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Ulamuliro: Malangizo kwa Abambo
Kupititsa patsogolo chitukuko ndi kumanga kwa mwana wanu, choyamba ndikofunikira kumupatsa malo okhazikika, achikondi ndi otetezeka. Kusewera naye, kumusonyeza chidwi, kuthera nthawi yocheza naye, kukulitsa chidaliro ndi kudzidalira kwa mwana wanu, ndiyo mbali ya “atate bwenzi”. Mwanjira imeneyi, mwana wanu adzaphunzira kukhala wodzidalira, wodzilemekeza yekha ndi ena. Mwana yemwe ali ndi maonekedwe abwino adzapeza kukhala kosavuta kukulitsa malingaliro omasuka, chifundo, chisamaliro kwa ena, makamaka ana ena. Musanadzitsimikizire nokha, muyeneranso kudzidziwa bwino ndikudzivomereza nokha momwe muliri, ndi luso lanu, zofooka zanu ndi zolakwa zanu. Muyenera kulimbikitsa kufotokozera zakukhosi kwake ndikuwonetsa zokonda zake. Muyeneranso kumulola kuti akhale ndi zokumana nazo zake polimbikitsa chidwi chake, ludzu lake lofuna kupeza zinthu, kumuphunzitsa kuchita zinthu mopanda malire, komanso kumuphunzitsa kuvomereza zolakwa zake ndi zofooka zake.
Ulamuliro: khalani ndi malire oyenera komanso osasinthasintha
Nthawi yomweyo, ndikofunikira kuyang'ana malire oyenera komanso ogwirizana ndikukhala mosalekeza ndi okhazikika pa mfundo zina zosatsutsika, makamaka ponena za chitetezo (kukhala m’mbali mwa mayendedwe), ulemu (kunena moni, kutsazikana, zikomo), ukhondo (kusamba m’manja musanadye kapena mukapita kuchimbudzi), malamulo a moyo m’chitaganya (musalembe). Ndi mbali ya “abambo abwana”. Masiku ano, maphunziro sali okhwimitsa zinthu ngati mmene analili m’badwo kapena iŵiri zapitazo, koma kulolera mopambanitsa kwasonyeza malire ake, ndipo kukudzudzulidwa mowonjezereka. Choncho tiyenera kupeza sing'anga wosangalala. Kuika zoletsa, kufotokoza momveka bwino chomwe chiri chabwino kapena choipa, kumapatsa mwana wanu zizindikiro ndikumulola kuti adzipange yekha. Makolo amene amawopa kukhala okhwimitsa zinthu kwambiri kapena amene samakana mwana wawo kalikonse, kaamba ka kumasuka kapena chifukwa chakuti sapezeka kwenikweni, sapangitsa ana awo kukhala achimwemwe.
Ulamuliro: Malangizo 10 othandiza kukuthandizani tsiku lililonse
Gwiritsani ntchito mphamvu zanu kuti mukwaniritse zomwe zili zofunika kwambiri kwa inu (perekani dzanja lanu kuti liwoloke, nenani zikomo) ndipo musakhale osasunthika pazotsalazo (mwachitsanzo, kudya ndi zala zanu). Ngati mumaumirira kwambiri, mungathe kufooketsa mwana wanu yemwe angadzichepetse podziona kuti sangathe kukukhutiritsani.
Nthawi zonse mufotokozere mwana wanu malamulowo. Chomwe chimapangitsa kusiyana pakati pa ulamuliro wachikale wa authoritarianism ndi chilango choyenera ndi chakuti malamulo amatha kufotokozedwa kwa mwanayo ndikumveka. Tengani nthawi yofotokozera, m'mawu osavuta, malamulo ndi malire okhala ndi zotsatira zomveka za chinthu chilichonse. Mwachitsanzo: “Ngati susamba tsopano, uyenera kuzichita nthawi ina, nthawi isanakwane ndipo sitidzakhala ndi nthawi yowerenga nkhani.” Mukapanda kuwoloka msewu, galimoto ikhoza kukugundani. Sindingafune kuti vuto lililonse likuchitikire chifukwa ndimakukonda kwambiri. Mukachotsa zidole m'manja mwa kamtsikana kameneka, sadzafunanso kusewera nanu. “
Phunziraninso kulolera : “Chabwino, simukuika zoseŵeretsa zanu pano, koma muyenera kuchita zimenezo musanagone. Ana amasiku ano amapereka maganizo awo, yesetsani kukambirana. Ayenera kuganiziridwa, koma ndithudi zili kwa makolo kukhazikitsa ndondomeko ndikusankha ngati njira yomaliza.
Imani nji. Kuti mwanayo amalakwira, ndi zachilendo: amayesa makolo ake. Mwa kusamvera, amatsimikizira kuti chimango chilipo. Ngati makolowo achitapo kanthu mwamphamvu, zinthu zidzabwerera mwakale.
Lemekezani mawu operekedwa kwa mwana wanu : zimene zanenedwa ziyenera kuchitidwa, kaya ndi malipiro kapena kulandidwa.
Patulani chidwi chake, mpatseni ntchito ina, chododometsa china akalimbikira kukukwiyitsani pa chiopsezo chopondapo kapena kukulozani kutsekereza kosabala.
Mutamandeni ndi kumulimbikitsa pamene achita monga mwa malamulo anu a makhalidwe, kumsonyeza iye chivomerezo chanu. Izi zidzalimbitsa mtima wawo wodzidalira, zomwe zidzawathandiza kuti azitha kupirira nthawi zina zokhumudwitsa kapena zokhumudwitsa.
Limbikitsani misonkhano ndi ana ena amsinkhu wake. Ndi njira yabwino kukulitsa kucheza kwanu, komanso kumuwonetsa kuti ana ena, nawonso, ayenera kutsatira malamulo omwe makolo awo amawakhazikitsa.
Khalani oleza mtima, khalani okhazikika komanso olekerera kukumbukira kuti nawenso unali mwana wouma khosi. Pomaliza, tsimikizirani kuti mukuchita zonse zomwe mungathe ndipo kumbukirani kuti mwana wanu akudziwa bwino za chikondi chimene mumamukonda.
umboni
“Kunyumba, timagawana ulamuliro, aliyense m’njira yakeyake. Ine sindine wolamulira mwankhanza, koma inde, ndikhoza kukhala wolamulira. pamene muyenera kukweza mawu anu kapena kuyiyika pakona, ndimatero. Ine sindiri konse mu kulolerana kopanda malire. pamfundoyi, ndikadali wochokera kusukulu yakale. ” Florian, bambo a Ettan, wazaka 5, ndi Emmie, wazaka 1