Anthu oganiza bwino a ku Girisi wakale, monga Plato, Epictetus, Aristotle ndi ena, anaphunzitsa nzeru zozama za moyo, zomwe zidakali zofunika lero. Malo akunja ndi mikhalidwe yasintha kwambiri m’zaka zikwi zapitazo, koma m’mbali zambiri anthu akhalabe ofanana. Kudzudzula kolimbikitsa kuyenera kuonedwa mozama. Komabe, kunyalanyaza komwe kumakuchitikirani nthawi zambiri sikumakhudzana ndi inu. Nthaŵi zambiri, kuphulika koipa ndi chizindikiro cha maganizo oipa a munthuyo mwiniwake, tsiku loipa kapena ngakhale chaka, zomwe zimakupangitsani kufuna kuzichotsa kwa ena. Madandaulo, madandaulo ndi malingaliro oyipa omwe ena amafalitsa kudziko lapansi amalankhula za moyo wawo komanso kudzidziwitsa okha m'moyo uno, koma osati za inu. Vuto ndilakuti nthawi zambiri timangoganizira za moyo wathu kotero kuti timatengera chilichonse chomwe chimanenedwa kwa ife payekha. Koma dziko silimazungulira inu kapena ine. Kumbukirani izi pamene mukukumana ndi malingaliro okhudza maganizo anu.
Ndipo, chofunika kwambiri, kumbukirani nthawi zonse pamene mukumva chikhumbo chachikulu chochotsera mkwiyo wanu pa munthu wina. Dzifunseni kuti vuto lanu m'moyo ndi chiyani lomwe limayambitsa chosowa pamwambapa. Munthu akamayesa kudzionetsera popondereza ena, m’pamenenso munthu woteroyo amakhala wosasangalala m’moyo wake. Nthawi zonse timafuna chinachake. Galimoto yatsopano, ntchito yatsopano, ubale watsopano kapena, corny, nsapato zatsopano. Ndi kangati timaganiza kuti: "Ndikadangosamukira kudziko lina, kukwatiwa, kugula nyumba yatsopano, ndiye kuti ndikanakhala wokondwa kwambiri ndipo zonse zikhala bwino!". Ndipo, nthawi zambiri zimachitika, zimabwera m'moyo wanu. Moyo ndiwokongola! Koma, kwa kanthawi. Timayamba kuganiza kuti mwina chinachake chalakwika. Monga kuti kukwaniritsidwa kwa maloto sikunafikire ziyembekezo zomwe tidaziyika, kapena mwina adangowonjezera kufunika kochulukirapo. Nchifukwa chiyani izi zikuchitika? Patapita kanthawi, timazolowera chilichonse. Zonse zomwe tapeza ndikupeza zimakhala zachilendo komanso zodziwonetsera tokha. Panthawiyi, timayamba kufuna zambiri. Kuphatikiza apo, zochitika zomwe tikufuna, zinthu ndi anthu zitha kubwera m'miyoyo yathu ... ndi "zotsatira" zosayembekezereka. M'malo mwake, ntchito yatsopano yomwe mukufuna ikhoza kutayika kwa mabwana akale okhwima mopambanitsa, mnzawo watsopanoyo amawulula mikhalidwe yosasangalatsa, ndikusamukira ku kontinenti ina kusiya okondedwa awo. Komabe, sikuti zonse zimakhala zomvetsa chisoni, ndipo kusintha kwa moyo nthawi zambiri kumabweretsa zabwino. Komabe, munthu sayenera kuganiza kuti malo atsopano, munthu, etc. wokhoza kuthetsa mavuto anu onse ndikukusangalatsani. Kulitsani kuyamikira kowona mtima ndi malingaliro abwino pa mphindi yomwe ilipo. M'moyo wathu, timaphunzira zambiri zambiri, timakhala ndi malingaliro osiyanasiyana ogometsa malinga ndi zomwe takumana nazo. Nthawi zina zikhulupiriro izi, zomwe zimakhazikika mwa ife komanso zomwe timakhala omasuka nazo, sizitichitira zabwino. Timamamatira kwa iwo chifukwa ndi chizolowezi ndipo "takhala motere kwa zaka zambiri, mwinanso zaka zambiri." Chinanso n’chakuti sikophweka nthaŵi zonse kuzindikira zizoloŵezi ndi zikhulupiriro zimene zimalepheretsa chitukuko. Zomwe zidakuthandizani kale ndikukugwirani ntchito nthawi zina zimataya kufunikira kwake muzochitika zatsopano. Pamene mukukula, muyenera kusiya zakale ndi chithunzi cha "I" wakale kuti mupite patsogolo. Ndikofunikira kuti muthe kusefa chidziwitso chofunikira pakati pa chidziwitso chosatha chomwe chimaperekedwa kwa ife. Sinthani chidziwitso chomwe mwapeza kuti chigwirizane ndi inu komanso zenizeni zanu. Agiriki akale ankadziwa kuti munthu amasankha kukhala wosangalala, mofanana ndi kuvutika. Mmene mukumvera zimadalira zimene mukuganiza. Chimodzi mwa zizindikiro za aerobatics ndikutha kulamulira chisangalalo ndi kuvutika. Mfundo imodzi yothandiza ndiyo kuphunzira kukhalapo pakali pano mmene ndingathere. Kumlingo waukulu, kuvutika kumachitika pamene malingaliro alunjika ku zakale kapena zamtsogolo zomwe sizinachitike. Kuphatikiza apo, muyenera kudzikumbutsa kuti sindinu malingaliro ndi malingaliro anu. Amangodutsa mwa inu, koma si inu.