Psychology

Nkhani zingapo zochokera ku zomwe ndakumana nazo zakukulitsa ufulu mwa mwana wamkazi wazaka ziwiri.

“Kutsanzira munthu wamkulu n’kosangalatsa kwambiri kuposa kutsanzira khanda”

M'chilimwe ndi mwana wamkazi wa zaka 2 ndi khobiri, anapuma ndi agogo awo. Mwana wina anafika - Seraphim wa miyezi 10. Mwanayo anakwiya, amanjenjemera, anayamba kutsanzira mwanayo m'chilichonse, kulengeza kuti nayenso anali wamng'ono. Ndinayamba kuchitira mu thalauza langa, kunyamula mabele a Seraphim ndi mabotolo amadzi. Mwana wamkazi sakonda kuti Seraphim akugubuduza mu stroller, ngakhale kuti iye anasiya kalekale kukwera stroller ndi kukwera njinga yake ndi mphamvu ndi waukulu. Ulyasha amatchedwa kutsanzira Seraphim "kusewera mwana".

Sindinakonde m’pang’ono pomwe kudzichotsera ulemu kumeneku. Yankho linali "kuyambitsa ntchito ndi chidole."

Ndinayamba kuphunzitsa mwanayo kutsanzira amayi ake a Seraphim ndi kusewera ngati kuti Cherepunka (chidole chomwe ankachikonda kwambiri) ndi khanda. Banja lonse linasewera limodzi. Agogo aamuna m'mawa anatembenuka ndipo anapita kukataya pafupifupi thewera mu zinyalala, pafupifupi kuchotsedwa m'mawa ku Cherepunka. Ine, nditatha kufufuza makabati ndi ma nooks ndi makola, ndinamanga botolo lamadzi la kamba. Ndinagula chidole.

Chifukwa cha zimenezi, mwanayo anakhazika mtima pansi n’kuyamba kutengeka maganizo. Ndinayamba kusewera masewera ambiri otengera anthu. Koperani amayi a Seraphim mwatsatanetsatane. Iye anakhala kope, kalilole. Ndipo anayamba kuthandiza mwakhama kusamalira Seraphim. Mubweretsereni zoseweretsa, muthandizeni kusamba, musangalatse iye atavala. Ndi mkwatulo kuyenda ndi stroller ndi kamba, pamene Seraphim anatengedwa kuyenda.

Zinapezeka kuti zidapita patsogolo pachitukuko.

«Manyazi pa osadziwa» - mawu awiri okhumudwitsa

Mwanayo ali kale awiri ndi khobiri, amadziwa kudya ndi supuni, koma sakufuna. Zachiyani? Pafupi ndi chiwerengero chachikulu cha akuluakulu omwe amasangalala kumudyetsa, kumpsompsona, kukumbatirana, kuwerenga nthano ndi ndakatulo. N'chifukwa chiyani inu nokha?

Apanso, izi sizikundikwanira. Zodabwitsa kukumbukira ubwana wanga ndi zolembalemba mwaluso - Y. Akim «Numeyka» kubwera kudzandipulumutsa. Tsopano yatulutsidwanso chimodzimodzi ndi mafanizo omwe anali muubwana wanga - ndi wojambula Ogorodnikov, yemwe anajambula magazini ya Krokodil kwa nthawi yaitali.

Zotsatira zake, "Vova wamantha adagwira supuni." Ulya akutenga supuni, nadya yekha, ndipo atatha kudya, amaika mbale yake m'sinki ndikupukuta tebulo kumbuyo kwake. Timawerenga "Osakwanira" nthawi zonse komanso mkwatulo.

Zothandizira:

Limbikitsani kwambiri akuluakulu:

1. M. Montessori "Ndithandizeni kuchita ndekha"

2. J. Ledloff "Momwe mungalere mwana wokondwa"

Kuwerenga mimba isanayambe, panthawi komanso pambuyo pake.

Paukalamba (ngakhale, mwa lingaliro langa, ndizofunika nthawi zonse) - AS Makarenko.

Kwa mwana wazaka 1,5-2 (PR-kampani yaukulu)

— Ndine Akim. "Zovuta"

- V. Mayakovsky. "Chabwino ndi chiyani chomwe chili choyipa"

-A. Barto. "Chingwe"

Ndikhalabe "Chingwe" Barto. Osadziwikiratu poyang'ana koyamba, komanso ntchito yofunika kwambiri kwa mwana. Zikanakhala bwino zikanakhala ndi zithunzi zambiri.

Zimapereka njira yamomwe mungachitire mukakhala kuti simukudziwa kuchita zinazake - muyenera kungochita ndikuchita !!! Ndipo zonse zidzachitikadi !!!

pachiyambi:

"Lida, Lida, ndiwe wamng'ono,

Mwachabe inu munatenga chingwe cholumphira

Linda satha kudumpha

Sadzalumphira pakona! ”

ndipo pomaliza:

"Lida, Lida, ndiye, Lida!

Mawu akumveka.

Taonani, Linda uyu

Akukwera kwa theka la ola.

Ndinaona kuti mwana wanga wamkazi wakhumudwa atapeza kuti chinachake sichikuyenda bwino. Kenako anakana kusuntha kuti adziwe zomwe sizimatuluka. Sizikugwira ntchito, ndizo zonse.

Timawerenga vesi nthawi zambiri, ine nthawi zambiri kuika «Ulya» m'malo Lida. Ulya anaziphunzira ndipo nthawi zambiri amadziguguda yekha, anathamanga ndikulumpha ndi chingwe chopota "Ndawongoka, ndili m'mbali, ndikutembenuka ndikudumpha, ndinalumphira pakona - sindikanatha!"

Tsopano, ngati tikukumana ndi zovuta, ndizokwanira kuti ndinene kuti "Ulya, ulya, ndiwe wamng'ono", maso a mwanayo amatambasula, pali chidwi ndi chisangalalo kuti apite njira yovuta.

Apa ndinafunanso kuwonjezera kuti chidwi ndi chisangalalo sayenera kusokonezedwa ndi mphamvu ndi luso la mwana wamng'ono, ndi makalasi mosamala kwambiri dosed. Koma imeneyo ndi mutu wosiyana kotheratu. ndi mabuku ena, mwa njira 🙂

Siyani Mumakonda