Ndinali ndi zosemphana ndi umuna wa mwamuna wanga (mwachitsanzo, mamina anga anali kuwononga umuna wa mnzanga.) Pambuyo pa insemination kasanu ndi kawiri ndipo katatu analephera IVFs, mphunzitsi anatilangiza kuti tisiye chifukwa, monga anandiuza ine chotero “diplomatically” ndinalibenso china choti ndipereke.
Tinatembenukira ku kulera ndipo tinali okondwa, titatha zaka zinayi ndikudikirira, kukhala ndi mwana wa miyezi itatu. Zinali zodabwitsa kwambiri kuti ndinakhala ndi msambo kwa miyezi iwiri kenako kutha kwa mwezi umodzi… Komabe, miyezi khumi ndi isanu kuchokera pamene mwana wanga wamng’ono anabadwa, ndinatenga pathupi…! lero mayi anadzazidwa ndi ana awiri kolakalakika: Brice pang'ono miyezi 3 ndi Marie wamng'ono wa 2 miyezi ndi 34 milungu. Brice anandipanga ine amayi ndi Marie mkazi. Bwalo latha.
LDCs si mankhwala. Ndizovuta, zotopetsa (mwakuthupi ndi m'maganizo) ndipo magulu azachipatala nthawi zambiri amasowa psychology. Kwa iwonso ndi kulephera pamene sunapambane ndipo amakupangitsa kumva. Ndiye ikagwira ntchito, timati ndiyabwino, koma mwatsoka sitilankhula mokwanira za chess! Komanso, mwamsanga amakhala ngati mankhwala: n'zovuta kusiya. Ndalankhula ndi amayi ena omwe adakhalapo ndipo adamvanso chimodzimodzi. Timafuna kuti zigwire ntchito moipa kwambiri moti timangoganiza za izo.
Payekha, ndinali ndi malingaliro odziimba mlandu, ndinamva "zachilendo". Ndizovuta kuti anthu amvetse, koma ndinadana ndi thupi ili lomwe silinali kuchita zomwe ndinkafuna. Ndikuganiza kuti tiyang'ane vutoli, chifukwa ndimakondabe kuti amayi ambiri amalephera kubereka ngakhale kuti alibe kanthu pa thupi. Madokotala monga momwe odwala awo amathamangira mofulumira kwambiri pamankhwala. Pankhani ya chikondi chimene munthu angakhale nacho pa mwana wake, kulera kapena kubereka n’chimodzimodzi. Kwa ine Brice adzakhalabe CHIZIKIZO nthawi zonse.
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