Kodi ndinu munthu wongolankhula kapena wongolankhula? Kodi simukudzizindikira nokha m'mikhalidwe iyi? Mutha kukhumudwa.

Pofalitsidwa kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 2010, mawu akuti ambiversion amatanthauza anthu omwe sali owonetsa kapena osalankhula, koma osakaniza awiriwo. Munthu wosinthika yemwe angaimire unyinji wa anthu.

Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, makhalidwe aumunthu adagawidwa m'magulu awiri: extroverts ndi introverts. Mfundo ziwiri zomwe zinayambika kumayambiriro kwa zaka za m'ma 1920 ndi katswiri wa zamaganizo wa ku Swiss Carl Gustav Jung m'buku lake lakuti Psychological Types (ed. Georg).

Ambiversion imapereka malingaliro atsopano pa mikhalidwe ya umunthu. Munthu wodzimva ali pakati pa malingaliro awiri omwe aperekedwa ndi Dr. Carl Gustav Jung. Iye ndi wochezeka komanso wodzidzimutsa.

Makamaka osinthika komanso osinthika, anthuwa ndi okhoza kuposa ena kumvetsetsa anthu ndikuzolowera momwe amakhalira.

Anali katswiri wa zamaganizo komanso pulezidenti wakale wa American Sociological Association Kimball Young amene poyamba anagwiritsa ntchito mawu oti "ambivert" mu Source Book for Social Psychology (ed. Forgotten Books) lofalitsidwa mu 1927.

Mawuwa adawonekeranso mu 2013 mu kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi Adam Grant, wofufuza pa yunivesite ya Wharton ku Pennsylvania ndipo adasindikizidwa mu nyuzipepala ya Psychological Science. Pambuyo poyang'anitsitsa mozama antchito odzipereka a 340, kafukufukuyu akutsindika mfundo yakuti "ambivertes amapindula kwambiri ndi malonda kusiyana ndi extroverts kapena introverts" choncho angakhale ogulitsa bwino. Okhoza kusintha, angakhalenso osavuta kuphunzira, mosasamala kanthu za msinkhu kapena mlingo wa kuphunzira.

"Mwachibadwa amakhala ndi njira yosinthika yolankhulirana ndi kumvetsera, ambiverts amatha kusonyeza kudzidalira kokwanira ndi chikhumbo chokopa ndi kutseka malonda koma amakonda kumvetsera zofuna za makasitomala awo ndipo samawoneka okondwa kwambiri kapena odzikuza. ”, tsatanetsatane wa Adam Grant muzomaliza za phunziro lake.

Ngati umunthu woyezedwa wa ambivertes ukuwoneka kuti ukupereka zabwino zonse pazantchito komanso pamunthu, wofufuzayo amatsindikanso zovuta zomwe anthuwa amakumana nazo nthawi zambiri kuti azindikire magwero awo osiyanasiyana.

Mtolankhani waku America komanso mlembi Daniel Pink wapanga mayeso a mafunso makumi awiri kukulolani kuti muwerengere kuchuluka kwa zomwe mumafuna poyankha ndi: zabodza kwathunthu, zabodza, zandale, m'malo mwake kuvomereza, kuvomereza kwathunthu. Mwa mfundo zomwe zatchulidwa, tingatchule makamaka:

• Kodi ndimakonda kukopa chidwi changa?
• Kodi ndimamva bwino pagulu ndipo ndimakonda kugwira ntchito pagulu?
• Kodi ndili ndi luso lomvetsera bwino?
• Kodi ndimakonda kukhala chete ndikakhala ndi anthu osawadziwa?

Ma Ambivertes amatha kusuntha pakati pa zizolowezi zachirengedwe za introverts ndi extroverts, kutengera momwe zinthu ziliri kapena momwe akumvera.

Kulingalira makhalidwe m'magulu awiri apadera - extraversion ndi introversion - kungakhale ngati kuyang'ana maganizo m'njira ziwiri. Umunthu uliwonse umadzazidwa ndi ma nuances a introversion ndi extraversion omwe amasinthasintha malinga ndi nthawi zosiyanasiyana za moyo wathu.

Mu 1920, m'buku lake lakuti Psychological Types, Carl Gustav Jung anasiyanitsa kale mitundu 16 yamaganizo yomwe imatanthauzidwa malinga ndi chidziwitso chodziwika bwino - lingaliro, intuition, kumverera, kutengeka - ndi maonekedwe a munthu. “Palibe chinthu chonga munthu wongolankhula mopanda tsankho kapena wongopeka. Munthu woteroyo amaweruzidwa kuti awononge moyo wake kumalo opulumukira, ”adatsindika.

Ndiye kodi tonse ndife ambiverts? Mwina. M’zambiri za Wall Street Journal, Adam Grant, akuyerekezera kuti theka, ngakhale aŵiri mwa magawo atatu alionse a anthu sangamve chisoni. M’nkhani yomwe inafalitsidwa patsamba lake, Florence Servan-Schreiber, yemwe anamaliza maphunziro a psychology ndi maphunziro a Neuro Linguistic Programming, anafotokoza kuti: “Aliyense adzaphunzira kudzisamalira mogwirizana ndi khalidwe lake. Ndipo nthawi zina mitanda ndi zosakaniza zimakhala pamodzi. Umu ndi momwe ndimakonda kugwira ntchito ndekha, mukukhala chete m'chipinda chofunda masiku ano, koma ndimakonda kulankhula pamaso pa chipinda chodzaza ndi nkhope zosadziwika. ”