Kukhala mayi ku Panama: umboni wa Arleth, amayi a Alicia

Arleth ndi banja lake amakhala ku France, Brittany, ku Dinan. Ndi mwamuna wake, wophika mkate, ali ndi kamtsikana kakang'ono, Alicia, wazaka 8. Mimba, maphunziro, moyo wabanja… Arleth akutiuza momwe amayi amakhalira amayi m'dziko lawo, Panama.

Ku Panama, tili ndi kusamba kwa ana pa nthawi ya mimba

“Koma atsikana, ndikufuna kudabwa! », ndinati kwa anzanga achi French… Sanandimvetse kulimbikira kwanga. Ku Panama, palibe mimba popanda kusamba kwamwana kokonzedwa ndi abwenzi. Ndipo monga ku France, si mwambo, ndinakonza zonse ndekha. Ndinatumiza timapepala toitanira anthu, kuphika makeke, kukongoletsa nyumba ndi kuchita masewera opusa, koma ankatiseka. Ndikuganiza kuti a French anasangalala madzulo ano pamene, mwachitsanzo, amayenera kulingalira kukula kwa mimba yanga mpaka centimita yapafupi kuti apambane kamphatso kakang'ono. M'mbuyomu, tinabisa mimbayo mpaka mwezi wa 3, koma m'zaka zaposachedwa, titangodziwa kuti tili ndi pakati, timauza aliyense ndipo timakondwerera. Komanso, timatchula mwana wathu dzina lake loyamba tikangomusankha. Ku Panama, zonse zimakhala zaku America kwambiri, zimalumikizidwa ndi ngalande yomwe imagwirizanitsa maiko awiriwa pazachuma komanso pazamakhalidwe.

Ku Panama, magawo a Kaisareya amapezeka pafupipafupi

Ndinkakonda kwambiri kubadwa kwa mwana ku France. Banja lathu ku Panama linkaopa kuti ndingavutike kwambiri chifukwa kumeneko, azimayi amabereka makamaka mwa opaleshoni. Timanena kuti zimapweteka pang'ono (mwina chifukwa chakuti mwayi wopita ku epidural ndi woletsedwa), kuti tikhoza kusankha tsiku… Mwachidule, kuti ndi othandiza kwambiri. Timabelekera ku chipatala chapadera kwa mabanja olemera, ndipo kwa ena, ndi chipatala cha boma popanda mwayi wopita ku cesarean kapena epidural. Ndimaona France kukhala yabwino, chifukwa aliyense amapindula ndi chithandizo chomwecho. Ndinkakondanso ubale womwe ndidapangana ndi azamba. Ntchitoyi kulibe m'dziko langa, maudindo ofunika kwambiri amasungidwa amuna. Ndi chisangalalo chotani nanga kutsagana ndi kutsogozedwa ndi munthu wolimbikitsa, pamene akazi a m’banja sali pambali pathu.

Ku Panama, makutu a atsikana amabooledwa kuyambira pamene anabadwa

Tsiku lomwe Alicia anabadwa, ndinafunsa nesi komwe kuli dipatimenti yoboola makutu. Ndikuganiza kuti adanditenga ngati wamisala! Sindimadziwa kuti unali mwambo wa anthu ambiri aku Latin America. Sitiyenera kutero. Choncho, titangochoka m’chipinda cha amayi oyembekezera, ndinapita kukawona miyala yamtengo wapatali, koma palibe amene anavomereza! Ndinauzidwa kuti azimva ululu kwambiri. Tili ku Panama, timachita izi mwachangu kuti asavutike komanso osakumbukira tsikulo. Pamene anali ndi miyezi 6, pa ulendo wathu woyamba, chinali chinthu choyamba chimene tinachita.

Madyedwe osiyanasiyana

Chitsanzo cha maphunziro chikhoza kuwoneka chodetsedwa kwambiri pazinthu zina. Chakudya ndi chimodzi mwa izo. Poyamba, nditaona kuti ku France timangopatsa ana madzi akumwa, ndinadziuza kuti kunali kokhwimitsa zinthu kwambiri. Anthu ang'onoang'ono a ku Panamani amamwa makamaka timadziti - shisha, okonzedwa ndi zipatso ndi madzi -, amatumikira nthawi iliyonse, mumsewu kapena patebulo. Lero, ndikuzindikira kuti chakudya (chokhudzidwa kwambiri ndi United States) ndichokoma kwambiri. Zokhwasula-khwasula ndi zokhwasula-khwasula nthawi iliyonse ya tsiku zimatsimikizira tsiku la ana. Amagawidwa ngakhale kusukulu. Ndine wokondwa kuti Alicia amadya bwino ndikupewa zokhwasula-khwasulazi, koma timasowa zokometsera zambiri: Ma Petacone, cocadas, Chokao cha Panama...