M'nthawi yathu ino, pamene aliyense akufuna kupeza mwamsanga mphindi 15 za kutchuka ndi kugunda dziko lapansi, wolemba mabulogu Mark Manson analemba nyimbo ya mediocrity. N’cifukwa ciani kusamuthandiza?
Chochititsa chidwi: sitingachite popanda zithunzi za ngwazi zapamwamba. Agiriki ndi Aroma akale anali ndi nthano zonena za anthu omwe amatha kutsutsa milungu ndi kuchita zozizwitsa. M'zaka zapakati ku Ulaya kunali nkhani za asilikali opanda mantha kapena chitonzo, kupha zinjoka ndi kupulumutsa mafumu. Chikhalidwe chilichonse chimakhala ndi nkhani zoterezi.
Masiku ano timalimbikitsidwa ndi akatswiri odziwika bwino m'mabuku azithunzithunzi. Tengani Superman. Uyu ndi mulungu m'mawonekedwe aumunthu mu mathalauza a buluu ndi akabudula ofiira, ovala pamwamba. Iye ndi wosagonjetseka ndipo sangafe. M’maganizo, iye ndi wangwiro mofanana ndi thupi. M'dziko lake, zabwino ndi zoipa ndizosiyana monga zoyera ndi zakuda, ndipo Superman sanalakwe.
Ndingayesere kunena kuti tikufunika ngwazi izi kuti tilimbane ndi malingaliro osowa chochita. Pali anthu 7,2 biliyoni padziko lapansi, ndipo pafupifupi 1000 okha ndi omwe ali ndi mphamvu padziko lonse lapansi nthawi iliyonse. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mbiri ya anthu 7 otsalawo mwina sizitanthauza kanthu m'mbiri, ndipo izi sizophweka kuvomereza.
Kotero ine ndikufuna kumvetsera ku mediocrity. Osati monga cholinga: tonsefe tiyenera kuyesetsa kuti tipeze zabwino, koma monga luso lotha kugwirizana ndi mfundo yakuti tidzakhalabe anthu wamba, ngakhale titayesetsa bwanji. Moyo ndi kunyengerera. Winawake amalipidwa ndi luntha la maphunziro. Ena ndi amphamvu mwakuthupi, ena amalenga. Winawake ndi achigololo. Inde, kupambana kumadalira khama, koma timabadwa ndi kuthekera kosiyana ndi luso.
Kuti mupambane pa chinthu china, muyenera kudzipereka nthawi yanu yonse ndi mphamvu zanu, ndipo izi ndizochepa.
Aliyense ali ndi mphamvu ndi zofooka zake. Koma zambiri zimawonetsa zotsatira zapakati m'malo ambiri. Ngakhale mutakhala ndi luso pa chinachake—masamu, kudumpha zingwe, kapena malonda a zida zankhondo mobisa—kupanda kutero, mwachiwonekere ndinu wapakati kapena wocheperapo.
Kuti mupambane pa chinachake, muyenera kuthera nthawi yanu yonse ndi mphamvu zanu zonse, ndipo ndizochepa. Choncho, owerengeka okha ndi apadera m’gawo limene asankha, osatchula madera angapo nthawi imodzi.
Palibe munthu m'modzi Padziko lapansi yemwe angapambane m'mbali zonse za moyo, ndizosatheka powerengera. Supermen kulibe. Amalonda opambana nthawi zambiri alibe moyo waumwini, akatswiri a dziko samalemba mapepala a sayansi. Ambiri mwa akatswiri amalonda alibe malo awoawo ndipo amakonda kuzolowera. Ambiri a ife ndi anthu wamba kotheratu. Timadziwa, koma nthawi zambiri sitiganiza kapena kulankhula za izo.
Ambiri sadzachita chilichonse chodziwika bwino. Ndipo izo ziri bwino! Ambiri amawopa kuvomereza zapakati pawo, chifukwa amakhulupirira kuti mwanjira imeneyi sangakwaniritse chilichonse ndipo moyo wawo udzataya tanthauzo lake.
Ngati mumayesetsa kukhala wotchuka kwambiri, mudzavutika ndi kusungulumwa.
Ndikuganiza kuti iyi ndi njira yowopsa yoganizira. Ngati zikuwoneka kwa inu kuti moyo wowala komanso wopambana ndi woyenera kukhala, muli panjira yoterera. Kuchokera pamalingaliro awa, aliyense wodutsa mumakumana naye alibe kanthu.
Komabe, anthu ambiri amaganiza mosiyana. Iwo amadandaula kuti: “Ndikasiya kukhulupirira kuti sindili ngati munthu wina aliyense, sindingakwanitse kuchita chilichonse. Sindidzalimbikitsidwa kugwira ntchito ndekha. Ndibwino kuganiza kuti ndine m'modzi mwa ochepa omwe angasinthe dziko. "
Ngati mukufuna kukhala wanzeru komanso wopambana kuposa ena, nthawi zonse mumadzimva ngati wolephera. Ndipo ngati mumayesetsa kukhala wotchuka kwambiri, mudzavutika ndi kusungulumwa. Ngati mumalota mphamvu zopanda malire, mudzavutika ndi kufooka.
Mawu akuti “aliyense ndi wanzeru mwanjira inayake” amakopa kupanda pake kwathu. Ndi chakudya chofulumira chamalingaliro - chokoma koma chopanda thanzi, chopanda kanthu chomwe chimakupangitsani kumva kuti muli ndi nkhawa.
Njira yopezera thanzi labwino, komanso thanzi lakuthupi, limayamba ndi zakudya zabwino. Saladi yowala "Ndine munthu wamba padziko lapansi" komanso broccoli kwa banja "Moyo wanga ndi wofanana ndi wina aliyense." Inde, zosakoma. Ndikufuna kulavula nthawi yomweyo.
Koma ngati mungagayike, thupi limakhala lolimba komanso lopanda mphamvu. Kupsyinjika, nkhawa, chilakolako chofuna kuchita zinthu mwangwiro chidzatha ndipo mudzatha kuchita zomwe mumakonda popanda kudzidzudzula komanso kuyembekezera zinthu zambiri.
Mudzasangalala ndi zinthu zosavuta, phunzirani kuyeza moyo pamlingo wina: kukumana ndi bwenzi, kuwerenga buku lomwe mumakonda, kuyenda paki, nthabwala yabwino ...
Ndi bore bwanji, chabwino? Ndipotu, aliyense wa ife ali nazo. Koma mwina ndi chinthu chabwino. Kupatula apo, izi ndizofunikira.