Kuyambira kubadwa kwa mwana wanga wamkazi, ndinazindikira kuti mmene amayi achichepere amaonedwera ndi osiyana kwambiri pakati pa Germany ndi France. “O, zikomo kwambiri! Ndinatero modabwa kwa agogo aamuna anga ku ward ya amayi oyembekezera. Ndinali nditangotsegula kumene mphatso yanga yobadwa ndipo ndinapeza modabwa zovala zamkati zamkati. Agogo aja adandipatsa mawu obisika panthawiyo: "Usaiwale banja lako ..."
Chochepa chimene tinganene n’chakuti zimenezi zingaoneke ngati zosatheka ku Germany, kumene atsikana amene angobereka kumene ndiye amakhala amayi ambiri kuposa akazi. Ngakhale n’kwachibadwa kuima kwa zaka ziŵiri kulera ana. Ngati sititero, timalembedwa mwamsanga ngati amayi osayenera. Mayi anga, woyamba, amandiuzabe kuti timabereka ana kuti tiziwaona akukula. Iye sanagwirepo ntchito. Koma muyenera kudziwa kuti machitidwe aku Germany amalimbikitsa amayi kuti azikhala kunyumba zikomo, makamaka, thandizo la boma. Kuonjezera apo, kusiya mwana wanu mu nanny kapena ku nazale sikofala kwambiri. Popeza kuti maola osamalira samapitirira 13 koloko madzulo, amayi omwe amabwerera kuntchito amatha kugwira ntchito maola ochepa okha. Kindergarten (nazale) amapezeka, mulimonse, kuyambira zaka 3 zokha.
"Mpatseni paracetamol!" »Ndili ndi chidwi kumva chiganizochi chikubwereza apa ana anga akangonunkhiza kapena kutentha thupi pang'ono. Izi zimandidabwitsa kwambiri chifukwa njira yamankhwala ku Germany ndi yachilengedwe. Choyamba, timadikirira. Thupi limadziteteza lokha ndipo timalola. Mankhwala ndi njira yomaliza. Mchitidwe wodzipangira tokha, kusiyidwa kwa zinthu zamakampani kumachulukirachulukira: palibe mitsuko yaying'ono, ma organic purees, matewera ochapitsidwa ... Momwemonso, azimayi akuchoka ku epidural kuti athe kubereka. Kuyamwitsanso ndikofunikira. Timauzidwa kuti n'zovuta, koma kuti tiyenera kukangamira pa chilichonse. Lero, kuchokera kumalingaliro anga aku expat, ndimadziuza ndekha kuti aku Germany ali pamavuto odabwitsa. Ndinatha popanda kudziimba mlandu, ndinaganiza zosiya kuyamwitsa pambuyo pa miyezi iwiri chifukwa mabere anga amandipweteka, sizikuyenda bwino komanso sizinalinso zosangalatsa kwa ana anga kapena kwa ine.
Ku Germany, kudya sikumasewera. Kukhala patebulo, kukhala pansi bwino, n’kofunika kwa ife. Palibe mwana amene amaseweretsa chidole pomwe timayika spoon mkamwa mwake osazindikira. Komabe, dziko lino likuganiza zokhazikitsa malo odzipereka kwa ana m'malesitilanti kuti azipita kukasangalala. Koma osati patebulo! Kusiyanasiyana kwa zakudya kumayamba m'mwezi wa 7 ndi chimanga. Madzulo makamaka, timapereka phala losakaniza ndi mkaka wa ng'ombe ndi madzi, zonse zopanda shuga. Mwanayo atakhala wolimba, timayimitsa botolo. Mwadzidzidzi, mkaka wa 2 kapena 3 wazaka kulibe.
Thandizo ndi malangizo
Ana akamamva kuwawa kwa m'mimba, amapatsidwa mankhwala a fennel, ndipo kuti akhazikike, amapatsidwa tiyi wofunda wa chamomile kuchokera m'botolo.
Kuti tilimbikitse kuyamwitsa, timamwa mowa pang'ono wosaledzeretsa.
Nthaŵi zina ku France ndimaona makolo akukalipira ana awo m’khwalala, m’paki, chinthu chimene sichikanawonedwa ku Germany. Timawadzudzula ang’ono akafika kunyumba, osati pagulu. Tinkakonda kukwapula kapena kumenya m’manja nthawi ina yapitayo, koma osatinso. Lero, chilango ndi kuletsedwa kwa TV, kapena amauzidwa kuti apite kuchipinda chawo!
Kukhala ku France kumandipangitsa kuona zinthu mosiyana, osandiuza kuti njira imodzi ndi yabwino kuposa ina. Mwachitsanzo, ndinasankha kubwerera kuntchito ana anga ali ndi miyezi 6. M'malo mwake, nthawi zina ndimawona masomphenya awiriwa kukhala ochulukirapo: anzanga aku France amalingalira za kuyambiranso ntchito yawo ndi "ufulu" mwachangu momwe ndingathere, pamene aku Germany aiwalika kwambiri.
Kukhala mayi ku Germany: manambala
Mlingo woyamwitsa: 85% pa kubadwa
Chiyerekezo cha Mwana / Amayi: 1,5
Nthawi yoyembekezera: masabata 6 prenatal ndi 8 postnatales.
Kupita kwa makolo wa zaka 1 3 mpaka amalipidwa pa 65% ya malipiro onse a kholo lomwe lasankha kusiya
ndi kotheka.