"Apa, ana samafunsidwa kuti akhale abwino."
Kodi mungandipangire keke ya ana 80? “, ndinafunsa wophika buledi. Ku Israeli, mumaphunzira kugawana nawo molawirira kwambiri. Patsiku la kubadwa kwa ana athu, timayitana anzawo onse a m'kalasi (ambiri, ali ndi zaka 40), omwe nthawi zambiri amabwera ndi abale ndi alongo awo, kapena oyandikana nawo. Amayi a Israeli nthawi zonse amagula kuwirikiza kawiri kuchuluka kwa mabuloni ndi mbale zapulasitiki, ndipo makamaka amawotcha tani ya makeke!
Amapasa anga, Palma ndi Onyx, anabadwira ku Paris milungu isanu pasadakhale. Anali ochepa kwambiri (osakwana 2 kg), ndipo mmodzi wa iwo sanali kupuma. Atangobereka kumene, anawasamutsira ku chipatala china. Zinachitika mofulumira kwambiri moti palibe amene anandifotokozera chilichonse. Mu Israyeli, mayi wamng’onoyo ali wozunguliridwa kwambiri: azamba, madokotala ndi ma doula (azimayi otsagana ndi amayi panthaŵi yonse ya mimba yake) ali kumeneko kuti amvetsere kwa iye.
Ku Israeli, ma nazale ndi okwera mtengo kwambiri, nthawi zina mpaka € 1 pamwezi.
Banja lirilonse liri ndi maphikidwe ndi machiritso ake, palibe njira MMODZI yogwirira ntchito. Mwachitsanzo, Ashkenazim, ochokera ku mayiko a Kum'maŵa kwa Ulaya, sachitira ana awo mofanana ndi Sephardim, ochokera kumpoto kwa Africa. Woyamba adzapatsa spoonful ya mowa wamphamvu ndi shuga kwa kupweteka kwa m'mimba (ngakhale kwa ana), enawo, supuni ya mafuta a azitona motsutsana ndi chifuwa.
Madokotala amalangiza kuti tiyambe kudya zakudya zosiyanasiyana ndi chinthu chokoma (monga maapulosi). Ine, ndinayamba ndi masamba, nthawizonse organic ndi nyengo. Pofika chaka chimodzi, ana anga aakazi anali akudya kale chilichonse, ngakhale hummus. Nthawi zachakudya sizinaikidwe. Nthawi zambiri cha m'ma 10 koloko m'mawa, ana amadya "aruchat esser" (chokhwasula-khwasula) ndiyeno amadyera kunyumba. Kwa nthawi yopuma, ndi yosinthikanso. Ana amagona masana, koma kuyambira kusukulu ya kindergarten, sagonanso. Imasinthidwa ndi nyengo yabata. Malo osungirako anamwino sakhala aulere, mabizinesi achinsinsi amatha kuwononga ndalama zokwana € 1 pamwezi. Ndipo timalandira chithandizo chochepa.
Pakati pa Ashkenazim, mwana akadwala m'mimba, amapatsidwa supuni ya mowa wamphamvu. Pakati pa Sephardim, supuni yamafuta a azitona motsutsana ndi chifuwa ...
Pacifiers ndi zoseweretsa zofewa atatsala pang'ono kutsala, ana athu azaka 4 amaphunzitsidwa zoyenera kuchita ngati ataukira. Amayi ena amakhala tcheru nthawi zonse, ine ndimakhala womasuka mwachibadwa. Mnzanga wina, pa mikangano yotsiriza, anangobwerera kumene kunali kosavuta kubisala ndi stroller. Kumeneko, mumaphunzira mwamsanga kuti musachite mantha komanso kuti mukhale tcheru nthawi zonse. Kuopa kwakukulu kwa amayi a Israeli ndi ankhondo (mayi aliyense amene amati amasangalala kutumiza ana ake kunkhondo mabodza!).
Panthaŵi imodzimodziyo, ana mu Israyeli ali ndi ufulu wambiri : ali ndi zaka 4 amapita kusukulu paokha kapena kupita kunyumba za anzawo osawaperekeza. Poyambirira kwambiri, amakhala ndi mayankho ambiri kwa akuluakulu. Nthawi zambiri amatanthauziridwa molakwika ndipo timawapeza ataleredwa moyipa. Koma ife tiribe mitundu yofanana ya ulemu, ana sayenera kunena “zikomo” pa chirichonse. Ana anga aakazi amapanga moyo wawo, ndimawalola kuti adziwe dziko lapansi. Nthawi zina zimakhala zosapiririka, koma ndimawapeza okhutiritsa komanso osangalala! Ku France, nthawi zambiri ndimamva makolo akunena kuti: “Ukungokokomeza, siyani nthawi yomweyo! Aisrayeli analola kutsetsereka mosavuta. Nthaŵi zina ndimasonyezedwa za ulesi wanga, koma kungoti m’dziko lathu, sitidabwa ngati mwanayo ndi wanzeru kapena ayi. Zachabechabe ndi mbali ya ubwana. Kumbali ina, aliyense amapita kumeneko kukalandira malangizo awo. Anthu ali ndi maganizo pa chilichonse ndipo sazengereza kupereka. Ndikuganiza kuti ndi chifukwa kumeneko, pali malingaliro amphamvu kwambiri a gulu, ngati kuti ndife a m'banja lalikulu kwambiri.
Ana anga aakazi akakhala ndi malungo, ndimaviika masokosi awo mu vinyo wosasa ndikuwaika pamapazi awo. Ndizothandiza kwambiri!