Osatengera "akazi" mozama

Atsikana aang'ono kapena amayi omwe akhala m'banja kwa nthawi yaitali ndipo alibe chidziwitso cha maubwenzi ndi ma psychotypes ena, popanda kuzindikira kupwetekedwa mtima, amayamba kukumana naye ngati bwenzi laubwenzi waukulu. Amagwa m’chikondi, amatsegula mitima yawo, kukhulupirirana, ndiyeno amaperekedwa movutirapo.

Wokonda akazi sangaganizidwe mozama, ubale sungamangidwe naye, sangakhutire. Kusakhutira, kusakhutitsidwa ndi kusasinthasintha ndi chikhalidwe chake. Wokonda akazi sadzatha kuima pa chimodzi, ngakhale atakhala wokongola bwanji.

Don Juan ndi:

- Zogonana. Ndiko kuti, ali ndi chilakolako chopweteka, cha pathological, chopanda thanzi chogonana. Amanyengerera "njala" yosatha. Amachotsa chosowa china ndi kugonana. Mwachidziwikire, analibe chikondi ndi kuvomerezedwa ndi amayi ake ali mwana, ndipo moyo wake wonse wakhala akuyesera kuti apeze chidwi ndi akazi. Amafuna kuti aliyense amene amakopeka naye amukonde ndi kumuvomereza. Ndipo nthawi zonse adzakhala penapake patali kuti awone mtsikana wokongola yemwe sanamukondebe.

- Psychopath ndi / kapena narcissist. Iye ali ndi "cholinga" maganizo kwa mkazi ndi vuto lalikulu ndi zomverera, iye sadziwa chimene chikondi. Amatha kusilira (narcissist) kapena kukhutitsidwa ndi chisangalalo chifukwa chokhala ndi (psychopath). Mulimonsemo, mkazi ali ndi kumverera kwa «cholinga».

Narcissus sawona mkazi weniweni wokhala ndi zofooka zonse ndi zofooka, koma amawona Dona Wabwino Wokongola (omwe, komabe, akhoza kutsika mtengo nthawi iliyonse). A psychopath amawona mwa mkazi chinthu chokondweretsa kukhala nacho, kudziwonetsera, chomwe chiyenera kukhala chokongola m'mawonekedwe, komanso, chokonda, chokoma mtima, komanso chachigololo.

Chotsatira chake, timawona kuti mwamuna woteroyo sali woyenera kukhala pachibwenzi chenicheni.

Kodi mungadziwe bwanji raki?

“Nthawi zonse amakakamiza zinthu. Iye ali proactive, nthawi yomweyo kuitana, nthawi yomweyo kupanga nthawi yokumana, nthawi yomweyo amayesa kukwaniritsa kugonana.

- Amanyengerera mwachangu m'njira zonse zomwe angathe. Nthawi zonse amawoneka bwino, amadziyang'anira mosamala. Amadzidalira, amadziwa kukopa ndi kukongola kwa mkazi.

- Nthawi zonse amapereka mayamiko omwe amatsindika zachikazi ndi kugonana kwa chinthu chokhudzidwa. Amalankhula ndendende ngati mkazi m'lingaliro la jenda, akuti mawu omwe amaphwanya malire aubwenzi, amapanga ubale wapamtima m'malingaliro.

- Amagwiritsa ntchito tactile kukhudzana. Nthawi zambiri amakhudza mkazi panthawi yokambirana, koma amachita mwaluso, mosasamala.

- M'mawu ake, mutha kuwona kusamveka bwino, kapena «cholinga», zingawonekere kwa inu kuti amakufananitsani ndi chinthu. Angaike patsogolo matsenga, monga kunena kuti mkazi ayenera kukhala ndi zovala zamkati zamtengo wapatali, zodzikongoletsera, kapena stilettos. Koma nthawi zonse mkazi sazindikira nthawi yomweyo zomwe zidamusokoneza m'mawu a wonyengererayo.

