Nthawi ya ukhanda imayambira kubadwa mpaka chaka chimodzi. Zoti muphunzitse panthawiyi?
Ana amafunika kuphunzitsidwa mmene angagwiritsire ntchito bwino makolo awo.
Mkhalidwe: Christoph, wa miyezi 8, wakuyamwitsa. Posachedwapa adakula mano ake oyamba. Mwadzidzidzi anayamba kuluma kwambiri pachifuwa cha mayi ake. Ntchito - Christophe ayenera kuphunzitsidwa lamuloli: "Muyenera kusamala ndi mano pamene mukuyamwitsa."
Amayi ake amagwiritsa ntchito nthawi yopuma: ndi mawu "Zinali zowawa kwambiri!" amachiyika pa mphasa zosewerera. Ndipo amatembenuka kwa mphindi imodzi kapena ziwiri, osanyalanyaza Christophe akulira. Pamapeto pa nthawi iyi, iye akutenga ndi kunena: "Tiyesanso, koma samalani ndi mano anu!" Panopa Christophe amamwa mowa mosamala.
Ngati aluma kachiwiri, amayi nthawi yomweyo amamuikanso pamphasa ndikumusiya mosasamala, ndikudikirira mphindi 1-2 kuti agwirizane ndi bere kachiwiri.
Chitsanzo chinanso:
- Nkhani ya Paulo, miyezi 8, mukudziwa kale kuchokera mutu woyamba. Nthawi zonse anali wosasangalala kwambiri, akulira kwa maola angapo patsiku, ngakhale kuti amayi ake nthawi zonse ankamusangalatsa ndi zokopa zatsopano zomwe zinathandiza kwa nthawi yochepa.
Ndinavomereza mwamsanga makolo anga kuti Paul anafunikira kuphunzira lamulo limodzi latsopano: “Ndiyenera kuchita zosangalatsa nthawi yomweyo tsiku lililonse. Amayi akuchita zawozawo panthawiyi. Kodi akanachiphunzira bwanji? Iye anali asanakwanitse chaka. Simungangomulowetsa m'chipinda ndikunena kuti: "Tsopano sewera nokha."
Pambuyo pa kadzutsa, monga lamulo, anali ndi maganizo abwino kwambiri. Choncho amayi anaganiza zosankha nthawi imeneyi kuti aziyeretsa kukhitchini. Atamuyika Paul pansi ndikumupatsa ziwiya zakukhitchini, adakhala pansi ndikumuyang'ana ndipo adati: "Tsopano ndiyenera kuyeretsa khitchini". Kwa mphindi 10 zotsatira, adachita homuweki yake. Paulo, ngakhale kuti anali pafupi, sanali wofunika kwambiri.
Monga momwe amayembekezeredwa, mphindi zingapo pambuyo pake ziwiya zakukhitchini zinaponyedwa pakona, ndipo Paul, akulira, anapachikidwa pamiyendo ya amayi ake ndikupempha kuti agwire. Anazolowera kuti zokhumba zake zonse zidakwaniritsidwa nthawi yomweyo. Ndiyeno china chake chinachitika chimene sankayembekezera ngakhale pang’ono. Amayi adamutenga ndikumuyikanso patsogolo pang'ono pansi ndi mawu akuti: "Ndiyenera kuyeretsa khitchini". Paulo, ndithudi, anakwiya. Adakweza mawu akulira ndikukwawira pamapazi a amayi ake. Amayi adabwerezanso zomwezo: adamutenga ndikumuyikanso patsogolo pang'ono pansi ndi mawu: “Mwanawe, ndiyenera kuyeretsa kukhitchini. Pambuyo pake, ndidzasewera nanunso » (mbiri yosweka).
Zonsezi zinachitikanso.
Ulendo wotsatira, monga momwe anavomerezera, anapita patsogolo pang’ono. Anamuika Paulo m’bwalo la maseŵera, akuima pafupi ndi maso. Amayi anapitirizabe kuyeretsa, ngakhale kuti kukuwa kwawo kunawachititsa misala. Mphindi 2-3 zilizonse adatembenukira kwa iye nati: "Choyamba ndiyenera kuyeretsa kukhitchini, kenako ndikuseweranso." Patapita mphindi 10, maganizo ake onse anali kwa Paul kachiwiri. Anali wokondwa ndiponso wonyadira kuti anapirira, ngakhale kuti ntchito yoyeretsayi sinabwere.
