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1,5% ya abambo okhala kunyumba ku France
Abambo asanu ndi awiri mwa khumi amatenga awo Paternity leave ku France. Kumbali ina, ndi ochepa chabe amene amasankha kusiya ntchito kwa masiku oposa 11 kuti asamalire ana awo mlungu wonse. Chifukwa chake, 4% yokha ya amuna amawonjezera tchuthi chawo cha abambo kuti atenge maphunziro a makolo tchuthi. Ndipo malinga ndi INSEE, chiwerengero cha abambo okhala pakhomo (yomwe imatchedwa PAF) imagwera ku 1,5%! Ndipo komabe, malinga ndi kafukufuku wopangidwa ndi Sarenza mu 2015 (1), 65% ya amuna adzakhala okonzeka kukhala amuna kunyumba. Zoipa kwambiri ndi ochepa kuti angayerekeze. Makamaka pamene mukudziwa momwe zimakhalira zovuta kuti amayi apeze moyo wokwanira wantchito, chifukwa cha kusowa kwa malo osungira anazale, kukayikira kwa makampani kupanga maola awo kukhala osinthika kapena kupereka chithandizo cha telefoni. Nchiyani chikulepheretsa abambo kusankha ana pa ofesi? Mantha osachita bwino. Malinga ndi kafukufuku yemwe Sarenza adachita, 40% yaiwo amawopa kukhala otopa kunyumba kapena sakumva kuti sangathe kuchita chilichonse ...
Njira yoyenera kuti mupindule kwambiri ndi ana anu
Mkangano umene abambo otsalira kunyumba amathetsa mwamsanga. Rieg ali ndi zaka 37. Anasiya ntchito yake kuti asamalire 100% ya mwana wake wachiwiri kwa chaka chimodzi, ndipo sanathe miyezi 12 akungoyendayenda, kutali ndi izo… Analankhula moseka: “Ndinatha kumvetsetsa moyo watsiku ndi tsiku wa mkazi wanga. ! »Ndipo malizitsani« Ndi mphindi yapadera komanso yamphamvu, muyenera kukhala nayo mokwanira. M’mbuyomo, ndinkatha nthaŵi yochepa ndi mwana wanga wamkazi wa chaka chimodzi, ndipo titakhala panyumba kwa masiku angapo, tinatha kuyambiranso kugwirizana kwenikweni. Koma kusankha kukhala panyumba kwa abambo nakonso nthawi zina kumayankha a mfundo zachuma. Ulova kapena malipiro otsika kwambiri kuposa a amayi angapangitse okwatirana kudzilinganiza okha m’njira imeneyi ndipo m’kati mwake amasunga ndalama zolerera ana ndi mbali ina ya misonkho. Pankhaniyi, samalani ndi zokhumudwitsa, chifukwa kuyang'anira moyo wa tsiku ndi tsiku wa ana kumafuna mphamvu ndi kuleza mtima kwakukulu maola 24 pa tsiku. Ndipo zopuma ndi RTT kulibe!
Malangizo oti mukhale bambo osangalala kunyumba
Benjamin Buhot, yemwe amadziwikanso kuti Till the Cat, wolemba mabulogu wotchuka kwambiri wa PAF pa intaneti, akuumirira pakufunika kokhala tate wapakhomo mwa kusankha osati mokakamiza. Apo ayi, abambo akhoza kusowa rchidziwitso cha chikhalidwe cha anthu pamaso pa omwe ali nawo pafupi. Makamaka ngati amaonabe ndalama ngati chizindikiro cha chipambano… Zingathenso kusokoneza banja. Mayi amene amatsatira ntchito yake mofulumira kwambiri ndipo amadalira mwamuna kapena mkazi wake pa maphunziro a ana ndi kasamalidwe ka banja, ayenera kuvomereza kupereka ntchito zomwe mwatsoka zimaonedwa ngati "zachikazi". Mwachidule, zimatengera zambiri kulolerana ndi kukhulupirirana. Vuto lina loyenera kupewa: kusungulumwa. Abambo osakhala pakhomo, makamaka ngati anali ndi ntchito imene kuonana ndi anthu kunali kokhazikika, anali ndi chidwi choloŵa m’mayanjano a makolo ndi magulu ena a makolo kukambitsirana mafunso awo ndi kusunga ulalo ndi dziko lowazungulira. Abambo ena amasankha zapakatikati ndikuchepetsa moyo wawo waukatswiri kuti asamalire ana awo, komanso kutsata zolinga zawo: kupanga bizinesi, kuphunzitsanso, ntchito yopanga ... bambo ndi kusintha osati kusankha moyo kwa zaka zikubwerazi. Kusinkhasinkha monga banja?
Kuti mumve zambiri…
- Paternity leave pochita
- Buku la Damien Lorton: "Abambo ndi amayi ngati ena"
(1) Phunziro la “Kodi akatswiriwa ali ndi jenda molingana ndi amuna?”, Wochitidwa ndi Sarenza mogwirizana ndi Harris Interactive pamwambo wa Tsiku la Akazi, pakati pa amuna 500 azaka 18 ndi kupitirira.