Chikondwerero cha kubadwa kosabadwa ndi mwambo wakale kwambiri m’mayiko ambiri. Ku United States, Amwenye Achinavajo, mwachitsanzo, anachipanga kukhala mwambo weniweni wodutsa. Zochepa zauzimu, kusamba kwa ana komwe tonse tikudziwa kunaphulika ku United States pambuyo pa nkhondo yachiwiri ya padziko lonse, panthawi ya kubadwa kwa ana.

Ku France, chodabwitsachi sichikhala ndi sikelo yofanana ndi ya ku United States, koma ikukula kwambiri. Pang'onopang'ono koma motsimikizika. Kusamba kwa abambo kumakhala kocheperako, ngakhale kukukula, kutsatira chitsanzo cha America.

Kukhala kholo ndi imodzi mwa nthawi zosaiwalika m'moyo, zomwe ndizofunikira kuchita chikondwerero. Ikhoza kukonzedwa kwa mwana woyamba komanso otsatirawa. Kupatula apo, kusintha kumeneku ndi chifukwa chabwino chochitira phwando.

Chifukwa chiyani abambo asamba?

Ntchito ya kusamba kwa abambo ndikukondwerera abambo amtsogolo, kugawana chisangalalo chake, kupulumutsa (kwa omwe adakhalapo kale) upangiri wa akatswiri, kuthetsa mantha aliwonse. Ambiri amatenganso mwayi wobetcha dzina la khanda kapena jenda. Kupatula apo, ikhoza kukhala mphindi yowulula ngati mukuyembekezera mwana wamwamuna kapena wamkazi.

Nthawi zambiri imakonzedwa mwezi umodzi kapena iwiri mwana waumulungu asanabwere. Koma ena amakonda kuchita maphwando akabadwa, makamaka amene amakhulupirira malodza. Ikhoza kukonzedwa ndi abambo kapena zodabwitsa zomwe achibale ake, abwenzi, ogwira nawo ntchito, kapena achibale ake amamupatsa. Ngati ndizodabwitsa, ndi bwino kuti amayi adziwe.

Phwando likhoza kukhala laling'ono, lopanda ulemu, kapena lokonzekera motsatira malamulo a luso, ndi kunyada kwakukulu. Choncho amafuna zambiri kapena zochepa kukonzekera. Ena amalinganizanso mapeto a mlungu ndi mabwenzi a ku mbali ina ya dziko kaamba ka chochitika chimenechi.

Kusankha mutu 

Muyenera kuyamba ndi kusankha mutu. Tsamba la joliebabyshower.com limapereka zitsanzo chikwi chimodzi:

• Bambi;
• Kalonga Wamng'ono;
• Mfumukazi;
• Mutu wokhala ndi mitundu: yoyera ndi golide, timbewu tonunkhira ndi ofiirira, etc.;
• Chipale chofewa ndi ma flakes, mitambo ndi nyenyezi, etc. 

Chipinda chokongoletsera

Mutu ukasankhidwa, zokongoletsera zidzakonzedwa moyenerera. Konzani ma baluni, mabuloni ambiri. "Ndi mtsikana" kapena "Ndi mnyamata" garlands, pacifiers, nyali, buluu kapena pinki confetti… Khalani luso.

Buffet ya chochitikacho

Zoonadi, padzakhala chinachake choti mudye. Nthawi zambiri zotsekemera (zosunga maswiti, makeke) ndi mbali yamchere yokhala ndi tchizi kapena mbale zozizira nthawi zonse zimakhala zosavuta kukonzekera komanso zothandiza. Ditto kwa barbecue. M'pofunikanso kupereka zakumwa, kuti palibe amene amatha kutaya madzi m'thupi.

Kodi kusamba kwa abambo ndikoletsedwa kwa amayi?

Palibe malamulo, zili ndi inu. Pomaliza, musaiwale kamera, kuti immortalize mphindi izi.

Tinabwera ku shower ya abambo kuti tisangalale. Palibe funso lodziona kukhala wofunika kwambiri.

Ntchito yabwino kwambiri? “Sinthani thewera la chidole mwachangu momwe mungathere”. Maphunziro abwino kwa miyezi ikubwerayi. Mwachiwonekere sizovomerezeka kuti mayi wapakati azisewera basketball, koma ndiyabwino kwa mtsogolo bambo. Ndi masewera olimbitsa thupi abwino, osangalatsa kwa onse onyansa omwe matewera akutaya zinyalala zomwe mudzafunika kuzipeza m'miyezi ingapo ikubwerayi.

Masewera ena otchuka

Lembani mabotolo a ana ndi madzi kapena madzi a zipatso. Munthu woyamba kukhuthula botolo lake amapambana. Kapena konzani mpikisano wa stroller ndi maso otseka, kapena kuponyera mu matewera onyowa. Mukhozanso kufunsa mlendo aliyense kuti abweretse chithunzi chake kapena chaching'ono chake. Bambo amtsogolo adzayenera kupeza yemwe ndi ndani.

Kusamba kwa abambo mwachiwonekere ndi mwayi wosambitsa bambo amtsogolo ndi mphatso. Pali malo ambiri omwe amapereka malingaliro, okondedwa omwe alibe kudzoza adzapeza malingaliro chikwi chimodzi cha mphatso.

Pano pali chitsanzo cha mphatso yomwe ndizotheka kupeza "Chida Chopulumukira kwa abambo amtsogolo", momwe mukuitanidwa kuti mutengere zodabwitsa zambiri "kumuthandiza kukhala woleza mtima: mipango, chinachake choti mudye, mawu ophatikizika , kusintha kwa makina a khofi, paracetamol… ”Kuti mukhale apamwamba kwambiri, muthanso kupereka zovala zamwana. Kwa mbali yake, abambo amtsogolo amathanso kuthokoza alendo ake chifukwa chobwera ndi mphatso yaying'ono.