- Kupereka chidwi kwambiri kwa iwe ngati mkazi, sadzakhalanso ndi chidwi ndi iwe monga munthu. Nthawi zina azimayi amafunsa mafunso angapo okhudza zokonda kuti anyenge dona, kuti apange chinyengo cha zolinga zazikulu. Koma chibwenzi chikayamba, chidwi cha umunthu wanu chimatha kwinakwake, chiyanjano chimafika pakugonana basi.

- Iye alibe chidwi ndi mavuto anu, ntchito, banja, ana, okondedwa. Zonsezi ndi chidziwitso chopanda phindu kwa wonyenga, ndikuchifufuza - kuwononga nthawi.

Sadzawononga ndalama pa inu. About adzapulumutsa pa maubwenzi ndi inu. Amafuna kugonana popanda kuika ndalama. Zomata zimapanga mgwirizano, zomwe safunikira.

- Ngakhale muubwenzi wapamtima, mudzakhala ndi kumverera kuti palibe ubwenzi, ngati kuti simungathe kudutsa ku moyo wake mwanjira iliyonse.

— Nthawi zina malo ochezera a pa Intaneti amatha kupereka zambiri zokhudza mwamuna. Mudzawona zithunzi zambiri m'malo okongola ndi akazi osiyanasiyana. Izi zili choncho ngati sabisa chikhalidwe chake ndi moyo wake. Koma ngati womanizer wabisika, ngati amatsanzira munthu wozama ndipo izi zimamupatsa mabonasi ena, mwachitsanzo, ndizopindulitsa kwa iye kukhala pawiri, ndiye kuti simudzawona akazi ena pachithunzi chake kupatula mkazi wake kapena "ovomerezeka". ” chibwenzi.

Zoyenera kuchita mutakumana ndi mwamuna wachikondi

1. Musaganize kuti asintha. Azimayi ambiri omwe sakudziwa zambiri amangoganizira zongopeka kuti angathe kuchiza kusweka mtima ndi chikondi chawo. Amakhulupirira kuti ali chonchi chifukwa analibe “chikondi chenicheni” panobe. Atsikana onse akale sanagwirizane naye, ndipo yekhayo amamukonda kwambiri ndipo amamanga maubwenzi oterowo omwe angamusinthe. Osapusitsidwa ndi chinyengo. Munthu amalimbikitsidwa kuchotsa chitsanzo pokhapokha pamene akuvutika ndi izo, ndipo kusintha kumafuna zaka zingapo ntchito ndi katswiri psychotherapist. Pakalipano, wokonda akazi amasangalala ndi khalidwe lake lachizolowezi, sangasinthe.

2. Osadziimba mlandu. Pamene Casanova akunyenga kapena kusiya, atsikana ndi amayi ambiri amayamba kudziimba mlandu, akuganiza kuti: ndinalakwa chiyani? ndipo ndikadadzisamalira bwino, ndinali wofewa, wachikazi, wachigololo, mwina sakanachoka? Si vuto lanu, si za inu, ndipo musayese kudzikonza nokha ku zosowa za mwamuna wosasinthasintha ndikusunga ubalewu. kugonana - ndi pathology. Ndipo ngati tsopano mwamasuka ku ubale wabodza ndi munthu wopanda thanzi, ndizabwino.

3. kuthetsa chibwenzicho msanga. Dzifunseni nokha funso, kodi mukufunikira mgwirizano wotero: wopanda chikondi, ubwenzi wauzimu, maudindo? Ngati muli ndi malingaliro, ngati muli ndi chidwi chokhala pachibwenzi chachikulu, Don Juan amatsutsana ndi inu, akhoza kukupwetekani kwambiri, kukuvulazani. Mudzavutika ndikudziimba mlandu. Tsegulani mtima wanu kwa mwamuna wodalirika, wokhulupirika yemwe angakuyamikireni ndikusankhani kuti mukhale pachibwenzi chachikulu.