Osapanga zosankha m’moyo motsatira malangizo a anthu amene safunikira kukhala ndi moyo ndi zotsatirapo zake, akutero wolemba mabulogu Janet Bertholus. Ndiyeno akupereka malangizo atatu ofunika kwambiri.
Posachedwapa ndinafunsidwa kuti ndipereke uphungu pa nkhani za chikondi - koma sindingathe. Zili ngati kupereka malangizo amomwe mungakulire zukini wamkulu kapena momwe mungaphunzirire kuimba piyano. Zonsezi ndidayesetsa kuchita ndipo ndidachita bwino. Koma kuphunzitsa anthu mmene zinthu zikuyendera m’chikondi n’koterera kwambiri. Simungaphunzitse munthu mmene azimvera.
Inde, pali malamulo, koma monga aliyense amene adakhalapo pachibwenzi, ndikuwuzani kuti izi ndizopanda pake.
Mumanyamuka mutakhala pampando wanu mpaka mutafika pamalo okwera. Kenako zakumwa zimaperekedwa kwa inu ndipo filimu imayikidwa mpaka chipwirikiti chiyambike. Ndiyeno mumabweretsa mpando wanu kuti ukhale woyima, mutenge parachute ndikusiya sitimayo, kapena mukukumana ndi zonsezi ndikuyembekeza kuti thambo lidzamveka bwino ndipo kuthawa kudzakhala kwachilendo.
Izo zimafikadi pa njira ziwirizi.
Thawani, thetsani, chilichonse chomwe mungafune kuchitcha, kapena pirirani ndikudikirira kuti mawa abwere. Chinachake ngati nthiwatiwa chomwe chimabisa mutu wake mumchenga. Ndipo m’njira zina kuleza mtima kumeneku kumakupangitsani kuoneka ngati woyera mtima. Ndipo mwa njira, pokhala yemweyo nthiwatiwa ndi woyera, ndipo ngakhale iwo anatera kuchokera ndege m'kanthawi, Ine sindingathe kuteteza mmodzi wa iwo. Ndikuwona tanthauzo mu khalidwe lililonse, zomwe zimatibweretsanso ku chiganizo choyamba. Sindikudziwa zoyipa.
Ena mwa maubwenzi abwino omwe ndidawawonapo (kuphatikiza ukwati wanga) amawoneka oyipa pamapepala mukayamba kuwafotokoza.
Sindingathe kukuuzani zomwe zidzagwire ntchito ndi zomwe sizingagwire. Ena mwa maubwenzi abwino omwe ndawonapo, kuphatikizapo ukwati wanga wazaka 15, umawoneka woyipa papepala mukayamba kuwafotokozera. Mwachitsanzo, tonse ndife nkhosa zamphongo, zomwe zikutanthauza kuti aliyense wa ife amakhala wolondola nthawi zonse, ndipo ndife a zipani zosiyanasiyana za ndale - inde, tikanaphana pa nthawiyi!
Kungoti mwakwatiwa sizikupanga kukhala katswiri pa maubwenzi. Ndingakhale bwanji katswiri pachinthu chomwe ndidalephera mobwerezabwereza ndipo kamodzi kokha ndidachipeza bwino ndikuchichita bwino? Ndipo sindingathe kufotokoza chifukwa chake kapena momwe zimagwirira ntchito. Ngati dokotala wa opaleshoni atakuuzani zimenezi ponena za iye mwini, kodi mungamukhulupirire ndi moyo wanu?
Ndipo musalole kuti wina akuuzeni kuti njira imeneyi yadzala ndi maluwa.
Ili ndi phunziro la momwe mungapezere mgwirizano. Izi ndi masokosi onyansa pansi, maganizo otsutsana pa nkhani zambiri ndi ndewu za ndale. Ndipo ndi Lachisanu limodzi usiku basi. Koma tamverani, akanatha kunena chimodzimodzi za ine.
Timakumana ndi zopusa zambiri. Ndizowona. Zomwe ndinazitcha chipwirikiti zone. Ndikuganiza kuti ndinaganiza zoti ndipirire, koma kunena zoona, sindikumbukira kuti ndinasankha kuchita zimenezi.
Ndipo ndikuganiza kuti ndangopanga chisankho kuti ndipitirize kukondana.
Nthawi zina zimakhala zosavuta, nthawi zina osati nkomwe. Mwamuna wanga akadwala chimfine kapena akapsa ndi dzuwa, amabuula n’kumadandaula kuti ndiyenera kuchita khama kuti ndisamuphe.
Ndinangopanga chisankho kuti ndipitirize kukondana
Chikondi ndi alchemy, kutanthauza kuti ndi sayansi. Ndilo lingaliro langa.
Koma ngati mukufuna lamulo limodzi, ndiye apa. Ngakhale atatu:
1. Mwamuna wanu ayenera kukusekani - osachepera - kamodzi pa sabata.
2. Ayenera kukubweretserani khofi - osachepera - kumapeto kwa sabata.
3. Ziyenera kukupangitsani kumva ngati "Damn, ndimakukondani!" - kamodzi pamwezi.
Ndipo zingakhale bwino ngati mutakhala ndi ... ayi, osati kugonana, koma mphindi zachikondi. Pali kusiyana.
Koma inu mukudziwa, ine ndinakuuzani kale inu, ine sindikumvetsa chinthu choipa pa izo.
Ingokondani momwe mungathere ndikuyesera kupanga mawa kukhala abwinoko.