"Ndinabadwira ku France ndipo ndimamva Chifalansa, komanso Chipwitikizi chifukwa banja langa lonse limachokera kumeneko. Ndili mwana, ndinkakhala ndi tchuthi m’dzikoli. Chilankhulo cha amayi ndi Chipwitikizi ndipo panthawi imodzimodziyo ndimakonda kwambiri France. Ndikolemera kwambiri kukhala wamitundu yosiyanasiyana! Nthawi yokhayo yomwe izi zimabweretsa vuto ndi pamene France ikusewera mpira ndi Portugal… M'masewera akuluakulu apitawa, ndinali ndi nkhawa kwambiri moti ndinagona msanga. Kumbali ina, pamene dziko la France linapambana, ndinakondwerera pa Champs-Élysées!

Ku Portugal, timakonda kukhala kunja

Ndimalera mwana wanga kuchokera ku zikhalidwe zonse ziwiri, kulankhula Chipwitikizi kwa iye ndikukhala ndi maholide kumeneko. Ndi chifukwa chathu chisangalalo - Chikhumbo cha dziko. Kuonjezera apo, ndimakonda kwambiri momwe timalerera ana m'mudzi mwathu - ang'onoang'ono amakhala odziwa zambiri ndipo amathandizana kwambiri. Portugal kwa iwo, ndipo mwadzidzidzi makolo, ndi ufulu! Timakhala makamaka kunja, pafupi ndi banja lathu, makamaka tikachokera kumudzi ngati kwathu.

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Zikhulupiriro zakale ndizofunikira ku Portugal…

"Kodi munaphimba mutu wa mwana wanu?" Ngati simutero, zidzabweretsa tsoka! », Anatero agogo anga pamene Eder anabadwa. Zinandidabwitsa, sindine wamatsenga, koma banja langa lonse limakhulupirira diso loyipa. Mwachitsanzo, ndinauzidwa kuti ndisalowe m’tchalitchi pamene ndinali ndi pakati, kapena kulola kuti mwana wanga wakhanda akhudzidwe ndi munthu wokalamba kwambiri. Portugal idakali dziko lokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi zikhulupiriro zakalezi, ndipo ngakhale mibadwo yatsopano imasunga china chake. Kwa ine, izi ndizopanda pake, koma ngati izi zimatsimikizira amayi ena achichepere, ndibwino kwambiri!

Chipwitikizi agogo mankhwala

  • Polimbana ndi malungo, pakani pamphumi ndi mapazi ndi vinyo wosasa kapena kudula mbatata zomwe zimayikidwa pamphumi pa mwanayo.
  • Polimbana ndi kudzimbidwa, ana amapatsidwa supuni ya mafuta a azitona.
  • Pofuna kuthetsa ululu m'mano, m'kamwa mwa mwana amapakidwa ndi mchere wambiri.

 

Ku Portugal, supu ndi malo

Kuyambira miyezi 6, ana amadya chilichonse ndipo amakhala patebulo ndi banja lonse. Sitiopa zokometsera kapena zamchere. Mwina chifukwa chake, mwana wanga amadya chilichonse. Kuyambira miyezi 4, timapereka chakudya choyamba cha mwana wathu: phala lopangidwa ndi ufa wa tirigu ndi uchi wogula okonzeka m'ma pharmacies omwe timasakaniza ndi madzi kapena mkaka. Mwamsanga, timapitirira ndi purees yosalala ya masamba ndi zipatso. Msuzi ndi malo. Chodziwika kwambiri ndi caldo verde, wopangidwa kuchokera ku mbatata yosakanizidwa ndi anyezi, komwe timayikapo masamba a kabichi ndi mafuta a azitona. Ana akamakula, mukhoza kuwonjezera tinthu tating'ono ta chorizo ​​​​.

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Ku Portugal, mayi wapakati ndi wopatulika

Okondedwa anu sazengereza kukupatsani malangizo, ngakhale kukuchenjezani ngati mudya maapulo osasenda kapena chilichonse chomwe chili chosayenera kwa mayi wapakati. Apwitikizi ndi oteteza kwambiri. Timakhala nawo bwino kwambiri: kuyambira sabata la 37, mayi wamng'onoyo akuitanidwa kuti ayang'ane kugunda kwa mtima wa mwanayo tsiku ndi tsiku ndi dokotala wake wobereka. Boma limaperekanso magawo okonzekera kubereka komanso amapereka makalasi otikita minofu makanda. Madokotala a ku France amakakamiza kwambiri kulemera kwa amayi amtsogolo, pamene ku Portugal, ndi wopatulika, timasamala kuti tisamupweteke.

Ngati wanenepa pang'ono, zili bwino, chofunika kwambiri ndi chakuti mwanayo ali wathanzi! Choyipa ndichakuti amayi sakuwonekanso ngati mkazi. Mwachitsanzo, palibe kukonzanso kwa perineum, pamene ku France, kubwezeredwa. Ndimasirirabe amayi a Chipwitikizi, omwe ali ngati asilikali ang'onoang'ono abwino: amagwira ntchito, amalera ana awo (nthawi zambiri popanda kuthandizidwa ndi amuna awo) ndipo amapezabe nthawi yodzisamalira ndi kuphika.

Kulera ana ku Portugal: manambala

Nthawi yoyembekezera: masiku 120 100% analipira, kapena 150 masiku 80% analipira, monga ankafunira.

Paternity leave:  masiku 30 ngati afuna. Iwo Mulimonsemo amakakamizika kutenga theka la izo, kapena masiku 15.

Chiwerengero cha ana pa mkazi aliyense:  1,2

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"Amayi a dziko lapansi" Buku lalikulu la othandizira athu, Ania Pamula ndi Dorothée Saada, latulutsidwa m'masitolo ogulitsa mabuku. Tiyeni tizipita !

€ 16,95, Mabaibulo oyamba

 

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