Ndani amati chilimwe amati kusambira, dziwe losambira, gombe, mtsinje… komanso kukhala tcheru pa chiopsezo cha kumira. Ku France, kufa mwangozi kumayambitsa kufa kwa munthu m'modzi chaka chilichonse (theka lake m'nyengo yachilimwe), zomwe zimapangitsa kufa kwangozi zatsiku ndi tsiku pakati pa anthu ochepera zaka 1. Koma mwa kusamala pang’ono, ngozi zambiri zingapewedwe. M'nkhani yofalitsidwa m'magazini Mbali yowala ndipo atawonedwa ndi Parole de Mamans, Natalie Livingston, mayi yemwe wakhala akutsogolera kafukufuku womira kwa zaka zingapo, amapereka uphungu wake kwa makolo onse omwe akufuna kukhala ndi chilimwe chamtendere ndi madzi.
1. Fotokozani kuopsa kwake
Mosakayikira, muuzeni mwana wanu momveka bwino tanthauzo la kumira ndipo muthandizeni kumvetsa kufunika kotsatira malamulo ena.
2. Kufotokozera zachitetezo
Choopsacho chikadziwika, mukhoza kuika malamulo ena kuti muwatsatire. Auzeni momveka bwino kumene kuli kotheka kusambira, kudumpha, kufunika kwa khosi lonyowa musanalowe m'madzi, kuti musathamangire dziwe, kuti musalowemo popanda kukhalapo kwa munthu wamkulu , etc.
3. Zimitsani foni yanu
Kumira kudachitika mwachangu. Kuyimba foni, meseji yolembera kungakhale kokwanira kutisokoneza ndikuyiwala, kwa mphindi zingapo, kuyang'ana ana. Chifukwa chake Natalie Livingston amalangiza kuyika foni yanu mumayendedwe andege, kapena kukhazikitsa chikumbutso mphindi iliyonse kuti mukumbukire kuyang'ana mmwamba.
4. Musamakhulupirire kuti ena amayang’anira ana anu
Mudzakhala tcheru nthawi zonse kuposa ena.
5. Dzipatseni nokha ndi ana yopuma
Chifukwa chakuti tcheru chanu chikhoza kuchepa ndipo chifukwa chakuti ndi bwino kupuma, aliyense apume pamene akutuluka m’madzi. Mwina ndi nthawi ya ayisikilimu?!
6. Ana azivala zovala zodzitetezera
Sizingakhale zoseketsa kwambiri, koma ndizo zokha zothandizira zoyandama zomwe zimatsatira malamulo.
7. Phunzitsani ana za msinkhu wawo poyerekezera ndi kuya kwa madzi.
Asonyezeni kuya kwa kutalika kwawo ndi kumene sayenera kupita.
8. Phunzitsani lamulo la 5 lachiwiri
Ngati wina ali pansi pa madzi, anawo ayambe kuwerengera mpaka 5. Ngati sakuwona munthuyo akukwera patatha masekondi asanu, adziwitse munthu wamkulu mwamsanga.
9. Phunzitsani ana kulemekeza malo aumwini
Palibe chifukwa chomamatira m'madzi, pachiwopsezo chopangitsa ena mantha.
10. Ana akamaonetsa, pezani mpata wopendanso malamulo achitetezo.
"Amayi penyani, onani, zomwe ndingachite!" »: Mwana wanu akakuuzani zimenezi, nthawi zambiri amakhala kuti watsala pang’ono kuchita zinthu zoopsa. Tsopano ndi nthawi yokumbukira malamulo.