Psychology

Omwe ali okondwa m'chikondi, ntchito kapena moyo nthawi zambiri amanenedwa kuti ali ndi mwayi. Mawu awa angayambitse kutaya mtima, chifukwa amathetsa talente, ntchito, chiopsezo, amachotsa ubwino kwa iwo omwe adalimba mtima ndikupita kukagonjetsa zenizeni.

Kodi chenicheni ndi chiyani? Izi ndi zomwe adachita ndi zomwe adazipeza, zomwe adatsutsa komanso zomwe adaziyika pachiwopsezo, osati mwayi wodziwika bwino, womwe suli kanthu koma kutanthauzira mokhazikika kwa zenizeni zozungulira.

Iwo sanali «mwayi». Iwo sanali «anayesa mwayi wawo» - palibe chamtundu. Iwo sanali kutsutsa mwayi, koma iwo eni. Iwo adatsutsa luso lawo pa nthawi yomwe inali nthawi yoti achite ngozi, tsiku lomwe anasiya kubwereza zomwe ankadziwa kale kuchita. Patsiku limenelo, iwo ankadziwa chisangalalo chosabwerezabwereza: iwo anali kutsutsa moyo umene umunthu wake, malinga ndi wafilosofi wa ku France Henri Bergson, ndi kulenga, osati kulowererapo kwaumulungu kapena mwayi, wotchedwa mwayi.

Inde, kulankhula za inu nokha monga munthu wamwayi kungakhale kothandiza. Ndipo pakuwona kudzidalira, kudziwona ngati munthu wamwayi ndikwabwino. Koma chenjerani ndi gudumu la Fortune likutembenuka. Pali chiopsezo chachikulu kuti tsiku lomwe izi zichitika, tidzayamba kumuimba mlandu chifukwa cha kusinthasintha kwake.

Ngati timawopa moyo, ndiye kuti muzochitika zathu nthawi zonse padzakhala chinachake cholungamitsa kusachita kwathu

Sitingathe kutsutsa "mwayi," koma zili ndi ife kupanga mikhalidwe yomwe mwayi umatuluka. Poyambira: siyani malo abwino omwe mumawadziwa. Kenako - siyani kumvera chowonadi chonyenga, mosasamala kanthu za komwe chikuchokera. Ngati mukufuna kuchitapo kanthu, nthawi zonse padzakhala anthu ambiri pafupi nanu omwe angakutsimikizireni kuti izi sizingatheke. Lingaliro lawo lidzakhala lowolowa manja popereka zifukwa zomwe simuyenera kuchita chilichonse monga momwe zimakhalira pamene akufunika kuchita zinazake.

Ndipo potsiriza, tsegulani maso anu. Kuwona mawonekedwe a zomwe Agiriki akale adatcha Kairos - nthawi yabwino, mphindi yabwino.

Mulungu Kairos anali wadazi, komabe anali ndi ponytail yopyapyala. Nkovuta kugwira dzanja loterolo - dzanja limatsetsereka pa chigaza. Zovuta, koma sizingatheke kwathunthu: muyenera kulunjika bwino kuti musaphonye mchira wawung'ono. Umu ndi momwe maso athu amaphunzitsidwa, akutero Aristotle. Diso lophunzitsidwa bwino ndi zotsatira za zochitika. Koma zochitika zingathe kumasula ndi kukhala akapolo. Zonse zimatengera momwe timachitira ndi zomwe timadziwa komanso zomwe tili nazo.

Tikhoza, akutero Nietzsche, kutembenukira ku chidziwitso ndi mtima wa wojambula kapena ndi mzimu wonjenjemera. Ngati timaopa moyo, ndiye kuti muzochitika zathu nthawi zonse padzakhala chinachake cholungamitsa kusachitapo kanthu. Koma ngati tikutsogozedwa ndi chibadwa cholenga, ngati titenga chuma chathu ngati ojambula, ndiye kuti tidzapeza mmenemo zifukwa chikwi zoyezera kulumpha ku zosadziwika.

Ndipo pamene zimenezi zosadziwika zidziŵika, pamene tidzimva kukhala omasuka m’dziko latsopano lino, ena adzanena za ife kuti ndife odala. Adzaganiza kuti mwayi udatigwera kuchokera kumwamba, ndipo adayiwala. Ndipo akupitirizabe kuchita kalikonse.

Siyani Mumakonda