash kapena rugby ndi anzanu. Abambo amene amayenda maulendo ambiri nthawi zambiri amadziona kuti ndi olakwa chifukwa chodzipezera okha nthawi.