Anachitanso chimodzimodzi m’masiku otsatira. Nthawi iliyonse, adakonzekeratu zomwe angachite - kuyeretsa, kuwerenga nyuzipepala kapena kudya chakudya cham'mawa mpaka kumapeto, pang'onopang'ono kubweretsa nthawiyo kukhala mphindi 30. Pa tsiku lachitatu, Paulo sanalirenso. Anakhala m'bwalo lamasewera ndikusewera. Ndiye sanaone kufunika kwa cholembera, pokhapokha mwanayo atapachikidwa pa izo kotero kuti kunali kosatheka kusuntha. Paulo pang'onopang'ono anazolowera mfundo yakuti panthawiyi iye sali pakati pa chidwi ndipo sangapindule kalikonse mwa kufuula. Ndipo paokha anaganiza zochulukirapo kusewera yekha, m'malo mongokhala ndikukuwa. Kwa onse awiri, kupindula kumeneku kunali kothandiza kwambiri, kotero momwemonso ndinayambitsa theka lina la nthawi yaulere kwa ine masana.
Chaka chimodzi kapena ziwiri
Ana ambiri akangokuwa, nthawi yomweyo amapeza zomwe akufuna. Makolo amawafunira zabwino zokhazokha. Amafuna kuti mwanayo azimasuka. Nthawi zonse omasuka. Tsoka ilo njira iyi siigwira ntchito. M’malo mwake: ana onga Paulo amakhala osasangalala nthaŵi zonse. Amalira kwambiri chifukwa anaphunzira: "Kukuwa kumapangitsa chidwi." Kuyambira ali mwana, amadalira makolo awo, kotero kuti sangathe kukulitsa ndi kuzindikira luso lawo ndi zomwe amakonda. Ndipo popanda izi, n'zosatheka kupeza chinachake chimene mukufuna. Samvetsetsa kuti makolo nawonso ali ndi zosowa. Nthawi yotuluka m'chipinda chimodzi ndi amayi kapena abambo ndi njira yothetsera pano: mwanayo sakulangidwa, amakhala pafupi ndi kholo, koma samapeza zomwe akufuna.
- Ngakhale mwana akadali wamng'ono kwambiri, ntchito «I-mauthenga» pa «Time Out»: "Ndiyenera kuyeretsa." "Ndikufuna ndimalize chakudya changa cham'mawa." "Ndiyenera kuyimba." Sizingakhale molawirira kwambiri kwa iwo. Mwanayo amawona zosowa zanu ndipo nthawi yomweyo mumataya mwayi wodzudzula kapena kunyoza mwanayo.
Chitsanzo chomaliza:
- Kumbukirani Patrick, "zowopsya za gulu lonse"? Mwana wazaka ziwiri amaluma, kumenyana, kutulutsa zidole ndikuziponya. Nthawi zonse, amayi amabwera ndikumudzudzula. Pafupifupi nthawi zonse amalonjeza kuti: "Mukachitanso kamodzinso, tipita kwathu." Koma sizitero.
Mungachite bwanji pano? Ngati Patrick wapweteka mwana wina, "mawu" achidule angapangidwe. Gwirani pansi (khalani pansi), ndikuyang'ana molunjika kwa iye ndikugwira manja ake m'manja mwanu, nenani: "Imani! Ilekeni tsopano!” Mukhoza kupita naye ku ngodya ina ya chipinda, ndipo popanda kulabadira Paulo, kutonthoza «wozunzidwayo». Patrick akaluma kapena kumenyanso munthu, muyenera kuchitapo kanthu nthawi yomweyo. Popeza akadali wamng’ono ndipo n’zosatheka kumutulutsa yekha m’chipindamo, mayi ake ayenera kusiya gululo. Pa nthawi yopuma, ngakhale ali pafupi, samamusamalira kwambiri. Ngati akulira, mukhoza kudziwa: "Mukadekha, titha kubweranso." Motero, amatsindika zabwino. Ngati kulira sikutha, onse amapita kwawo.
Palinso nthawi yotuluka: Patrick adachotsedwa kwa ana ndi milu ya zidole zosangalatsa.
Mwanayo akangosewera mwamtendere kwakanthawi, mayi ake amakhala pansi kwa iye, kumutamanda ndi kumusamalira. Choncho kuganizira zabwino.