Kodi nthawi zambiri mumasokonezedwa ndikulephera kuyang'ana kwambiri ntchito? Kodi mukuona ngati mulibe mwambo? Kodi mukuyimilira pamene mukuyesera kuthetsa vuto lofunika kapena kumvetsetsa nkhani yovuta? Dzithandizeni kuti "musonkhane" potsatira lamulo losavutali.
Tiyeni tiyambe ndi chachikulu. Zomwe mukufunikira ndikuwona momwe zimakhalira, zotsatira zake ziyenera kukhala - popanda izo, sizingatheke kufika pamapeto. Mutha kupeza malingaliro podzifunsa mafunso atatu osavuta:
- Chidzakuchitikirani ndi chiyani chifukwa cha zomwe mwachita kapena ganizoli mumphindi zisanu?
- Pambuyo pa miyezi 5?
- Ndipo pambuyo pa zaka 5?
Mafunso awa atha kugwiritsidwa ntchito pafupifupi chilichonse. Chinthu chachikulu ndikuyesera kukhala woona mtima kwambiri ndi inu nokha, kuti musayese "kutsekemera mapiritsi" kapena kudziletsa kuti mukhale oona mtima. Nthawi zina kuti muyankhe moona mtima mudzafunika kusanthula zakale, mwina zokumana nazo zowawa ndi kukumbukira.
Kodi zimagwira ntchito bwanji?
Tinene pompano mukufuna kudya maswiti. Kodi chingachitike ndi chiyani pakadutsa mphindi zisanu ngati mutachita izi? Mutha kukhala ndi mphamvu zambiri. Kapena mwina kudzutsidwa kwanu kudzasanduka nkhawa - kwa ambiri aife, shuga amagwira ntchito motero. Pankhaniyi, kudya bar kuyenera kusiyidwa, makamaka chifukwa zikutheka kuti nkhaniyi siikhala pa chokoleti chimodzi chokha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mudzasokonezedwa kwa nthawi yayitali, ndipo ntchito yanu idzawonongeka.
Ngati muyimitsa nkhani yofunikira ndikupita ku Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia), chidzachitike ndi chiyani patatha mphindi 5? Mwinamwake mudzataya zotsalira za momwe mukugwira ntchito ndipo, kuwonjezera apo, mudzayamba kukhumudwa kuti aliyense wozungulira ali ndi moyo wosangalatsa kuposa wanu. Ndiyeno - ndi mlandu chakuti wotere wapakatikati kuwononga nthawi.
Zomwezo zikhoza kuchitika ndi ziyembekezo zanthaŵi yaitali. Zidzakuchitikirani bwanji m'miyezi 5 ngati simukhala pansi pano polemba zolemba zanu ndikukonzekera mayeso a mawa? Ndipo patatha zaka 5, ngati pamapeto pake mudzamaliza gawoli?
Zoonadi, palibe aliyense wa ife amene angadziwe zomwe zidzachitike m'miyezi 5 kapena zaka, koma zotsatira zina zingathe kuneneratu. Koma ngati njira iyi sikukupangitsani chilichonse koma kukayikira, yesani njira yachiwiri.
"Plan B"
Ngati zimakuvutani kulingalira zotsatira za zosankha zanu pakapita nthawi, dzifunseni kuti: “Kodi ndingamulangize chiyani mnzanga wapamtima pamenepa?”
Nthawi zambiri timamvetsetsa kuti zochita zathu sizingabweretse zabwino zilizonse, koma tikupitilizabe kuyembekezera kuti zinthu zidzatipindulira modabwitsa.
Chitsanzo chophweka ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Kaŵirikaŵiri, kupenya pa tepi sikumatipangitsa kukhala achimwemwe kapena amtendere, sikutipatsa mphamvu, sikutipatsa malingaliro atsopano. Ndipo komabe dzanja limafikira pa foni ...
Tangoganizani kuti mnzanu amabwera kwa inu n’kunena kuti: “Nthawi zonse ndikapita ku Facebook (bungwe lochita zinthu monyanyira loletsedwa ku Russia), ndimasowa mtendere, sindipeza malo. Kodi mukupangira chiyani?" Mumamupangira chiyani? Mwinamwake muchepetseninso pa malo ochezera a pa Intaneti ndikupeza njira ina yopumula. Ndizodabwitsa kuti momwe timaunika momwe zinthu ziliri zimakhalira mopanda nzeru komanso momveka bwino tikafika kwa ena.
Ngati muphatikiza ulamuliro wa "atatu asanu" ndi «pulani B», mudzakhala ndi chida champhamvu mu zida zanu zankhondo - ndi chithandizo chake mudzapeza malingaliro, bwererani kumveka bwino kwa malingaliro ndi kuthekera kokhazikika. Chifukwa chake, ngakhale mutayimitsidwa, mutha kudumpha patsogolo.