Zamkatimu
Ndiyenera kukhala mayi, ndi wamphamvu kuposa ine
“Sindinathe kufotokoza kwenikweni chifukwa chake ndi liti, koma ndikudziwa kuti ndakhala ndikufuna kukhala ndi ana. Mulimonsemo, ndi chinthu chomwe sichinandiwopsyezepo. Ndimakhulupiriranso kuti ndikanakhala ndi mwana ndekha kapena kumulera. Kupatula apo, ndi njira ina yoyambira banja pomwe sunapeze munthu woyenera. Payekha, ndinali ndi kufunikira kokhala mayi (ndikali nako), kupatsirana zinthu ndi kupereka chikondi. Mwina zimalumikizidwanso ndikuti nthawi zonse ndimakonda ana, aang'ono, ndimakondanso misasa yachilimwe ndipo ndimakumbukira kuti ndimakonda kwambiri ana azaka 4-5. Pambuyo, chikhumbo ichi cha mwana chinatsimikiziridwa ndi kukwaniritsidwa pamene ndinakumana ndi mwamuna wanga. Kwa ife, zinali zoonekeratu, kotero kuti ndinasiya mapiritsi tsiku lotsatira chikwati changa. Tikufuna banja lalikulu, ana 3, 4. Ndikupeza kuti pali chinachake chokongola m'mabanja akuluakulu, ndife ogwirizana kwambiri. Koma pakadali pano, sizinayambike bwino: Ndili ndi kamnyamata kakang'ono wazaka pafupifupi 2 ndipo patha pafupifupi chaka tikuyesera kukhala ndi mwana wachiŵiri. Chithandizo chamankhwala chimakhala ndi zotsatira zopotoka izi chikhumbo changa chokhala mwana chawonjezeka kakhumi ndipo nthawi zina amakhala otengeka makamaka atsikana akakhala ndi mimba. Ndine wosaleza mtima, kumbali imodzi chifukwa ndakhala ndikumwa jekeseni mobwerezabwereza ndi ultrasound ndipo, kumbali ina, chifukwa ndikufuna mwana uyu. Sindingathe kukhala ndi mwana mmodzi yekha. ”
Laura
Imfa ya makolo anga inayambitsa chikhumbo changa chokhala ndi mwana
“Sindinali kamtsikana kosewera ndi zidole, ndinalibe chidwi kwenikweni ndi ana. Ndikukhulupirira kuti imfa ya makolo anga ndi imene inayambitsa chikhumbo changa chofuna kukhala ndi banja, kuti ndikonzenso zimene ndinataya. Ndinkafuna ngakhale kuchita bwino, kutsimikizira kwa omwe anali pafupi nane kuti ndinali wokhoza kukhala ndi ana, ana ambiri (tinali awiri a ife ndi mlongo wanga). Ndili ndi ana aakazi atatu akuluakulu, koma moyo wachititsa kuti ana awiri amwalira, mwana wamwamuna wa miyezi 9 ndi mwana wamkazi pafupifupi m'chiberekero. Mwanayu atamwalira, ndimakumbukira kuti ndinapempha dokotala wachikazi kuti amange machubu anga. Anakana, akundiuza kuti ndinali wamng’ono. Anali wolondola chifukwa patangopita chaka chimodzi, ndinabereka mwana wanga wachitatu. Chodabwitsa n’chakuti, zochitika ziŵiri zomvetsa chisonizi sizinafooketse chikhumbo changa chokhala ndi mwana. Ndikuganiza kuti ndili ndi kulimba mtima ndi kuti chikhumbo changa chokhala amayi chinali champhamvu nthawi zonse kuposa kuvutika kwanga, ngakhale kwakukulu bwanji. ”
Evelyn